al 🖤
@sofarsoperfect.bsky.social
she/her | bisexual 💗💜💙 | 29
i got 99 problems and kpop is at least 97 of them.
i got 99 problems and kpop is at least 97 of them.
nothing in this world like realizing how small minded your predominantly white small town community is by experiencing at least two microagressions about two different communities of people. in a single work day. less than, even!
December 13, 2025 at 2:12 AM
nothing in this world like realizing how small minded your predominantly white small town community is by experiencing at least two microagressions about two different communities of people. in a single work day. less than, even!
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reading my old fics is like [fine sentence that makes me feel like i’m reading a normal fic][cringe sentence][typo][sentence so good that idk if i could write something that good now][sentence so annoying i want to throw something at myself][piece of characterization i don’t agree w anymore][typo]
December 1, 2025 at 5:53 PM
reading my old fics is like [fine sentence that makes me feel like i’m reading a normal fic][cringe sentence][typo][sentence so good that idk if i could write something that good now][sentence so annoying i want to throw something at myself][piece of characterization i don’t agree w anymore][typo]
what perfect album came out the year you turned 16?
these are all perfect to me. and i do not care that two of these are eps. argue with the wall.
these are all perfect to me. and i do not care that two of these are eps. argue with the wall.
November 19, 2025 at 7:06 PM
what perfect album came out the year you turned 16?
these are all perfect to me. and i do not care that two of these are eps. argue with the wall.
these are all perfect to me. and i do not care that two of these are eps. argue with the wall.
it is such a kick in the teeth when every time i turn around i feel like i have to justify my grief to people.
maybe it's working in retail, or maybe it really is just my job but its so frustrating to feel like my grief isn't enough of a reason.
maybe it's working in retail, or maybe it really is just my job but its so frustrating to feel like my grief isn't enough of a reason.
November 18, 2025 at 3:09 PM
it is such a kick in the teeth when every time i turn around i feel like i have to justify my grief to people.
maybe it's working in retail, or maybe it really is just my job but its so frustrating to feel like my grief isn't enough of a reason.
maybe it's working in retail, or maybe it really is just my job but its so frustrating to feel like my grief isn't enough of a reason.
i really do not want to go to work tomorrow. between my asst manager acting like i was the biggest inconvenience and knowing my coworkers are going to ask me how i'm doing, i don't want to. i don't wanna play nice rn.
November 15, 2025 at 2:29 AM
i really do not want to go to work tomorrow. between my asst manager acting like i was the biggest inconvenience and knowing my coworkers are going to ask me how i'm doing, i don't want to. i don't wanna play nice rn.
its starting to look like, "can i even sleep tonight," is a real problem i'm going to experience while off work
November 13, 2025 at 5:26 AM
its starting to look like, "can i even sleep tonight," is a real problem i'm going to experience while off work
three days is not enough time to mourn, decompress, untangle the complicated relationship i had with my grandmother and the heritage i carry solely from her lineage and deal with the bullshit logistics of trying to get my bereavement benefits. it's just not.
November 13, 2025 at 2:08 AM
three days is not enough time to mourn, decompress, untangle the complicated relationship i had with my grandmother and the heritage i carry solely from her lineage and deal with the bullshit logistics of trying to get my bereavement benefits. it's just not.
it is a very white boss / child of immigrant employee thing to have my boss tell me i should get my passport in order to see my actively dying relative. as if there is not So Much Nuance around why i do not have a passport and have not gone there yet.
November 11, 2025 at 1:00 PM
it is a very white boss / child of immigrant employee thing to have my boss tell me i should get my passport in order to see my actively dying relative. as if there is not So Much Nuance around why i do not have a passport and have not gone there yet.
of all the uniquely shitty things you get to experience as a first generation american i didn't think 'trying to force yourself to get thru work because you have to talk to your boss about time off due to grief while realizing you're never gonna see your grandmother again' was one of them
November 11, 2025 at 11:35 AM
of all the uniquely shitty things you get to experience as a first generation american i didn't think 'trying to force yourself to get thru work because you have to talk to your boss about time off due to grief while realizing you're never gonna see your grandmother again' was one of them
we're officially in the time of year where the midwest can't decide on the weather so there's about an inch and a half of snow on the ground rn that will disappear by wednesday. however, the cold weather is good for two things!
naps and cozy blankets.
naps and cozy blankets.
November 10, 2025 at 7:22 PM
we're officially in the time of year where the midwest can't decide on the weather so there's about an inch and a half of snow on the ground rn that will disappear by wednesday. however, the cold weather is good for two things!
naps and cozy blankets.
naps and cozy blankets.
listening to sf9 again is both the best and worst thing i could've done.
you think you have it hard with your bias? imagine being a fantasy whose bias is rowoon. i am so constantly in a state of utter despair.
you think you have it hard with your bias? imagine being a fantasy whose bias is rowoon. i am so constantly in a state of utter despair.
October 29, 2025 at 12:05 AM
listening to sf9 again is both the best and worst thing i could've done.
you think you have it hard with your bias? imagine being a fantasy whose bias is rowoon. i am so constantly in a state of utter despair.
you think you have it hard with your bias? imagine being a fantasy whose bias is rowoon. i am so constantly in a state of utter despair.
woke up this morning feeling so, so sick. nauseous, dizzy w/ vertigo and my nose running like a faucet. decided to take the day in bed. checked insta just for something to do. a video shows up on my timeline.
the man speaking in it sounds so much like liam payne. we lost him a year ago today.
the man speaking in it sounds so much like liam payne. we lost him a year ago today.
