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Acacia Thay DëQueer - Fae/They/Xe/He/She
@acaciadequeer.bsky.social
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🎬Artist, writer, researcher, filmmaker, intimacy professional, choreographer, & educator
🧚🏻‍♂️Genderfluid disabled polyamorous
🎓Educated @ Vassar College & Principal Intimacy Professionals
🤷🏻Chronically too much & not enough

📍WEBSITE
https://acacia.gay
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Making progress on the van!

#VanBuild #Woodworking #MakerWorks #VanLife
Acacia stands inside a green wooden box that comes up to their chest. They smile cheerfully at the camera. They are I side a wood shop, and wear woodworking goggles.
July 20, 2025 at 3:32 PM
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Decisions decisions. Which brand do you like better? Behr from Home Depot, Valspar from Lowe’s, or Dutch Boy from Menards?

#PickingPaint #HomeImprovement #Painting #Lowe’s #HomeDepot #Menards
6 paint swatches are arranged on a table. They are all light blue or green.
June 13, 2025 at 5:30 PM
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My egg cracked.

#Transgender
“How I thought my transformation from puberty would go:” from a caterpillar to a chrysalis to a butterfly. “How I’ve transformed since:” Phoenix to egg to dragon.
June 4, 2025 at 3:37 PM
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At 16, a boy told me he wouldn’t have sex with me even if it was the apocalypse - like I was a bad apple with a bitter taste. Now, at the age of 28, I know how to give people a taste they can’t get enough of. Some things take time. Personally, I plan on hitting my peak at the ripe old age of 60.
June 3, 2025 at 8:51 PM
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Cuties enjoying cuddle time on the bed.

#VanLife #VanConversion #NovaScotiaDuckToller
Ana (a person) and Zuko (a dog) sit on a mattress on the floor of a van.
May 15, 2025 at 10:39 PM
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Sometimes things are dark, but that doesn’t mean they can’t be beautiful.

#Sunset #Purple #Pink
A dark purple and pink sunset.
May 15, 2025 at 1:00 AM
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Mutant dandelion. Or is it just a different variety?

#Plants #Dandelion
A hand holds a dandelion with multiple heads and a finer stem about 1” in diameter.
May 7, 2025 at 8:44 PM
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My third watercolor painting, and I can already see the improvement! I don’t know if this one is done yet or not, but I’m happy with it either way. 😊

#Watercolor #Landscape #RioGrande #Painting
A watercolor painting of the Rio Grande winding through hills on its way to Albuquerque. A picture of the Rio Grande winding through hills on its way to Albuquerque.
May 4, 2025 at 11:01 PM
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I enjoyed some watercolor painting and fruit today. 🥰🍓

#Watercolor #Painting #Strawberry #Art
I small watercolor painting of a strawberry. Acacia eating a strawberry.
April 26, 2025 at 8:50 PM
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I don’t have nice clothes. Most of my clothes are in storage. But that’s not even the problem, considering I’ve grown over an inch in the past year & my body shape has changed from testosterone. I’m trying to find something to wear for tonight. I put on some overalls & instantly felt like Tahani. 😭
Tahani from The Good Place cries as she says to Michael “I’m wearing… cargo pants.”
April 22, 2025 at 6:21 PM
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Zuko and I played ball at the park today. He’s a happy boy.🥰🐕🎾

#Toller #NovaScotiaDuckTollingRetriever #VanDog #Retriever
Zuko, an orange and white Nova Scotia Duck Tolling Retriever lies in his crate smiling at the camera with his tongue out.
April 16, 2025 at 7:17 PM
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I got a tiny iron to do my sewing with in the van. Look at how cute it is!!! 😍🐭

#Sewing #SteamIron #VanLife #VanConversion
A steam iron the size of a computer mouse. It looks like two computer mouses together, or like a Star Trek ship. It’s the Dritz Mighty Steam Iron.
April 16, 2025 at 4:24 PM
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Xe/They pronouns
April 15, 2025 at 4:45 PM
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Gender identity for the day: flighty.

#GenderIdentity #Genderfluid #Gendercreative #Xenogender #Nonbinary #Xe #They#Fae #Neopronouns
Acacia circles characters, animals, and pronouns. The pronouns are Xe, They, Fae.
April 12, 2025 at 2:55 PM
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A good walk at the park today. Spring is in the air.🌸🌿

#AnnArbor #Spring #AnnArborParks #CityPark
Acacia and Ana Bachrach smile at the camera. They wear winter coats, but it is sunny and there is green grass. There is a pond and willow trees in the background.
April 11, 2025 at 7:15 PM
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I’m feeling genderexpansive today.

#Genderfluid #Genderexpansive #Nonbinary #Transgender #Pronouns #GenderChart
April 10, 2025 at 6:36 PM
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It took 4 Joann Fabrics, but I finally found the material I was looking for to make the couch cushions for the van! Which color do you think I went with?

#Fabric #Sewing #VanConversion #CouchCushions #Upholstery #Velvet #Orange
April 10, 2025 at 12:02 AM
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I started FND treatment today.

#FunctionalSeizure #FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder #FND #FS #Seizures
Acacia holds a book called Taking Control of Your Seizures by Joel M Reiter, Donna Andrews, Charlotte Reiter, and W. Curt Lafrance, jr. Published by Oxford.
April 7, 2025 at 7:29 PM
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The colors intensifying as dusk approaches.

#Sunset #Michigan
An orange sunset lines a dark world as the blue sky sweeps across the scene.
April 7, 2025 at 12:10 AM
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It changes so rapidly.

#Sunset #Michigan
I pink, purple, and orange sunset sweeps behind some backlit trees.
April 7, 2025 at 12:06 AM
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This evening’s sunset.

#Sunset #Michigan
April 7, 2025 at 12:01 AM
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It’s been a while since I’ve felt good or safe enough to think about my gender. Fae, they, and he pronouns today please! 🥰🏳️‍⚧️
April 6, 2025 at 6:12 PM
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Whelp, the hotline was busy again today. Does anyone know of any good national resources for transgender people? Or local to Michigan?

#Transgender #USA #CrisisLine #BadPlace
Chidi says “I’m sorry your life is so difficult.” Eleanor says “I’m used to it.” Chidi responds “Okay but that’s worse. I mean you… you do get how that’s worse?”
April 2, 2025 at 11:47 PM
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Happy late Transgender Day of Visibility! As a trans person, I’m happy to live in a town that I feel fairly safe and supported in. As an example, here is the trans pride flag flying outside the @aadl.org library today.🏳️‍⚧️
The transgender pride flag flies under the American flag at the Ann Arbor District Library Malletts Creek Branch.
April 1, 2025 at 5:13 PM
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Living as a nomad with no fixed schedule.

#NomadLife #VanLife #Weekend
Maggie Smith from Downton Abby says “What is a weekend?”
March 31, 2025 at 7:48 PM