Pharmbear
@pharmbear.bsky.social
Gentleman Farmer living the good life in Western Massachusetts, San Francisco and NYC. My passions include gardening, home improvement, weightlifting, film, travel, cooking and meeting hot guys.
I am a married man practicing ethical non monogamy.
I am a married man practicing ethical non monogamy.
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
November 27, 2025 at 3:49 PM
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
Good morning everyone. Today is a perfect day to relax and enjoy life.
November 16, 2025 at 11:43 AM
Good morning everyone. Today is a perfect day to relax and enjoy life.
Stick season is commencing in New England. The brown leaves are being brought down with each rainfall and only the bare trees and bushes remain. The weather is cold and pushes all indoors.
November 12, 2025 at 2:47 PM
Stick season is commencing in New England. The brown leaves are being brought down with each rainfall and only the bare trees and bushes remain. The weather is cold and pushes all indoors.
Now what kind of pic do we post on humpday?
November 5, 2025 at 10:19 AM
Now what kind of pic do we post on humpday?
Happy tummy Tuesday!
November 4, 2025 at 5:21 PM
Happy tummy Tuesday!
Happy tummy Tuesday!
October 21, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Happy tummy Tuesday!
FCF question: unfulfilled desires are always painful or at least disappointing. Is it better to be an optimist and experience the loss or a pessimist and be surprised with the positive outcome?
October 10, 2025 at 2:32 PM
FCF question: unfulfilled desires are always painful or at least disappointing. Is it better to be an optimist and experience the loss or a pessimist and be surprised with the positive outcome?
I do enjoy being the Daddy with other men, but I don't really know what I am doing. I don't connect with dom/sub dynamics but with supportive and nurturing and loving interactions. Do other Dads struggle with these sorts of issues?
October 3, 2025 at 6:49 PM
I do enjoy being the Daddy with other men, but I don't really know what I am doing. I don't connect with dom/sub dynamics but with supportive and nurturing and loving interactions. Do other Dads struggle with these sorts of issues?
In honor of tummy Tuesday, you can really see it working here. Just watch my tummy.
September 23, 2025 at 2:23 PM
In honor of tummy Tuesday, you can really see it working here. Just watch my tummy.
It has been such a rough week with tons of difficult news with ongoing relationships. Humans are so difficult to understand including myself in this.
I am trying to wash away the sadness I feel.
I am trying to wash away the sadness I feel.
September 20, 2025 at 7:32 PM
It has been such a rough week with tons of difficult news with ongoing relationships. Humans are so difficult to understand including myself in this.
I am trying to wash away the sadness I feel.
I am trying to wash away the sadness I feel.
I just cancelled my Disney+. I realize that it is a drop in the bucket but I feel so helpless in these horrible partisan days. I read that Target is hurting due to boycott so I have a sliver of hope.
September 18, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I just cancelled my Disney+. I realize that it is a drop in the bucket but I feel so helpless in these horrible partisan days. I read that Target is hurting due to boycott so I have a sliver of hope.
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Goodnight Boys!
September 18, 2025 at 2:40 AM
Goodnight Boys!
Ah the good life! Have a great weekend everyone.
September 6, 2025 at 6:10 PM
Ah the good life! Have a great weekend everyone.
Sorry but please don't label alcohol as "gluten free".
August 29, 2025 at 6:02 PM
Sorry but please don't label alcohol as "gluten free".
Hang in there. Monday will be over very shortly.
August 25, 2025 at 10:32 AM
Hang in there. Monday will be over very shortly.
Just getting into the tail end of softy Sunday. This pic is from 12 years ago.
August 24, 2025 at 9:49 PM
Just getting into the tail end of softy Sunday. This pic is from 12 years ago.
Happy MCM! Put some color in your week.
August 18, 2025 at 1:07 PM
Happy MCM! Put some color in your week.
The gym is my happy place even on monochrome days. Still happy.
August 4, 2025 at 6:09 PM
The gym is my happy place even on monochrome days. Still happy.
What a beautiful Friday evening! Nothing like a cigar and good bourbon to end the work week. This is Basil Hayden Toast and it is amazing.
August 1, 2025 at 11:34 PM
What a beautiful Friday evening! Nothing like a cigar and good bourbon to end the work week. This is Basil Hayden Toast and it is amazing.
Relaxing in the garden with a good smoke.
June 25, 2025 at 11:16 PM
Relaxing in the garden with a good smoke.