October 16, 2025 at 2:28 PM
woke up this morning feeling so, so sick. nauseous, dizzy w/ vertigo and my nose running like a faucet. decided to take the day in bed. checked insta just for something to do. a video shows up on my timeline.
the man speaking in it sounds so much like liam payne. we lost him a year ago today.
the man speaking in it sounds so much like liam payne. we lost him a year ago today.
by making this easier to read i am also ensuring it is twice as much work as my previous works
anyway, turns out i'll be doing this for the next month
anyway, turns out i'll be doing this for the next month
October 15, 2025 at 3:49 PM
by making this easier to read i am also ensuring it is twice as much work as my previous works
anyway, turns out i'll be doing this for the next month
anyway, turns out i'll be doing this for the next month
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erotica should not come from a soulless machine. erotica should come from your local bookstore or your friends on the internet when they have divine inspiration.
October 14, 2025 at 7:25 PM
erotica should not come from a soulless machine. erotica should come from your local bookstore or your friends on the internet when they have divine inspiration.
there may, possibly, be something wrong with the fact that i wake up in the morning and one of my first thoughts is, "can't wait to come home and go back to sleep."
October 14, 2025 at 9:29 AM
there may, possibly, be something wrong with the fact that i wake up in the morning and one of my first thoughts is, "can't wait to come home and go back to sleep."
upon doing a bit of research, i could've made this location So Much More Bougie, but since the story takes place during fall i'm glad i didn't. lake front beaches are useless below 60 degrees.
October 13, 2025 at 3:24 PM
upon doing a bit of research, i could've made this location So Much More Bougie, but since the story takes place during fall i'm glad i didn't. lake front beaches are useless below 60 degrees.
curating every single timestamp in every single photo on a smau is crazy work
i haven't even properly started this bitch yet and i am TIRED of adjusting the times
i haven't even properly started this bitch yet and i am TIRED of adjusting the times
October 12, 2025 at 7:25 PM
curating every single timestamp in every single photo on a smau is crazy work
i haven't even properly started this bitch yet and i am TIRED of adjusting the times
i haven't even properly started this bitch yet and i am TIRED of adjusting the times
good morning. my opener called in.
i love being in charge of things.
i love being in charge of things.
October 12, 2025 at 11:37 AM
good morning. my opener called in.
i love being in charge of things.
i love being in charge of things.
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October 12, 2025 at 6:36 AM
[redacted] stop having so many members challenge: FAILED
i think i've miscounted the amt of profiles i need at least four times.
i think i've miscounted the amt of profiles i need at least four times.
October 12, 2025 at 9:35 AM
[redacted] stop having so many members challenge: FAILED
i think i've miscounted the amt of profiles i need at least four times.
i think i've miscounted the amt of profiles i need at least four times.
something that i never fail to forget every. single. time. i start a smau is that you need to make regular mc profiles. and then you need to make profiles FOR NPCs TOO. for the extras IN CASE YOU NEED THEM LATER.
anyway, i'll be doing prep work for the next week.
anyway, i'll be doing prep work for the next week.
October 11, 2025 at 10:50 PM
something that i never fail to forget every. single. time. i start a smau is that you need to make regular mc profiles. and then you need to make profiles FOR NPCs TOO. for the extras IN CASE YOU NEED THEM LATER.
anyway, i'll be doing prep work for the next week.
anyway, i'll be doing prep work for the next week.
how did my place of gainful employment even /function/ in the five years that i have been gone? answer: most likely poorly, based on how these past ten months have gone.
if they call me right before a nap again, i'm ignoring them.
if they call me right before a nap again, i'm ignoring them.
October 10, 2025 at 12:52 AM
how did my place of gainful employment even /function/ in the five years that i have been gone? answer: most likely poorly, based on how these past ten months have gone.
if they call me right before a nap again, i'm ignoring them.
if they call me right before a nap again, i'm ignoring them.
i find it so interesting how people try to pass off certain south / southeast asian aesthetics as each other because, while similar due to having the same cultural roots, i got some bad news for ya'll.
the moment the written language is involved, you're not fooling anyone.
the moment the written language is involved, you're not fooling anyone.
October 8, 2025 at 2:06 PM
i find it so interesting how people try to pass off certain south / southeast asian aesthetics as each other because, while similar due to having the same cultural roots, i got some bad news for ya'll.
the moment the written language is involved, you're not fooling anyone.
the moment the written language is involved, you're not fooling anyone.
not me uninstalling and downloading and uninstalling and downloading just to turn around the download the Exact Same Apps i always use for my smaus. no wonder my phone hates me.
October 8, 2025 at 1:05 AM
not me uninstalling and downloading and uninstalling and downloading just to turn around the download the Exact Same Apps i always use for my smaus. no wonder my phone hates me.
my phone is NOT built for making smaus but that has NEVER stopped me before
October 7, 2025 at 7:39 PM
my phone is NOT built for making smaus but that has NEVER stopped me before