Paul Dix
@pauldixbehaviour.bsky.social
Behaviour specialist, writer, performer. Director at WhenTheAdultsChange.com Some children follow the rules, some children follow people first. #LoseTheBooths
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Paul Dix
@pauldixbehaviour.bsky.social
· Nov 15
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TRAINING | WhenTheAdultsChange
The home of relational practice based on the work of Paul Dix
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February 1, 2026 at 2:39 PM
New training packages. Dripfeed inclusive behaviour change www.whentheadultschange.com/training
Book Club with Sam Stocken starts Feb 3rd at 8pm - free, friendly and fascinating www.whentheadultschange.com/event-detail...
Behaviour Book Club with Sam Stocken | Paul Dix - When The Adults Change
Book Club is on the first Tuesday of every month at 8pm.
We are currently reading "When the Adults Change" and exploring a new chapter each month.
Book Club is free.
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January 25, 2026 at 1:55 PM
Book Club with Sam Stocken starts Feb 3rd at 8pm - free, friendly and fascinating www.whentheadultschange.com/event-detail...
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Congratulations Newbridge Integrated College!
They've been awarded the title of When The Adults Change Partner School by @pauldixbehaviour.bsky.social in recognition of their outstanding work building & developing relationships. A brilliant example of relational practice in action💙
They've been awarded the title of When The Adults Change Partner School by @pauldixbehaviour.bsky.social in recognition of their outstanding work building & developing relationships. A brilliant example of relational practice in action💙
Integrated Ethos
The work in New-Bridge has been used by CCEA to inform its support and guidance material for the Key Stage 3 curricular strand of Learning for Life and Work (Local and Global Citizenship).
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January 5, 2026 at 12:22 PM
Congratulations Newbridge Integrated College!
They've been awarded the title of When The Adults Change Partner School by @pauldixbehaviour.bsky.social in recognition of their outstanding work building & developing relationships. A brilliant example of relational practice in action💙
They've been awarded the title of When The Adults Change Partner School by @pauldixbehaviour.bsky.social in recognition of their outstanding work building & developing relationships. A brilliant example of relational practice in action💙
Reposted by Paul Dix
Well, they’re on their way (they set off at 8.26, he left a message) and our house is winding up in the usual fashion; everything has been cleaned, wiped, hoovered, dusted, ironed, put away.
But now we have a serious issue, because we can’t find the Christmas place mats.
Bedlam.
But now we have a serious issue, because we can’t find the Christmas place mats.
Bedlam.
December 24, 2025 at 10:39 AM
Well, they’re on their way (they set off at 8.26, he left a message) and our house is winding up in the usual fashion; everything has been cleaned, wiped, hoovered, dusted, ironed, put away.
But now we have a serious issue, because we can’t find the Christmas place mats.
Bedlam.
But now we have a serious issue, because we can’t find the Christmas place mats.
Bedlam.
You got this. Last push. End on a high, clean the slate, no consequences hung over till next term, no grudges left untangled. This week notice the positive even and especially when things wobble.
December 14, 2025 at 3:15 PM
You got this. Last push. End on a high, clean the slate, no consequences hung over till next term, no grudges left untangled. This week notice the positive even and especially when things wobble.
I am sure the fella who flattened the grass will sort out the problems with schools that celebrate a culture of fear.
December 11, 2025 at 7:06 AM
I am sure the fella who flattened the grass will sort out the problems with schools that celebrate a culture of fear.
Come on you can do this, eyes on the prize, two weeks to go. Make the chaos predictable, let the glitter flow and watch out for those young people whose Christmas is nothing to look forward to.
December 7, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Come on you can do this, eyes on the prize, two weeks to go. Make the chaos predictable, let the glitter flow and watch out for those young people whose Christmas is nothing to look forward to.
