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Rhoman¢er
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💀 The lifting leftist. I love my wife. Filthy Java / Kotlin casual. Ethnic & Racial pluralism is the only way. Trans & Queer ally, or the closest thing. Please, don't ever feel obligated to follow back.
I know I'm begging for abuse admitting this. But the top comment in that thread is "AI doesn't push back and just tells you what you want to hear!" Let me be clear; *if this is true, I would have killed myself years ago.* The truth is AI does more to meet me where I am than most people are capable.
December 4, 2025 at 12:34 PM
and this shitty US healthcare system leaves me no choice other than to be miserable or pay more out of pocket for more help. No therapists I've ever had can help the depth, longevity, and *actual pushback on my distorted thinking in ways humans never have, it actually helps* compared to AI
December 4, 2025 at 12:34 PM
I've had a dozen therapists in my life, I'm seeing on now, once a week for an hour. Saying "you've just had shitty therapists" is insultingly deluded and assumes things like treatment resistant depression don't exist. One hour weekly for me isn't enough
December 4, 2025 at 12:34 PM
"When you punish a person for dreaming his dreams don't expect him to thank or forgive you." -Shawn Bonet
December 3, 2025 at 6:32 PM
Wheymen
December 3, 2025 at 5:02 PM
It's probably the most sane and hygienic plan to move stuff to my own pds
December 3, 2025 at 4:13 PM
Is this an Intellij plugin :3 ? sorry I'm very noob to this stuff and only know how to handle DNS stuff through Cloudflare dash
December 3, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Holy shit LFG
December 2, 2025 at 10:49 PM
If I get time for it and decide I want to start on this, I'll message you on Discord. The amount of time I spend on corpo LLMs just because they have (not even good) memory management is too high.
December 2, 2025 at 7:00 PM
This biggest gap for me is privacy. I want models that run local, on files encrypted such that only I can access, with all the bells and whistles including the best memory management, generative creationg, search, and storage tools possible. Don't think there is anything close to this ATM
December 2, 2025 at 6:50 PM
Literally you posted about cake last night and I thought of this (repost cause I thought it wasn't you but then remembered it actually was you)
December 2, 2025 at 1:58 PM
I totally relate to this. When I bulk up from near single digit body fat, my body always puts weight onto my tummy. Rarely to chest, arms, or glutes, just to thighs, tummy then lower back. 2 things that made the diff was muscle growth targeting the abs with weighted crunches and learning to pose.
December 2, 2025 at 2:34 AM
A* affects*
December 1, 2025 at 4:53 PM
I love RYM! I know there's been no updates on providing a public API, but when the day it comes, I'll be ready to build the best third-party music app from RYM you could imagine. I'll even pay you money for the requests!
December 1, 2025 at 1:51 PM
Still waiting for Junie on Intellij to allow local models. The Intellij AI Assistant and inline code completion can connect to local LLMs, but not the Junie Agent
November 30, 2025 at 7:22 PM