Like I said, I get the skepticism and people lie and hide things, but the automatic assumptions are a turn off too for us. Like, at least maybe have a conversation with me? Don't just assume? Because if i explain thats just a friend after you assumed and you come back with "well hey 😏" nah...im good

I definitely can understand the skepticism because ive seen that from bi women myself on these apps. And you never know who could be lying. But Ive also been denied myself because I had my (gay) guy friend in a picture with me, so that means he MUST be my boyfriend, even though I state I'm SINGLE.

Oh god I cant even imagine trying in Utah. I would not survive because I also cannot name 5 gay female singers 💀

I feel like im experiencing something fairly similar though, that they dont think I'm gay enough or that I'm just expiramenting because I've only ever dated men. I'm sorry im a baby gay🥲

That would honestly make so much sense because there's no way I was getting as many likes as those notifications were saying. I tried taimi too for a little bit a while ago but didn't have any luck there either. It's rough out here, man 🥲

I have tried Her before, but I wasn't vibing with it. I wasn't getting any actual messages, but I kept getting notifications for someone liking me, but then I couldn't even see the likes. Maybe I'm just dumb and was using it wrong? I guess it doesn't hurt to try again though either way

I've also had this experience with being shoved off solely for being bi and it suuuuucks. I've been finally trying to embrace my queerness, and I truly can see myself spending the rest of my days with a woman, but it's so hard when you've only ever dated men and get overlooked because of it 🥲