6. At any minute, there is someone who can come along and change your life. That person is you.

5. It's not your job to fix insecure people. It's your job to fix the part of you that resonated with your insecurities.

4. Stop expecting honesty from people who lie to themselves. It's a really expensive gift, cheap people can't afford it.

3. Fitting in will make you miserable. Be your own uncool, weird-ass self and whoever still wants to hang around with you then...keep them close and be weirdos together.

2. The job, the party, the relationship knowing when to leave is so important. Don't stick with the toxic environment.

1. Sometimes your old life has to fall apart before your new life can fall together. So, don't hesitate to leave the past in the past.