Šárka Świdziński
@sarkaswidzinski.bsky.social
LGBTQIA2+ BDSM Polyamory & SW-Supportive Therapist | Blind | Roma & Indigenous | Intersex Femme | She/Her
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Need a Twin Cities charity to support? Let me introduce you to Al Maa'uun, a non-profit serving North Mpls.
Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
coffee and barber shops are handing out free whistles. that's where we're at. its all hands on deck.
January 19, 2026 at 9:38 PM
coffee and barber shops are handing out free whistles. that's where we're at. its all hands on deck.
"If you just do as I say, I'll stop hurting you. You're bringing this on yourself."
Every survivor of DV, SA, or child abuse knows these words.
This is what ICE is saying to protestors exercising their constitutional rights.
It is 100% about control through fear and violence.
Every survivor of DV, SA, or child abuse knows these words.
This is what ICE is saying to protestors exercising their constitutional rights.
It is 100% about control through fear and violence.
January 17, 2026 at 9:22 AM
"If you just do as I say, I'll stop hurting you. You're bringing this on yourself."
Every survivor of DV, SA, or child abuse knows these words.
This is what ICE is saying to protestors exercising their constitutional rights.
It is 100% about control through fear and violence.
Every survivor of DV, SA, or child abuse knows these words.
This is what ICE is saying to protestors exercising their constitutional rights.
It is 100% about control through fear and violence.
resistance takes many forms:
- protesting
- documenting violence
- coordinating information & supplies
- maintaining whisper networks
- providing medical care
- legal/financial support
- preserving knowledge, history, stories, ephemera
do what you can, and be good to each other
- protesting
- documenting violence
- coordinating information & supplies
- maintaining whisper networks
- providing medical care
- legal/financial support
- preserving knowledge, history, stories, ephemera
do what you can, and be good to each other
January 17, 2026 at 3:01 AM
resistance takes many forms:
- protesting
- documenting violence
- coordinating information & supplies
- maintaining whisper networks
- providing medical care
- legal/financial support
- preserving knowledge, history, stories, ephemera
do what you can, and be good to each other
- protesting
- documenting violence
- coordinating information & supplies
- maintaining whisper networks
- providing medical care
- legal/financial support
- preserving knowledge, history, stories, ephemera
do what you can, and be good to each other
I'm bisexual in that I'm attracted to confident women, and stray critters that present themselves to me as capable of learning tricks for my amusement
January 17, 2026 at 12:07 AM
I'm bisexual in that I'm attracted to confident women, and stray critters that present themselves to me as capable of learning tricks for my amusement
lets do better:
RECLAIMING is when you or your trusted circle consensually address yourselves or each other by a slur to extinguish its oppressive power by bringing it into your identity or culture.
if aimed at other marginalized people non-consensually, that's not reclamation.
RECLAIMING is when you or your trusted circle consensually address yourselves or each other by a slur to extinguish its oppressive power by bringing it into your identity or culture.
if aimed at other marginalized people non-consensually, that's not reclamation.
January 16, 2026 at 11:50 PM
lets do better:
RECLAIMING is when you or your trusted circle consensually address yourselves or each other by a slur to extinguish its oppressive power by bringing it into your identity or culture.
if aimed at other marginalized people non-consensually, that's not reclamation.
RECLAIMING is when you or your trusted circle consensually address yourselves or each other by a slur to extinguish its oppressive power by bringing it into your identity or culture.
if aimed at other marginalized people non-consensually, that's not reclamation.
helicopters approximately every 25 minutes
January 16, 2026 at 4:20 AM
helicopters approximately every 25 minutes
Parenting is one of the few jobs where you get to pick your co-workers. It is always your choice who you do that work with. Fire a teammate who thinks 10 minutes of daily effort is sufficient to support any relationship let alone a developing child.
January 5, 2026 at 8:23 PM
Parenting is one of the few jobs where you get to pick your co-workers. It is always your choice who you do that work with. Fire a teammate who thinks 10 minutes of daily effort is sufficient to support any relationship let alone a developing child.
Hudson Williams seems like a very empathetic soul. I hope that a trusted person in his life speaks to him about Nightwing being Romani--and the systemic oppression of our voices and culture.
I hope he can champion an unknown Roma actor getting the same spotlight he did with Heated Rivalry.
I hope he can champion an unknown Roma actor getting the same spotlight he did with Heated Rivalry.
January 5, 2026 at 7:06 PM
Hudson Williams seems like a very empathetic soul. I hope that a trusted person in his life speaks to him about Nightwing being Romani--and the systemic oppression of our voices and culture.
I hope he can champion an unknown Roma actor getting the same spotlight he did with Heated Rivalry.
I hope he can champion an unknown Roma actor getting the same spotlight he did with Heated Rivalry.
Heated Rivalry's costume, hair & makeup teams really gave us a master class in how subtle styling choices impact the viewer's perception of age. A show filmed in weeks convincingly serves us actors playing their characters from 18 to 28. Amazing work!
