Abi Graham
abigraham.bsky.social
Abi Graham
@abigraham.bsky.social
Fragrance connoisseur, makeup-lover, origami apprentice, PhD physicist, powerlifter, lover of cute things and Monster High Dolls, board-game-geek and intersectional feminist 🏳️‍⚧️BLM🏳️‍🌈
8) So yes, gender and social identities matter as much for who we are as biology.
May 8, 2025 at 9:50 AM
7) ... (although obviously I have the vast privileges that come with being cisgender, straight, white, not socioeconomically deprived).
May 8, 2025 at 9:49 AM
6) In my own experience of identity, gender, shaping my own body as I wanted it, to express my own sense of identity, and being somewhat gender non-conforming - I feel I connect in several key ways with some of the experiences of trans women...
May 8, 2025 at 9:49 AM
5) I'm used to being a somewhat isolated outsider. I also don't have children (by choice). And I don't automatically connect to some of the most common experiences of cis women.
May 8, 2025 at 9:48 AM
4) I've worked in engineering and physics my whole career - and I'm a female powerlifter, with an unusually muscular physique for a woman that I built myself (I'm "naturally" of a very skinny slight build).
May 8, 2025 at 9:48 AM
3) Similarly, an athletic muscular woman is ubiquitously mocked for being "a man" or "unfeminine", "undesirable" - her biology does nothing to protect her from being called "a man".
May 8, 2025 at 9:47 AM
2) Their biology is irrelevant there, and can't protect them from rejection by the patriarchy and from being the target of a form of misogyny.
May 8, 2025 at 9:47 AM
1) We all know men can "lose their man-card" in an instant by any number of routes - wearing the "wrong" clothes, expressing certain emotions, even being vegan (apparently) 🤦‍♀️ or of course, not being heterosexual.
May 8, 2025 at 9:46 AM
This is a good resource on Reform UK:

hopenothate.org.uk/wp-content/u...
hopenothate.org.uk
April 5, 2025 at 11:35 PM
4) Support organisations such as @standuptoracismuk.bsky.social who are fighting the rise of Reform UK (by volunteering, helping deliver leaflets, donating, sharing their posts)

Your thoughts?
April 5, 2025 at 9:59 PM
3) Contact our local MPs to put pressure on them to get our government to make real change for people who badly need it, before it's too late.
April 5, 2025 at 9:58 PM
Let me know what you think. I think we must:

1) Vote in these local elections to keep Reform UK out,

2) Raise awareness of the dangers, and the strength of far-right support as indicated by the polls,
April 5, 2025 at 9:56 PM
This is an important chance to vote - since Reform UK supporters are motivated and the polls suggest Reform UK will win a lot of seats.

They are a far-right racist party - but a large portion of their supporters are not racist, but desperate and are not seeing a viable alternative.
MRP Poll April 2025
www.electoralcalculus.co.uk
April 5, 2025 at 9:56 PM
Reform UK are well-organised, and well-funded. It would be a huge mistake for us not to take them very seriously.

A month from now, there are local council elections. Reform UK have put forward many candidates even in liberal left-leaning areas.
April 5, 2025 at 9:47 PM
Abso-fkn-lutely. Fighting for rights is a choice they can literally put out of their mind, rather than it being inescapable on the daily.
January 23, 2025 at 12:57 AM