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Savings that were supposed to go to AC/heat repair spent on essentials so we re back to needing $995 for AC and heat motor repair. Still going to be owing on upcoming bills, if we can't get it met asap we stay in deficit.
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Been trying to get this met since MIL passed away in July 😭
$30 received, grocery post deleted thank you!
January 4, 2026 at 6:33 PM
$30 received, grocery post deleted thank you!
Eugenics is like the opposite of this.
Ppl want to talk about declining birthrates. How about actually helping the ppl that exist to make full potential of their lives?
I think we need to start being honest about vocalizing what everybody is losing out on just so rich ppl can be greedy. Cuz we are being denied self actualization.
January 4, 2026 at 6:25 PM
Eugenics is like the opposite of this.
Ppl want to talk about declining birthrates. How about actually helping the ppl that exist to make full potential of their lives?
I think we need to start being honest about vocalizing what everybody is losing out on just so rich ppl can be greedy. Cuz we are being denied self actualization.
January 4, 2026 at 6:24 PM
Ppl want to talk about declining birthrates. How about actually helping the ppl that exist to make full potential of their lives?
Cuz tbh not all of them even had it harder. And even if they did, they have to blow it all out of proportion to give their life a sense of purpose, and they're inevitably running from the feeling of extinction burst.
tbh I don't always see recreated patterns as accidental. when u have ppl fostering resentment & "well I had to suffer so I want to find other ppl to enmeshmeshment+ trauma bonding so I can feel my experience is universal" that reproduces dysregulation of development cycles on purpose.
Ppl that were never modelled how to self regulate are gonna repeat those patterns. Ppl that were never given grace and are conditioned to reject healthy compersion are constantly recreating dynamics of competitiveness. (Even with literal children)
January 4, 2026 at 6:17 PM
Cuz tbh not all of them even had it harder. And even if they did, they have to blow it all out of proportion to give their life a sense of purpose, and they're inevitably running from the feeling of extinction burst.
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This is exactly it. Happening right now.
January 3, 2026 at 7:03 PM
This is exactly it. Happening right now.
tbh I don't always see recreated patterns as accidental. when u have ppl fostering resentment & "well I had to suffer so I want to find other ppl to enmeshmeshment+ trauma bonding so I can feel my experience is universal" that reproduces dysregulation of development cycles on purpose.
Ppl that were never modelled how to self regulate are gonna repeat those patterns. Ppl that were never given grace and are conditioned to reject healthy compersion are constantly recreating dynamics of competitiveness. (Even with literal children)
January 4, 2026 at 6:08 PM
tbh I don't always see recreated patterns as accidental. when u have ppl fostering resentment & "well I had to suffer so I want to find other ppl to enmeshmeshment+ trauma bonding so I can feel my experience is universal" that reproduces dysregulation of development cycles on purpose.
And that's what I mean when I say ageism for a life time. Cuz when someone is parentified and made to process trauma and self regulate/ self soothe from the time they're kids and into adulthood. That's inevitably gonna reproduce ageism.
That parroted social scripts doesn't add up when you're talking down to ppl that already were parentified in their youth. And that's how I know they just parrot shit to pathologize while the material conditions get worse.
January 4, 2026 at 6:04 PM
And that's what I mean when I say ageism for a life time. Cuz when someone is parentified and made to process trauma and self regulate/ self soothe from the time they're kids and into adulthood. That's inevitably gonna reproduce ageism.
Ageism for a lifetime is exhausting
That's a unique form of struggle that comes up of keeping an individual in survivor mode for so long. The exhaustion of being parentified from a young age is a different type of fatigue. So of course privileged ppl on easy mode would purposefully conflate and distort that.
January 4, 2026 at 6:03 PM
Ageism for a lifetime is exhausting
There's also a phenomena of adults that are jealous or constantly say "I want ppl to suffer like I did" transferring their misery into younger gens.
You don’t have to want kids or even enjoy being around them. But it’s also worth unpacking why kids simply existing, learning, or having unmet needs reads as “annoying,” “unlikeable,” or “bad behavior.”
This collective discomfort with noise, need, & vulnerability is why many ADULTS are struggling.
This collective discomfort with noise, need, & vulnerability is why many ADULTS are struggling.
January 4, 2026 at 5:58 PM
There's also a phenomena of adults that are jealous or constantly say "I want ppl to suffer like I did" transferring their misery into younger gens.
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Some ppl get involved in social justice and point out things like ableist language or ageism that promoted violence against kids. Because recognizing all that is preemptive to the victim appeals that ppl that have gotten away with their actions now lean into.
Especially because the science of in-groups shows how much in-group belonging and recruiting mechanisms rekt in appealing to "love" enmeshed with co-victimization. (To justify violence against the perceived "enemy" outgroup).
November 13, 2025 at 12:34 PM
Some ppl get involved in social justice and point out things like ableist language or ageism that promoted violence against kids. Because recognizing all that is preemptive to the victim appeals that ppl that have gotten away with their actions now lean into.
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Source that describes how vital in-group enmeshment and co-victimization is to expanding bigoted group think constructs of reality.
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August 3, 2025 at 2:49 PM
Source that describes how vital in-group enmeshment and co-victimization is to expanding bigoted group think constructs of reality.
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Media helps prop up the co-victimization agenda setting of predator groups with structural power and wealth.
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Both parties and the media are getting their instructions from the same informal conspiracy walled garden party of rich elites playing monopoly with our lives for their profit and pleasure. The billionaires are the true enemy, and the media will be their foot soldiers here.
in case you're wondering how the cope is going www.mediamatters.org/megyn-kelly/...
November 13, 2025 at 12:35 PM
Media helps prop up the co-victimization agenda setting of predator groups with structural power and wealth.
