The Swinging Sage
@swingingsage.bsky.social
Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach | Been happily swinging for 5 years, married for 12+ | Now I help beginner couples open their relationships safely, without fear, judgment, or regret. Creator of OpenlyFree.com
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Your sex life doesn’t need more positions.
It needs more courage.
Most couples assume adventure
comes from: toys or techniques.
But the real spark?
Risking vulnerability.
Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen.
That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.
It needs more courage.
Most couples assume adventure
comes from: toys or techniques.
But the real spark?
Risking vulnerability.
Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen.
That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.
Stop shaming yourself, just because you're different.
You don't need to fit into some box, to have a great ENM relationship. It's not about being:
- Poly, or
- Open, or
- Swingers
You get to decide what works for you.
You gotta remember:
All labels are wrong. Some are helpful.
You don't need to fit into some box, to have a great ENM relationship. It's not about being:
- Poly, or
- Open, or
- Swingers
You get to decide what works for you.
You gotta remember:
All labels are wrong. Some are helpful.
May 9, 2025 at 8:48 AM
Stop shaming yourself, just because you're different.
You don't need to fit into some box, to have a great ENM relationship. It's not about being:
- Poly, or
- Open, or
- Swingers
You get to decide what works for you.
You gotta remember:
All labels are wrong. Some are helpful.
You don't need to fit into some box, to have a great ENM relationship. It's not about being:
- Poly, or
- Open, or
- Swingers
You get to decide what works for you.
You gotta remember:
All labels are wrong. Some are helpful.
“I Could Never Share My Partner.”
You already do.
🔹 Emotionally (friends, family, co-workers)
🔹 Mentally (crushes, daydreams, fantasies)
🔹 Digitally (OnlyFans, thirst traps, celebrity crushes)
ENM just makes it conscious.
You don’t own your partner. You experience them.
You already do.
🔹 Emotionally (friends, family, co-workers)
🔹 Mentally (crushes, daydreams, fantasies)
🔹 Digitally (OnlyFans, thirst traps, celebrity crushes)
ENM just makes it conscious.
You don’t own your partner. You experience them.
May 8, 2025 at 1:46 PM
“I Could Never Share My Partner.”
You already do.
🔹 Emotionally (friends, family, co-workers)
🔹 Mentally (crushes, daydreams, fantasies)
🔹 Digitally (OnlyFans, thirst traps, celebrity crushes)
ENM just makes it conscious.
You don’t own your partner. You experience them.
You already do.
🔹 Emotionally (friends, family, co-workers)
🔹 Mentally (crushes, daydreams, fantasies)
🔹 Digitally (OnlyFans, thirst traps, celebrity crushes)
ENM just makes it conscious.
You don’t own your partner. You experience them.
You: “I’d love to explore this fantasy with you...
But only if it turns you on too.”
That one sentence?
It changes the whole tone.
Now it’s not pressure.
It’s partnership.
But only if it turns you on too.”
That one sentence?
It changes the whole tone.
Now it’s not pressure.
It’s partnership.
May 5, 2025 at 7:10 AM
You: “I’d love to explore this fantasy with you...
But only if it turns you on too.”
That one sentence?
It changes the whole tone.
Now it’s not pressure.
It’s partnership.
But only if it turns you on too.”
That one sentence?
It changes the whole tone.
Now it’s not pressure.
It’s partnership.
Your sex life doesn’t need more positions.
It needs more courage.
Most couples assume adventure
comes from: toys or techniques.
But the real spark?
Risking vulnerability.
Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen.
That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.
It needs more courage.
Most couples assume adventure
comes from: toys or techniques.
But the real spark?
Risking vulnerability.
Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen.
That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.
May 3, 2025 at 6:27 PM
Your sex life doesn’t need more positions.
It needs more courage.
Most couples assume adventure
comes from: toys or techniques.
But the real spark?
Risking vulnerability.
Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen.
That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.
It needs more courage.
Most couples assume adventure
comes from: toys or techniques.
But the real spark?
Risking vulnerability.
Sharing a fantasy, breaking a routine, daring to be seen.
That's the real gasoline for your bedroom.