5. Decluttering feels like death (and rebirth)

All objects and systems have a life cycle in terms of usefulness and even sentimentality, so you need to be ready at any time to abandon them if your needs and priorities change so newer, more relevant and effective habits form

4. This negativity you feel while decluttering means it should not be a quick and efficient process off the bat

It needs to be slowly introduced to become a lifelong habit, otherwise it's confined to a grandiose, one-off effort that gets neglected soon after, because...

3. Boredom isn't the real challenge in the decluttering process, the real challenge is the negative emotions:
- cringe at past decisions leading up to this
- regret at not doing this sooner
- anxiety of how ugly the process looks to others
- despair it'll never be perfect

2. He’s unaware of his lifelong habit of shadow projection becoming my introjection, but exploits it anyways as it's maintained his image of power

He has no interest in empathy, seeking the truth, learning from or even admitting any wrongdoing

As such, he'll never learn that...

Well shit.

Southern China 🤝 Southern US

The word "cyber", something I learned when I played many years ago