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Alexa Andre | Sexologist
@sexwithalexa.bsky.social
making your life more pleasurable 💦✨
Reposted by Alexa Andre | Sexologist
Just had lots of fun listening to @sexwithalexa.bsky.social talk with one of my absolute faves – famous and gorgeous Boyslut Zachary Zane – all about the deliciously sloppy art of sucking dick

One of the biggest turn ons for me? The inclusive language 😉

Give a listen…then practice 😜

#queersky 🌈
How to Suck Dick Like a Pro (ft. Zachary Zane)
Podcast Episode · In Bed With Alexa · 04/17/2025 · 59m
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April 21, 2025 at 9:08 PM
a fun little game you can play is making sure the best xes you’ve ever had is with yourself

imagine owning that power instead of giving it to other people
March 29, 2025 at 8:36 PM
always remember your food won’t cook properly if you didn’t preheat the oven first 😉
March 29, 2025 at 8:32 PM
asking for consent can be anywhere from really hot to super uncomfortable

doesn’t really matter because it’s always necessary
March 29, 2025 at 8:31 PM
there’s nothing wrong with needing a toy to 💦 but that doesn’t mean the other person gets to rely on it and stop trying to maximize your pleasure
March 29, 2025 at 8:29 PM
it’s 👏🏼 okay 👏🏼 to 👏🏼 finish 👏🏼 yourself 👏🏼 off 👏🏼 if 👏🏼 they 👏🏼 won’t
March 26, 2025 at 10:03 PM
magic happens when you take penetration off the table
March 21, 2025 at 9:29 PM
created a whatsapp group for people that love to sext, here’s how to join:

✨ rate the pod 5 stars
✨ dm a screenshot of the rating and your phone number
March 15, 2025 at 7:11 PM
I realized I matured when I started grabbing my magic wand without asking for permission or feeling any kind of shame
March 5, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Most of us just want to feel wanted and special. Keep that in mind when interacting with your partner(s)
March 5, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Having xes with a selfish lover?

Be selfish back! Finish yourself off unapologetically, grab the toy or tell them to leave before you take care of yourself ✨
March 5, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Three kinds of people in this world (be the third one)

1. They don’t care if you 💦
2. They’re happy with making you 💦 once (and only once)
3. It’s their mission to discover how much your body can take and make you 💦 as much as possible
March 5, 2025 at 12:56 PM
drop phrases that people can say when they want to make you feel safe 👇🏼👇🏼
February 23, 2025 at 7:49 PM
peen owners: how do you want partners to react when you’re having er_ction issues?
February 23, 2025 at 7:47 PM
just want to say that I’m on a xes cruise and you could too 😉 keep that in mind next time you’re planning a holiday
February 23, 2025 at 7:46 PM
enthusiastic oral >> good technique
February 23, 2025 at 7:46 PM
pro tip: take initiative and don’t wait for them to ask for the small things

plan the date, get the flowers, book the trip, get matching pjs, create a shared playlist, get their mom something, just do it
February 16, 2025 at 6:17 PM
it’s okay if you think Valentine’s Day is stupid

AND

it’s okay if you get your partner a special detail anyway
February 14, 2025 at 2:36 PM
you + me + sleepy xes
thoughts?
February 5, 2025 at 5:06 PM
people that pick you up from the airport are the same type of people that eat 🐱 for their own enjoyment
February 5, 2025 at 5:06 PM
when you’ve already had a O but they keep going down on you because they love it >>>
February 5, 2025 at 5:04 PM
Imagine a world where something could only be inserted into a vagina after an orgasm
January 24, 2025 at 5:15 PM
no means

✅ no
❌ convince me
❌ change my mind
❌ I’m playing hard to get

hope that helps x
January 24, 2025 at 5:08 PM
when in doubt, delay penetration until the other person is begging for it
January 8, 2025 at 1:38 AM
Most of us fight with our partners in private and others will never experience every aspect of our relationship. Stop comparing!
January 8, 2025 at 1:37 AM