"On the flip side, overlooking the dishes in the sink or forgetting to check your personal email remain very legible ways to “do” man."

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"And one of the most legible ways to “do” woman is—still!—to care about things like what your house looks like when company comes over or whether you’ve responded to all the birthday party invites your kid received."

The desire to see institutions shamed is *massive.* We want them caught in their hypocrisy. I feel it so strongly. But does it actually make it easier to connect people with care?

That's what this piece — and the really excellent comments — are trying to explore:

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Anyone who's worked in non-profits, religious or otherwise, knows that the basic methodology here is flawed — if someone refers her to another organization, often an organization that church partners with.....it's still marked as a NO.

But there's a reason this is resonating

or absolutely free from your local library

and recipes on the gd website!

exactly

Steve is like GET MY BEANS OUT OF YOUR RECIPE

there's a potential argument to be made about some form of postmodern pastiche going on but I also don't think people fiddling around with this stuff realize the provenance of the knowledge these LLMs are drawing on

You spend hours refining your queries to try and approximate what could be accomplished in a fraction of the time by.....reading or looking at a table of contents

Like, my dude, there is a reason people do this for a job

Quality of life isn't, actually, about the quality of your life. It's about the quality of everyone's. Until we recognize that fact, this list will continue to devolve: a methodically complex and ridiculously precise ranking of increasingly bleak options:

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also talk about something that you could never get published basically anywhere — something that's so dependent on Pete's inimitable voice. Imagine how the NYT Opinion section would edit this!!!