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akialam.bsky.social
@akialam.bsky.social
I lost my cat this yr and broke up with my partner of 10yrs. Im trying to break a pattern I've only recently recognized. It is incredibly hard. Being alone. being in my own company. Who am I without a person to compare myself to? Who am i when i decide to no longer be the shadow to someone's light?
August 29, 2025 at 2:19 PM
I do enjoy that my personal life is going to shit as my country is also going to shit. It's the internal, external parallels for me 💜
February 13, 2025 at 6:19 PM
Today is the day I lost my best friend. She was my first pet and my biggest love. We've been through high school, undergrad, grad, and countless jobs together. I love you forever and I'm sorry we couldn't do more. I miss you so much and I just want you back. Sleep peacefully Sasha.
The start of the year has been weird. Here's a cat to off set the energies.
January 20, 2025 at 8:06 PM
The start of the year has been weird. Here's a cat to off set the energies.
January 15, 2025 at 5:15 AM
The end of thisnyear has been RUFF but I look good going through it lol
December 31, 2024 at 6:04 PM
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🚨BOYCOTT STARBUCKS🚨

Union baristas are calling on EVERYONE to NOT buy from ANY Starbucks store between Dec. 20 -Dec. 24 while the workers are on strike! Here’s how to support: x.com/sbworkersuni...
December 22, 2024 at 8:47 PM
I worked on an email for an hr and half. Hit sent. It went out with a typo and no subject. My brain is offically on vacation
December 19, 2024 at 9:09 PM
GM'd a DND halloween one shot. Attempted to make my players suspicious of the authoritative figure giving them orders. Instead, I derailed them into a discussion about the political structure of halloween creatures and monsters.
December 16, 2024 at 6:58 PM
Anyone else using Bluesky like the first time social media came into existence? Purely unflitered, uncurated, brain rot on the feed for everyone to read and judge?
December 16, 2024 at 6:21 PM
My students gifted me a beetlejuice brr box for xmas. 😭 I'm not crying, you're crying.
December 16, 2024 at 6:18 PM
Friend: Let's go out!

Me: I can't. I'm super busy...

Me being busy:
December 14, 2024 at 4:43 AM
My students have found me on social media. I now stopped using my real name, made those accts private, & stopped posting for a while.

Now they have ugly photos from when I'm teaching them. Do they get their work done? yes. Do they still crack jokes on me? Yes.

Am i doing this teaching thing right?
December 13, 2024 at 6:07 PM
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Refaat Alareer, p. 221 of If I Must Die: Poetry and Prose:
December 7, 2024 at 3:54 AM
Its not often that I make a pet post but everyone meet my lil old lady, Sasha! She is 16 going on 17. She has stage 4 kidney disease and developed anemia. The last few months have been really rough. I wanted everyone to meet my sassy lady.

Send her healing vibes for the future. Hoping for a miracle
December 6, 2024 at 4:41 AM
Can't tell if I am sad because things actually suck or if im addicted to being sad.
December 4, 2024 at 10:18 PM
Nothing brings me more joy than being called cub by Jaheria.
December 3, 2024 at 6:45 PM
My best friend who solo travels, has a travel tradition. She chases sunsets and sunrises everywhere she goes. I have a travel tradition to hike or explore the nature of a country. I have hike 2 volcanos, river rafted, and vusited a black sand beach. What is your travel tradition?
November 30, 2024 at 1:47 AM
I love traveling. I have been to Spain, Thailand, Egypt, Toronto, Iceland, Morroco, amd a large handful of states. This coming year I plan to hike the Grand Canyon. It is a bucket list item for me.
November 30, 2024 at 1:44 AM
Selfies I'm not good at but a flower photo? I can get.
#nybg #qbg #newyorkbotanicalgarden #queensbotanicalgarden #flowers #nature
November 30, 2024 at 1:37 AM
I already miss the foliage of NYC. Winter is coming in fast! 😭

#newyorkcity #NYC #nature #Fall #fallfoliage
November 25, 2024 at 7:04 PM
A few flowers from #nybg community day.
November 22, 2024 at 2:41 AM
The decision paralysis for act 3 in #bg3 is SOOOO REAL. I've stopped playing cuz its too much
November 21, 2024 at 3:36 AM
Im a recocering people pleaser and im learning what boundaries are. Sometimes that means that I can't tell if im overreacting to a situation or rightfully communicating a boundary being crossed
November 17, 2024 at 3:59 PM
The hardest part of #bg3 is not murdering minsc. Why are you so fragile!?!? 😭
November 17, 2024 at 5:05 AM