Well, you are a better person than I. I host and MAGA is not allowed. The family is now split. Anyone who thinks I'm property doesn't get to eat my feast.

I don't understand how this is good advice even for non-sober people.

Can I yarn instead?

I think the key is to be honest. Tell them, I'm stressed, my tolerance is low. Let's please all work together so we don't have a blow up.
I really find admitting my faults to my kids to be helpful.