'Of course, the macho ignorance of zero tolerance made things worse. Plus ca change' #AmWriting www.whentheadultschange.com/
December 5, 2025 at 8:00 AM
'Of course, the macho ignorance of zero tolerance made things worse. Plus ca change' #AmWriting www.whentheadultschange.com/
Without structure, kindness is just a wish www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
December 4, 2025 at 12:30 PM
Without structure, kindness is just a wish www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
'Your daily practice needs to be as predictable as an assembly that starts with the sounds of M People' Behaviour Tips, free, weekly, practical and no spam www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
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December 3, 2025 at 4:00 PM
'Your daily practice needs to be as predictable as an assembly that starts with the sounds of M People' Behaviour Tips, free, weekly, practical and no spam www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
Some children follow the rules. Some follow people first. wwwwhentheadultschange/tips
December 1, 2025 at 11:25 AM
Some children follow the rules. Some follow people first. wwwwhentheadultschange/tips
Oi Oi, free #Behaviour Tips, start Monday, inclusive, practical and no spam. Get on it www.whentheadultschange.com/
November 28, 2025 at 11:03 AM
Oi Oi, free #Behaviour Tips, start Monday, inclusive, practical and no spam. Get on it www.whentheadultschange.com/
What you say to a child in the most difficult moments matters a lot
November 26, 2025 at 4:00 PM
What you say to a child in the most difficult moments matters a lot
Fewer rules coupled with simple routines, encourage less negotiation
November 25, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Fewer rules coupled with simple routines, encourage less negotiation
Nurture isn't a room, it's a culture
November 24, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Nurture isn't a room, it's a culture
Leading Behaviour Change? www.youtube.com/watch
When the Adults Change: Leading the Change
Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.
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November 23, 2025 at 4:00 PM
Leading Behaviour Change? www.youtube.com/watch
Behaviour courses that fit in with your schedule. Drip feed inclusive practice www.whentheadultschange.com/online-cours
November 21, 2025 at 11:23 AM
Behaviour courses that fit in with your schedule. Drip feed inclusive practice www.whentheadultschange.com/online-cours
"I can't stop playground arguments from spilling into lessons" Free Behaviour Tips, start on Dec 1st, get your behaviour mojo back www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
November 20, 2025 at 7:00 PM
"I can't stop playground arguments from spilling into lessons" Free Behaviour Tips, start on Dec 1st, get your behaviour mojo back www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
Trauma-informed isn't a badge, belonging and booths don't fit and exclusion still isn't a behaviour strategy whentheadultschange.com/
November 20, 2025 at 9:55 AM
Trauma-informed isn't a badge, belonging and booths don't fit and exclusion still isn't a behaviour strategy whentheadultschange.com/
"How do I stop the off-task behaviours (they are driving me nuts) ?" Free #Behaviour Tips from me, start Dec 1st, sign up here www.whentheadultschange.com/tips to get back in the game.
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November 19, 2025 at 12:15 PM
"How do I stop the off-task behaviours (they are driving me nuts) ?" Free #Behaviour Tips from me, start Dec 1st, sign up here www.whentheadultschange.com/tips to get back in the game.
Don't believe the haters, this is what Relational Practice really looks like www.youtube.com/watch
Mythbuster for Schools
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November 18, 2025 at 6:00 PM
Don't believe the haters, this is what Relational Practice really looks like www.youtube.com/watch
Don't believe the haters, this is what Relational Practice really looks like www.youtube.com/watch
Mythbuster for Schools
Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.
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November 18, 2025 at 10:38 AM
Don't believe the haters, this is what Relational Practice really looks like www.youtube.com/watch
I hope Positive Noticing Day went well for you. We have had a flood of photos and videos. Here are the students at Harlow College reflecting on their day youtube.com/shorts/1j1La... #Behaviour #PND2025
Positive Noticing Day Reel 2025
With thanks to the young adults at Harlow College
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November 17, 2025 at 6:00 PM
I hope Positive Noticing Day went well for you. We have had a flood of photos and videos. Here are the students at Harlow College reflecting on their day youtube.com/shorts/1j1La... #Behaviour #PND2025
So you tried 'don't smile until Christmas' and it hasn't worked...... Behaviour Tips, free, weekly, start Dec 1st, get on it www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
November 16, 2025 at 3:38 PM
So you tried 'don't smile until Christmas' and it hasn't worked...... Behaviour Tips, free, weekly, start Dec 1st, get on it www.whentheadultschange.com/tips
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November 15, 2025 at 10:20 AM
‘When a child refuses to…..’ Free Behaviour Tips, sign up now WhenTheAdultsChange.com/tips