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Amanda Stern
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Native New Yorker. Author of 13 books. Everything I own is stained.

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Thank you, #Malala @newyorker.com 🙏♥️
November 13, 2025 at 8:19 PM
Adam did me right.

Aka: Outtakes from baby’s first AI. (Full video on my IG)
October 29, 2025 at 3:11 AM
September 3, 2025 at 5:16 PM
My 14 year old pup staring at the love of her life…

an empty barn the size of dog park.
August 14, 2025 at 11:09 PM
Extremely mad I didn’t think of this absolutely amazing tweet.
June 27, 2025 at 6:59 PM
I went to the first-ever New York Times Well Festival and took notes!

Read them in today's How to Live Newsletter. Link in first comment.
May 14, 2025 at 7:07 PM
This workshop is sold out! If you missed the moment, don’t worry—I’ll hopefully offer it again soon.
April 23, 2025 at 7:14 PM
April 15, 2025 at 8:21 PM
Not everything is as it appears.

I’m spilling all about my disastrous Home Exchange in Malta.

You can read the gruesome details in the How to Live Newsletter.

www.thehowtolivenewsletter.org/p/moldymalta
April 4, 2025 at 5:31 PM
I am not a religious person. My Jewish parents, native New Yorkers, grew up hiding their ethnicity. I was raised on Christmas, didn’t have a Bat Mitzvah, or go to synagogue.

Until yesterday, I never believed God was a sentient being, but guys…look who lives down the block from me in Malta.
March 7, 2025 at 8:02 AM
Catching up with my mother on FaceTime.

This is what she looks like.
March 5, 2025 at 9:20 PM
I don’t know how this happened, but I took these on my iPhone.
March 5, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Day 3 in Malta: Scotch Tape narrow sidewalks! Most beautiful houses. Haven’t figured out bus system yet so haven’t left Rabat. Too broke to take cabs everywhere. Food is top notch. Everything is SO AFFORDABLE! Today I give you doors.
February 18, 2025 at 9:04 AM
Day 2 in Malta
February 16, 2025 at 5:44 PM
Day 1 in Malta. Impressions: it’s humid and moldy. My allergies are on full volume, and I have jet lag. Everything is limestone, the sidewalks are incredible narrow, the buildings are stunning, the food is fantastic and the groceries (so far) are cheap. Can’t wait to acclimate.
February 15, 2025 at 5:19 PM
Stay tuned for our month-long adventure in #malta.
February 13, 2025 at 5:06 PM
Morning news briefing.
February 11, 2025 at 10:57 PM
Relevant
February 9, 2025 at 4:15 AM
Some Saturday morning Rorschach reading.
February 8, 2025 at 4:21 PM
January 27, 2025 at 11:06 PM
Reading all my books this weekend before they’re all outlawed.
January 19, 2025 at 4:16 AM
In other news…
January 14, 2025 at 4:49 PM
She does her own hair, don’t blame me.
January 12, 2025 at 11:12 PM
Cost to fix dicks? $129

Cost to fix unwanted pregnancies? Death
January 7, 2025 at 1:49 PM
Kendall Roy crashing the Golden Globes (before getting turned away at all the after-parties).
January 6, 2025 at 4:48 AM