you would know this if you knew any trans or non binary people outside of seeing them in media or your fetishes in porn. just because you keep them locked away as some sort of secret guilty pleasure doesn’t mean they exist in a tiny little quiet pocket of society. go outside. diversify your life.

if we trust psychology and sociology normal for humans would mean “a massive diverse set of lives, experiences, and perceptions”. diversity IS normal. assuming that your one way of life is standard is weird, rigid, and frankly… impossible. carry on.