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Mark Healey
@afriendlybloke.bsky.social
A gay man who is passionate about tackling hate crime and community engagement. Founder NationalHCAW
Trump unites Europe because no one likes a bully.

#WeStandTogether with Britain #Hopefully.
February 21, 2025 at 9:33 PM
Trump unites Britain because no one likes a bully.

#WeStandTogether with Europe #Hopefully.
February 21, 2025 at 9:31 PM
Just three more boxes of blood thinners to go, 10 needles in each box, two injections each day. 15 days to go.

Can't tell you how much I loath having to give myself these shots but proud to have overcome my fear of needles.

#Self
February 21, 2025 at 9:33 AM
I don't wear items to tell you who's in my bed.

I wear so the family across the street knows they are safe.

So the couple in the restaurant know they aren't alone.

So the boy who sees me notice him looking at dresses knows I won't judge.

I wear them because some people want to make them hide.
February 12, 2025 at 10:28 AM
Morning folks - I'm looking forward to being able to go outside and have my hair cut.

Feels like I am going to look like Grizzly Adams by the time that happens.

Without the blond highlights of course.

#self
February 12, 2025 at 10:25 AM
10 years ago, out with the Lambeth Hate Crime Stall (which I created) whilst working for Lambeth Council as their Hate Crime Prevention Coordinator.

I loved touring Lambeth's Libraries with the stall, talking to people about their experiences and encouraging them to seek advice and support.
February 11, 2025 at 10:10 AM
Pleased my Bluesky profiles have been unblocked by the moderation team.

Now I can start encouraging our followers on X to move over and support us here.

@nationalhcaw.bsky.social for national hate crime work.

@londonhcblog.bsky.social is focussed on London

@rainbowboroughs.bsky.social is LGBT+
February 10, 2025 at 1:54 PM
Lovely for @llanfrancisco.bsky.social to pop in a see me today, we had a great catch up and I appreciated his company.

Thanks for the books to read and the goodies to eat.

Nom nom nom.

#Community
February 8, 2025 at 10:55 PM
Enjoying this Jones O Gymru Sweet and Salty Popcorn - thanks to @llanfrancisco.bsky.social and his partner David who sent me a bundle of goodies.

Nom nom nom

#community
February 6, 2025 at 8:46 PM
Nice to have my first visitor yesterday.

Nicholas popped in for a few hours and we had a good catch up.

#community
February 6, 2025 at 8:42 PM
Yay the odd socks are finally back.

For those that don't know my partner N had a stroke the week before our 5th anniversary back in September.

Like a pair of socks we have been separated from each other - so until we are reunited I am wearing odd socks and wishing him better.

#Family #Community
February 6, 2025 at 12:42 PM
Good to finally get the cast off & be able to shower without what looks like a leg condom.

Ankle swollen, bruised & the skin is a bit dry so I need to pamper it until it heals.

Want to get a hair and beard trim but will need to wait a few more weeks until I can safely venture out.

#self #body
February 6, 2025 at 12:11 PM
I'm in a loving relationship with a wonderful guy - who had a stroke Sept 24.

It has turned our lives upside down but I'm living in hope of happier times ahead of us

Have become a bit isolated so need to start reconnecting with people in 2025.

#Family #Social
February 6, 2025 at 11:22 AM
I work full-time for a national charity as their Community Engagement Manager for London.

And run another charity tackling hate crime in my spare time @nationalhcaw.bsky.social

I'm passionate about LGBT+ community development, cohesion & resilience @rainbowboroughs.bsky.social

#Work #Community
February 6, 2025 at 11:22 AM
This is my personal BlueSky profile for connecting with family, friends & colleagues.

I'm a 55 year old cis white male using he/him pronouns.

I am ambitious to work with others to make the world a better place, to be kind and loving, to treat others with dignity & respect.

#Self #Community
February 6, 2025 at 11:22 AM
Finally got my cast off yesterday, x-ray shows the two titanium screws they fitted, have been issued a boot to wear.

Non-weight bearing for another 4 weeks so will be taking things easy at home for a while.

#self #body #nhs
February 6, 2025 at 10:29 AM
Following Friday's surgery I had to have the cast redone as it was digging in at the heal.

Hopefully this one will do the trick.
January 20, 2025 at 5:05 PM
Ouch - can't wait for my leg to heal up. Surgery completed Friday now just have to rest and let it heal.
January 20, 2025 at 5:01 PM
I've downloaded an image of the White House flying the national flag at half-mast in respect of President Carter.

He embodied everything one would expect of a great world leader - so unlike the Trump taking office.

Going to be busy updating my social media covers for the 20th. Roll on 2029.
January 18, 2025 at 9:06 PM
Chuckajello

Struck a good relationship with the catering staff here at Lewisham Hospital.

Desert options - hot pud, ice-cream, Jello, piece of fruit.

I always ask for Vanilla ice-cream and chuck a jello.

What's your favourite flavor?
January 18, 2025 at 8:42 PM
Hospital Porridge - nom nom nom

Takes me back to my school days, who loves a bowl of porridge to start the day?
January 18, 2025 at 8:33 PM
The fortune cookie called it - I finally had my surgery on Friday, 6th time lucky after 5 cancellations. Glad to be back on the ward from recovery. Ankle aches but the pain meds are good.
January 18, 2025 at 8:29 PM
Been at Lewisham Hospital since the 6th Jan waiting for an operation to fix my ankle following a fall - 5 ops cancelled so far - will Friday be my lucky day? Fingers crossed.
January 16, 2025 at 10:33 PM
Having issues uploading my profile picture as I can see the tick top right but do not appear to be able to select it to complete the process. Might have to complete using my Laptop.
January 10, 2025 at 6:11 AM