choosing pics to post is like: so what’s it gonna be, the one that gives me body dysmorphia or the one that gives me face dysmorphia? 🤔

one time I told my ex I was upset at something he said to me while he was coked out bc it crossed my boundaries & he said, “I didn’t say all that bc I was coked out, I said it bc I was drunk” 💀💀💀 (he was indeed fucked up on coke, alcohol, & weed at the time)

hey so here’s a quick way to make a friend feel invalidated when they’re venting to you about someone: immediately explaining/empathizing with the other person’s viewpoint before validating their feelings/viewpoint