January 3, 2026 at 10:21 PM
Heated Rivalry's costume, hair & makeup teams really gave us a master class in how subtle styling choices impact the viewer's perception of age. A show filmed in weeks convincingly serves us actors playing their characters from 18 to 28. Amazing work!
if people were using generative Ai to make and distribute convincing images of white men committing illegal acts, the response would be very different. but because its women facing gender-motivated harassment, its crickets.
January 3, 2026 at 2:18 AM
if people were using generative Ai to make and distribute convincing images of white men committing illegal acts, the response would be very different. but because its women facing gender-motivated harassment, its crickets.
wow. media literacy is really taking its dying breath, huh?
January 2, 2026 at 9:22 PM
wow. media literacy is really taking its dying breath, huh?
Merry Queer Hockey Christmas to All 🎄💖
December 25, 2025 at 6:36 PM
Merry Queer Hockey Christmas to All 🎄💖
got big-spoilered for the new episode of Heated Rivalry, now I'm just marinating in what I know until I can watch it with my partner tomorrow
December 19, 2025 at 11:13 PM
got big-spoilered for the new episode of Heated Rivalry, now I'm just marinating in what I know until I can watch it with my partner tomorrow
growth is hard, but its always worth it
December 17, 2025 at 6:39 PM
growth is hard, but its always worth it
you can't be a good person if you're a bigot
December 17, 2025 at 12:39 PM
you can't be a good person if you're a bigot
when expressing your boundaries yields a loudly negative blow-up from the recipient, you are not a bad person: THEY are the one who can't respect a boundary
December 14, 2025 at 11:54 PM
when expressing your boundaries yields a loudly negative blow-up from the recipient, you are not a bad person: THEY are the one who can't respect a boundary
compliance is fear, not consent
December 14, 2025 at 9:43 PM
compliance is fear, not consent
Convinced my partner to start watching Heated Rivalry with me by asking, "How do we feel about a tv show that is 70% graphic but beautifully shot sex scenes, all of which are gay?"
December 12, 2025 at 2:33 AM
Convinced my partner to start watching Heated Rivalry with me by asking, "How do we feel about a tv show that is 70% graphic but beautifully shot sex scenes, all of which are gay?"
thinking about all the levels of both personal and systemic failures that led to men being such emboldened, unlikeable assholes on social media...
December 11, 2025 at 8:37 PM
thinking about all the levels of both personal and systemic failures that led to men being such emboldened, unlikeable assholes on social media...
shoveling out from a foot of snow is not fun
December 11, 2025 at 2:10 AM
shoveling out from a foot of snow is not fun
America has always been racist. We've just reached the point where surveillance and consumer cameras are ubiquitous so these incidents are increasingly captured on film.
For Black, Indigenous, and other minority communities it has always been like this.
Everyone can see it now.
For Black, Indigenous, and other minority communities it has always been like this.
Everyone can see it now.
December 7, 2025 at 9:37 PM
America has always been racist. We've just reached the point where surveillance and consumer cameras are ubiquitous so these incidents are increasingly captured on film.
For Black, Indigenous, and other minority communities it has always been like this.
Everyone can see it now.
For Black, Indigenous, and other minority communities it has always been like this.
Everyone can see it now.
my dog was so excited to see my partner that his exuberance took him face-first into a wall
(we're still laughing at him 10 min later)
(we're still laughing at him 10 min later)
December 5, 2025 at 11:15 PM
my dog was so excited to see my partner that his exuberance took him face-first into a wall
(we're still laughing at him 10 min later)
(we're still laughing at him 10 min later)
certain men throw temper tantrums when they encounter a woman living a happy, fulfilling life: she has meaningful relationships, professional accolades, peace, clarity, community, and strong boundaries.
he cannot conceive of a woman whose existence is more than orbiting him.
he cannot conceive of a woman whose existence is more than orbiting him.
December 4, 2025 at 6:57 PM
certain men throw temper tantrums when they encounter a woman living a happy, fulfilling life: she has meaningful relationships, professional accolades, peace, clarity, community, and strong boundaries.
he cannot conceive of a woman whose existence is more than orbiting him.
he cannot conceive of a woman whose existence is more than orbiting him.
Need a Twin Cities charity to support? Let me introduce you to Al Maa'uun, a non-profit serving North Mpls.
Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
December 4, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Need a Twin Cities charity to support? Let me introduce you to Al Maa'uun, a non-profit serving North Mpls.
Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
Al Maa'uun provides hot meals to disabled, elderly, and food-insecure neighbors. Reintegration support for the incarcerated. Internships. Job training. Clothing. School supplies. Housing.
A partner who doesn't comprehend your safety concerns is never worth risking your safety for.
December 4, 2025 at 4:56 PM
A partner who doesn't comprehend your safety concerns is never worth risking your safety for.