Being trans and having one of the good ones is something I could never take for granted, having seen what my peers have had to endure from their own parents. That makes it cut so, so much deeper when he needs help, but I can't give it—especially when I can physically, but the roadblock is mental 💔❤️‍🩹

I'm sad, I'm scared, I'm pissed and I am so, so, SO fucking tired. I cannot do this—I haven't EVER been able to do this; there is a whole ass reason I am not a parent, that shit is deliberate—but regardless, he needs this to be done. He needs help, but man... Me fuckin' too. 😓🥺 I hate this so much.

Be the primary focus of his care at the moment. But because it was never actually prioritized as a focus for his care at all, it is now nigh the only focus of his care. He gets ALL of his care at the same VA medical center. I cannot figure out how this negligence was able to reach this extent.

On top of that, he is on both Medicare and Medicaid. And yet a condition that made it increasingly difficult to use his hands was left poorly treated for over a year, and "increasingly difficult" has been amplified to impossible. He is on chemotherapy for stage 3 renal cell carcinoma—this should NOT

While it sucks to feel helpless like this, I (not sure who is speaking, and can't speak for any of us beyond myself on this one) do recognize that it is not a shortcoming of mine that is causing his basic needs to not be met. He is a disabled veteran who lives very close to the VA medical center.

I am definitely worsening the quality of his environment. Like I said, we struggle to take care of ourself—not only is hygiene a struggle, but when he needs help meeting his basic needs, it is really fucking hard to do that when we can't even meet our own basic needs.

He is in so much pain, and I am... so fucking tired. I got one of the good ones, man. I want to take care of him so fucking bad, but I can't even take care of me. I am at his place until I find my own place, and while he says me being here is his only silver lining (I love him so fucking much, dude)

Congrats to you both!! That dress is absolutely stunning, the most beautifulest of brides 🥺🎉🍾

When "billionaires" becomes "trillionaires" imma start sweatin 😬 I have become a truther of this specific timeline lol send help

I'm just sayin, man, the rich are sacrificing the planet to get richer, the idea of people who can afford space travel ditching the planet when an alternative has been established, after it's too late for the planet to recover from the damage they did, leaving us to suffer the heat death...