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What grounds me in my community work aside from parenthood:
“The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this
may be incapable of morality”.
- James Baldwin
“The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this
may be incapable of morality”.
- James Baldwin
January 4, 2026 at 4:28 PM
What grounds me in my community work aside from parenthood:
“The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this
may be incapable of morality”.
- James Baldwin
“The children are always ours, every single one of them, all over the globe; and I am beginning to suspect that whoever is incapable of recognizing this
may be incapable of morality”.
- James Baldwin
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Undesireables includes child stars. Ppl who are vulnerable to ageism and other conditions that make them deemed "rapeable" under empire.
November 13, 2025 at 2:23 PM
Undesireables includes child stars. Ppl who are vulnerable to ageism and other conditions that make them deemed "rapeable" under empire.
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This reiterates u must be anti labor trafficking, anti pedo shit (Including when they do it to Natives or signify other messaging of rape culture) if you intend to be about anti capitalism.
November 13, 2025 at 2:21 PM
This reiterates u must be anti labor trafficking, anti pedo shit (Including when they do it to Natives or signify other messaging of rape culture) if you intend to be about anti capitalism.
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And with the way so much in this society revolves around inheritance for wealth transfer. It should be obvious how labor trafficking of young ppl is just another space for capital laundering. The enablers treat ageism the same they do "international waters", Panama papers, Epstein Island etc.
Settler society puts so much energy into retaining tropes they've inherited.
What if "Pocahontas" never existed?
November 13, 2025 at 2:20 PM
And with the way so much in this society revolves around inheritance for wealth transfer. It should be obvious how labor trafficking of young ppl is just another space for capital laundering. The enablers treat ageism the same they do "international waters", Panama papers, Epstein Island etc.
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Unexamined ageism and internalized colonialism/patriarchy will do that.
Alot of the "well meaning" "left" doesn't realize they still foster sympathetic relation with bigots because they share similar co-victimization appeals as it relates to settler colonialism.
But again this is why I've already explained 50 million times why Natives use broken treaties as metonymy and that's different from other co-victimization appeals.
November 13, 2025 at 1:33 PM
Unexamined ageism and internalized colonialism/patriarchy will do that.
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But u know when ur someone with an identity that intersects with multiple identities that patriarchy is actively trying to purge on a daily basis. U stay hyperaware.
December 2, 2025 at 2:17 PM
But u know when ur someone with an identity that intersects with multiple identities that patriarchy is actively trying to purge on a daily basis. U stay hyperaware.
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One thing about patriarchy and realizing that hatred of women and children is intentional. I've always resented how ppl talk about patriarchy as if it's accidental and separate from misogyny and ageism.
It used to be a trope for someone to pearl clutch and go "will someone please think of the children" but literally nobody will even do that. Cuz ageism. Eugenics. Machiavellians who see women and children as an enemy to overcome.
December 2, 2025 at 2:16 PM
One thing about patriarchy and realizing that hatred of women and children is intentional. I've always resented how ppl talk about patriarchy as if it's accidental and separate from misogyny and ageism.
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The very things that annoy you about kids are the same reasons y’all get on here saying you hate small talk and don’t speak to your neighbors. It’s hyper-individualism. It’s easier to project that discomfort onto the most vulnerable rather than examine how disconnected we’ve all become.
January 4, 2026 at 3:46 PM
The very things that annoy you about kids are the same reasons y’all get on here saying you hate small talk and don’t speak to your neighbors. It’s hyper-individualism. It’s easier to project that discomfort onto the most vulnerable rather than examine how disconnected we’ve all become.
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How we respond to the most dependent members of our society reveals how we think about community, care, accessibility, and humanity. This is what I mean when I say intolerance of children works to your own detriment.
January 4, 2026 at 3:45 PM
How we respond to the most dependent members of our society reveals how we think about community, care, accessibility, and humanity. This is what I mean when I say intolerance of children works to your own detriment.
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great thread
You don’t have to want kids or even enjoy being around them. But it’s also worth unpacking why kids simply existing, learning, or having unmet needs reads as “annoying,” “unlikeable,” or “bad behavior.”
This collective discomfort with noise, need, & vulnerability is why many ADULTS are struggling.
This collective discomfort with noise, need, & vulnerability is why many ADULTS are struggling.
January 4, 2026 at 4:47 PM
great thread
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When you see all of these terrible things happening because of our government, understand that there are no mass uprisings because the majority either doesn't care, or doesn't see the point because they personally can't affect change. Many can't afford to take risks and are just focused on survival.
January 4, 2026 at 5:37 PM
When you see all of these terrible things happening because of our government, understand that there are no mass uprisings because the majority either doesn't care, or doesn't see the point because they personally can't affect change. Many can't afford to take risks and are just focused on survival.
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Most people in the US have no idea what's going on, at all. They either live very sheltered, comfortable lives, or they suffer on a daily basis and don't know why. The vast majority would rather watch football than learn about the world. Many believe the master narrative and only focus on themselves
January 4, 2026 at 5:37 PM
Most people in the US have no idea what's going on, at all. They either live very sheltered, comfortable lives, or they suffer on a daily basis and don't know why. The vast majority would rather watch football than learn about the world. Many believe the master narrative and only focus on themselves
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January 4, 2026 at 5:39 PM
~$750 USD FOOD/MEDS/HYGIENE & UTILITIES URGENT!
Queer. Disabled. Unemployed. It's winter & the heating bill is very high. Any combo ppl x $$ = $750 keeps her safe.
Pls RS/QS. Pls do what you can. #HelpFolksLive2026
Queer. Disabled. Unemployed. It's winter & the heating bill is very high. Any combo ppl x $$ = $750 keeps her safe.
Pls RS/QS. Pls do what you can. #HelpFolksLive2026