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Why do we say goodbye in silence?
I sat beside my father’s bed as the body quietly let go — no theatrics, no final gasp — just the subtle unraveling that revealed more about life than death.

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#Aging #Life #Death #Grief #Family #Midlife
How the Body Lets Go When We Die
A bedside story of death, biology, and unexpected peace
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October 1, 2025 at 12:46 PM
Why do drug ads always look so silly?
They’re not just goofy — they shape what we believe about health, fear, and safety.

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#Advertising #Health #Media #Consumerism #Culture
Why Drug Ads Look So Silly And Why It Matters
From dancing fountains to bathtub couples, we deserve honesty
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October 1, 2025 at 12:46 PM
The Persimmon Man — novel in progress.
A widower’s fridge is full of casseroles in Florida… until grief pushes him across the world to rural Japan.
Think A Man Called Ove meets Lost in Translation.

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#Fiction #Widower #Grief #Japan
Chapter One — I’m Fine
The first chapter from my novel-in-progress, The Persimmon Man
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August 22, 2025 at 1:44 PM
What Teachers Wish Parents Knew
After 30 years in education, I can tell you—
Parents have no idea what teachers wish they knew.
Here’s what I’d say if I could.
#Education #Teachers #Parenting #Schools #Learning
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August 14, 2025 at 10:01 AM
How Letting Go Made Me a Better Listener
I used to think listening meant waiting for my turn to talk.
Then I learned what it meant to actually hear someone.
#Empathy #Life #Mindfulness #Relationships #Listening
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How Letting Go Made Me a Better Listener
I don’t need to write the ending for everyone else
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August 14, 2025 at 10:01 AM
Why We’re Suddenly Obsessed With Tiny, Useless Skills
Nobody’s asking for it.
Nobody needs it.
And yet, we can’t stop learning ridiculous little skills. Here’s why.
#Culture #Humor #Life #Trends #Productivity
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Why We’re Suddenly Obsessed with Tiny, Useless Skills
Mastery for joy, not productivity
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August 14, 2025 at 10:00 AM
Why Hope Works Better in Small Doses
Hope is powerful.
Too much of it?
That’s a recipe for heartbreak.
#Hope #Life #Mindset #Happiness #Wellbeing
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Why Hope Works Better in Small Doses
Avoiding toxic positivity
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August 14, 2025 at 10:00 AM
People love to tell me I’m “lucky” I never had kids.
They have no idea what we’ve been through.
This is the truth.
#Childfree #Marriage #Life #Grief #Family
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We Didn’t Pick a Dog Over Kids
Those two decisions aren’t even connected
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August 14, 2025 at 10:00 AM
I thought failing in public would ruin me.
Instead, it taught me the one thing I couldn’t learn in private. Here’s the story.
#Failure #Growth #Resilience #Writing #Life
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The Unexpected Lessons of Failing Publicly
Embarrassment becomes an excellent teacher
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August 14, 2025 at 10:00 AM
I left the Church, not my faith.
Divorce shattered the ritual. Life rebuilt the meaning.
This one's deeply personal — and it just got a Boost.
Would love your thoughts.

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#faith #deconstruction #spirituality #religion #Medium
I Left the Church, Not My Faith
What Divorce, Doubt, and Peace Taught Me About God
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July 20, 2025 at 3:54 PM
I left the Church, not my faith.
Divorce shattered the ritual. Life rebuilt the meaning.
This one's deeply personal — and it just got a Boost.
Would love your thoughts.

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#faith #deconstruction #spirituality #religion #Medium
I Left the Church, Not My Faith
What Divorce, Doubt, and Peace Taught Me About God
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July 19, 2025 at 9:44 PM
The Quiet Violence of Ageism
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#ageism #career #midlife #respect #bias
The Quiet Violence of Ageism
Subtle Ways They Stop Seeing You After 50
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July 19, 2025 at 8:03 PM
The Last Text I’ll Never Delete
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#grief #memory #friendship #loss #emotion
The Last Text I’ll Never Delete
A final message. A kind of magic that never leaves.
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July 19, 2025 at 8:02 PM
I Didn’t Want to Be the Strong One Anymore
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#strength #vulnerability #mentalhealth #resilience #identity
I Didn’t Want to Be the Strong One Anymore
When Strength Becomes a Prison Instead of a Gift
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July 19, 2025 at 8:02 PM
The High Stakes of Choosing a Restaurant With Your Spouse
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#marriage #decisions #relationships #food #funny
The High Stakes of Choosing a Restaurant With Your Spouse
Two people. One meal. Infinite chances to ruin the evening.
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July 19, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Whatever Happened to Mike?
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#humor #names #parenting #satire #culture
Whatever Happened to Mike?
These Kids Today Are Named Vowel Salad
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July 19, 2025 at 8:02 PM
It’s Myriad, Not A Myriad Of. Fight Me.
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#language #grammar #words #writing #nerdlife
It’s “Myriad,” Not “a Myriad Of” — Fight Me
A losing battle against a grammar hill I choose to die on
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July 19, 2025 at 8:02 PM
The Cult of Cozy: Why We Binge True Crime in Pajamas
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#truecrime #comfort #culture #cozy #psychology
The Cult of Cozy: Why We Binge True Crime in Pajamas
How murder became a backdrop to folding laundry
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July 19, 2025 at 8:01 PM
My Marriage Is Happy Because We Let Each Other Be Weird
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#marriage #love #quirks #partnership #humor
My Marriage Is Happy Because We Let Each Other Be Weird
A love story written in quirks, not symmetry.
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July 19, 2025 at 8:01 PM
I Don’t Call Often. I Still Love My Family.
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#family #connection #love #relationships #introvert
I Don’t Call Often. I Still Love My Family
Choosing space doesn’t mean I stopped caring.
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July 19, 2025 at 8:01 PM
The Older I Get, The Less I Explain Myself
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#aging #life #self #boundaries #growth
The Older I Get, the Less I Explain Myself
Learning to live without permission or proof
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July 19, 2025 at 8:01 PM