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product managers are always asking for stuff like "how many people clicked this tool tip during the Ides of March in 2024 I need this tomorrow for a critical leadership decision" like bro wtf are you talking abt
February 6, 2026 at 7:46 PM
product managers are always asking for stuff like "how many people clicked this tool tip during the Ides of March in 2024 I need this tomorrow for a critical leadership decision" like bro wtf are you talking abt
when you first start learning japanese and you're reading all the onomatopoeia: 😀
later when you realize they're critical to understanding the language and deeply difficult to discern between: 😭
later when you realize they're critical to understanding the language and deeply difficult to discern between: 😭
February 6, 2026 at 4:51 AM
when you first start learning japanese and you're reading all the onomatopoeia: 😀
later when you realize they're critical to understanding the language and deeply difficult to discern between: 😭
later when you realize they're critical to understanding the language and deeply difficult to discern between: 😭
I feel vindicated because I have always known that the rich are evil. There's a reason the powers that be didn't kill MLK until he tried to organize for class consciousness.
February 2, 2026 at 6:07 AM
I feel vindicated because I have always known that the rich are evil. There's a reason the powers that be didn't kill MLK until he tried to organize for class consciousness.
I'm going to say something that will probably make me sound old but the concept of a "queer platonic relationship" pisses me off so bad. just say friends. just say friendship. stop labeling and subverting and pathologizing everything. I say as a queer trans person in a queer relationship
January 31, 2026 at 9:43 AM
I'm going to say something that will probably make me sound old but the concept of a "queer platonic relationship" pisses me off so bad. just say friends. just say friendship. stop labeling and subverting and pathologizing everything. I say as a queer trans person in a queer relationship
the only truly tone deaf thing my current manager has said to me is "we have to able to find joy at work". like I'm sorry but joy is not in my necessary skills list at work. do I find joy some days? sure! should I always be expected to find it? no, that's insane toxic positivity bullshit
January 31, 2026 at 9:16 AM
the only truly tone deaf thing my current manager has said to me is "we have to able to find joy at work". like I'm sorry but joy is not in my necessary skills list at work. do I find joy some days? sure! should I always be expected to find it? no, that's insane toxic positivity bullshit
my (multinational multi billion dollar revenue) employer is having an event this week that is, wait for it -- a charcuterie potluck. no company provided food, but they did send a mass invite? so funny. who does this
January 19, 2026 at 3:53 AM
my (multinational multi billion dollar revenue) employer is having an event this week that is, wait for it -- a charcuterie potluck. no company provided food, but they did send a mass invite? so funny. who does this
I love the snowflake workspace interface it feels like drinking from 5 to 7 firehoses at once
January 15, 2026 at 10:42 PM
I love the snowflake workspace interface it feels like drinking from 5 to 7 firehoses at once
open carry is the most insane thing people do in the US. wearing a handgun on your belt or a rifle across your chest and you're at fucking Walmart like a buffoon
January 3, 2026 at 9:23 AM
open carry is the most insane thing people do in the US. wearing a handgun on your belt or a rifle across your chest and you're at fucking Walmart like a buffoon
it's friday time to get rate limited on MS teams
December 19, 2025 at 7:25 PM
it's friday time to get rate limited on MS teams
in other news i got this holiday sweater at costco and it's legit the most comfortable sweater i've ever owned
December 16, 2025 at 11:59 PM
in other news i got this holiday sweater at costco and it's legit the most comfortable sweater i've ever owned
sincerely crying reading about Ahmed al Ahmed. an incredibly brave man, a true neighbourhood hero whose only instinct was to protect the lives of others. if that isn't what a hero does then I don't know what
December 16, 2025 at 11:52 PM
sincerely crying reading about Ahmed al Ahmed. an incredibly brave man, a true neighbourhood hero whose only instinct was to protect the lives of others. if that isn't what a hero does then I don't know what
probably a controversial opinion but I think the idea that people wouldn't modify art they see online is unrealistic. like why does it matter? idk. I feel like once I upload something I've set it free
December 16, 2025 at 5:09 AM
probably a controversial opinion but I think the idea that people wouldn't modify art they see online is unrealistic. like why does it matter? idk. I feel like once I upload something I've set it free
i'm his pit guy
December 12, 2025 at 11:54 PM
i'm his pit guy
i learned today that someone at work has been hating me since JUNE of this year and i had no idea who he was or why. and it came up in a conversation today among management that he found me "difficult" and i'm literally like "who? who is this man???"
December 12, 2025 at 11:53 PM
i learned today that someone at work has been hating me since JUNE of this year and i had no idea who he was or why. and it came up in a conversation today among management that he found me "difficult" and i'm literally like "who? who is this man???"
work is there to remind you that there is no age limit on emotional immaturity
December 12, 2025 at 11:52 PM
work is there to remind you that there is no age limit on emotional immaturity
I only come back to this website to complain lol
December 5, 2025 at 6:50 PM
I only come back to this website to complain lol
just what we need, another generation with rampant hepatitis
December 5, 2025 at 6:48 PM
just what we need, another generation with rampant hepatitis
no huge fan of Dan Savage, but I think he accomplished one of the greatest ratios of all time against Rick Santorum. he hasn't been a senator for almost twenty years and people still use santorum as slang. what a forever loser
November 23, 2025 at 6:01 PM
no huge fan of Dan Savage, but I think he accomplished one of the greatest ratios of all time against Rick Santorum. he hasn't been a senator for almost twenty years and people still use santorum as slang. what a forever loser
I had absolutely bonkers dreams last night. I'm so curious as to why. I didn't eat before bed or even really watch TV (just F1). the mind is a curious thing
November 23, 2025 at 3:57 PM
I had absolutely bonkers dreams last night. I'm so curious as to why. I didn't eat before bed or even really watch TV (just F1). the mind is a curious thing
entering my education history into this site where you declare a program and they want my high school info. it is making me feel ancient bro
November 22, 2025 at 9:35 PM
entering my education history into this site where you declare a program and they want my high school info. it is making me feel ancient bro
oh to be in your early twenties and thinking being mean to strangers is a personality
November 22, 2025 at 8:44 PM
oh to be in your early twenties and thinking being mean to strangers is a personality
I was listening to "Fool of Me" by Meshell Ndegeocello this morning ("Love & Basketball" song) and her song "Beautiful" played right after, where she says "such pretty hair, can I kiss you" and I was like "that's kinda gay" and apparently she's a whole lesbian good for her
November 20, 2025 at 5:45 PM
I was listening to "Fool of Me" by Meshell Ndegeocello this morning ("Love & Basketball" song) and her song "Beautiful" played right after, where she says "such pretty hair, can I kiss you" and I was like "that's kinda gay" and apparently she's a whole lesbian good for her
this person I used to work with resigned a few months ago and has since been traveling, including three weeks in Japan and HK. and I'm over here with the same job, hoping our mortgage goes down at least a little at renewal because we can't pay any lump sum due to our $40K special roof levee
November 16, 2025 at 8:42 AM
this person I used to work with resigned a few months ago and has since been traveling, including three weeks in Japan and HK. and I'm over here with the same job, hoping our mortgage goes down at least a little at renewal because we can't pay any lump sum due to our $40K special roof levee
at some point everything on the planet became drastically more expensive except for me and my time, which cost my employer the same thing it did 5 years ago
November 14, 2025 at 6:42 PM
at some point everything on the planet became drastically more expensive except for me and my time, which cost my employer the same thing it did 5 years ago
is this an accomplishment lol
November 14, 2025 at 7:24 AM
is this an accomplishment lol