Blythe Davis
@noooooothanku.bsky.social
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Hyperfixation: gluten-free sourdough
Hyperfixation: gluten-free sourdough
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Blythe Davis
@noooooothanku.bsky.social
· Jul 19
who are you when you’re not pleasing anyone?
on fawning, fatigue, fear of being too much, and the emotional cost of making yourself easier to love
open.substack.com
"because the more fluent you become in other people’s needs, the harder it becomes to locate your own. you lose sight of where you end and they begin. you start performing yourself in ways that earn connection but cost authenticity. "
Reposted by Blythe Davis
We ❤️ arguing.
If you do too, here's everything you need to navigate holiday dinner table discussions about immigrants’ rights, transgender rights, and more.
If you do too, here's everything you need to navigate holiday dinner table discussions about immigrants’ rights, transgender rights, and more.
The ACLU's Holiday Conversation Guide
Pass the yams and the politically-fraught chatter, everyone - it's that time of year again. We know many of us will find ourselves gathering around tables this holiday season with a wide range of folks in our lives - loved ones, friends, chosen family, and the family you'd only choose to spend one day a year with.
www.aclu.org
December 24, 2025 at 5:05 PM
We ❤️ arguing.
If you do too, here's everything you need to navigate holiday dinner table discussions about immigrants’ rights, transgender rights, and more.
If you do too, here's everything you need to navigate holiday dinner table discussions about immigrants’ rights, transgender rights, and more.
I think i may put, " im not here to socialize" im my permanent scripting rotation.
December 24, 2025 at 10:35 PM
I think i may put, " im not here to socialize" im my permanent scripting rotation.
Celebrated Jólabókaflóð at MPL east side with the refreshing @hamzam.medsky.social
December 24, 2025 at 2:13 AM
Celebrated Jólabókaflóð at MPL east side with the refreshing @hamzam.medsky.social
In February it will be one year off of Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok and my only regret remains not doing it sooner. I still have room to grow with how I am present &mindful I am and im glad I left.
Also just because this feels good for me dosent mean thats the same for you.
Also just because this feels good for me dosent mean thats the same for you.
December 23, 2025 at 4:50 PM
In February it will be one year off of Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok and my only regret remains not doing it sooner. I still have room to grow with how I am present &mindful I am and im glad I left.
Also just because this feels good for me dosent mean thats the same for you.
Also just because this feels good for me dosent mean thats the same for you.
MSO holiday concert with @hamzam.medsky.social 🤍💛 the hanukkah song was the best
December 21, 2025 at 12:40 AM
MSO holiday concert with @hamzam.medsky.social 🤍💛 the hanukkah song was the best
This semester I broke part of my foot and two toes, had kidney stones, my dog, uncle and guinea pig past away and I found out my mom needs open heart surgery so God bless starting my break early and GOOD BYE FALL SEMESTER.
donald duck says " girl bye " with his hand
Alt: donald duck says " girl bye " with his hand
media.tenor.com
December 18, 2025 at 1:16 PM
This semester I broke part of my foot and two toes, had kidney stones, my dog, uncle and guinea pig past away and I found out my mom needs open heart surgery so God bless starting my break early and GOOD BYE FALL SEMESTER.
Stunning
The highlands of Iceland seen from above… Captured from a Cessna plane few years ago, part of a series focusing on glacier water networks.
#photography #art #landscape #nature
#photography #art #landscape #nature
December 18, 2025 at 1:06 PM
Stunning
There was a time where I truly believe because I struggle to perform and like, "small talk" it was because I was anti community and a bad person all because some "cool" people on Instagram said that.
Anyways, im autistic and it turns out struggling with small talk dosent mean im the anti christ. 🤷🏼♂️
Anyways, im autistic and it turns out struggling with small talk dosent mean im the anti christ. 🤷🏼♂️
December 17, 2025 at 11:08 AM
There was a time where I truly believe because I struggle to perform and like, "small talk" it was because I was anti community and a bad person all because some "cool" people on Instagram said that.
Anyways, im autistic and it turns out struggling with small talk dosent mean im the anti christ. 🤷🏼♂️
Anyways, im autistic and it turns out struggling with small talk dosent mean im the anti christ. 🤷🏼♂️
When people remember that im a teacher and a parent it makes me feel more human.
December 17, 2025 at 2:20 AM
When people remember that im a teacher and a parent it makes me feel more human.
Im not typically a praying human but baby jesus please give me the strength and discipline to not pop the f*** off this week and remember to be responsive and predictable as we head into the last school week before winter Break. Amen.
December 15, 2025 at 1:12 PM
Im not typically a praying human but baby jesus please give me the strength and discipline to not pop the f*** off this week and remember to be responsive and predictable as we head into the last school week before winter Break. Amen.
Costco hotdogs without the buns anda berry smoothie for lunch because idk protein and fiber 🤷🏼♂️💖
December 13, 2025 at 6:48 PM
Costco hotdogs without the buns anda berry smoothie for lunch because idk protein and fiber 🤷🏼♂️💖
Eating shrimp cocktail and watching period dramas from my bed. As God intended me to be in my luteal phase
December 13, 2025 at 4:34 AM
Eating shrimp cocktail and watching period dramas from my bed. As God intended me to be in my luteal phase
Shout out to Maddy for convincing me to not force quit my occupation.
December 11, 2025 at 3:54 AM
Shout out to Maddy for convincing me to not force quit my occupation.
Me everytime someone gets mad at me when it "takes so long for you to process something"
Yeah hoe its called DELAYED PROCESSING DISORDER and it's deeply affiliated with many neurodivergencies.
Yiiiiish
Yeah hoe its called DELAYED PROCESSING DISORDER and it's deeply affiliated with many neurodivergencies.
Yiiiiish
a man wearing sunglasses and a scarf is saying but did you die
Alt: a man wearing sunglasses and a scarf is saying but did you die
media.tenor.com
December 10, 2025 at 3:35 AM
Me everytime someone gets mad at me when it "takes so long for you to process something"
Yeah hoe its called DELAYED PROCESSING DISORDER and it's deeply affiliated with many neurodivergencies.
Yiiiiish
Yeah hoe its called DELAYED PROCESSING DISORDER and it's deeply affiliated with many neurodivergencies.
Yiiiiish
Fidget dinner pizza rolls and edamame
December 9, 2025 at 1:43 AM
Fidget dinner pizza rolls and edamame
Real Af thank you to the people of reddit
December 8, 2025 at 5:28 AM
Real Af thank you to the people of reddit
Just two introverts lounging on a snowy sunday.
December 7, 2025 at 10:39 PM
Just two introverts lounging on a snowy sunday.
Happy comfy cozy to everyone expect people who end e v e r y text with an emoji. Who hurt you and why are you like this?
December 7, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Happy comfy cozy to everyone expect people who end e v e r y text with an emoji. Who hurt you and why are you like this?
I really felt EVERY inch of this Gemini moon transiting my 7th house while aspecting the north and south node. Delightful and dreadful at once. Yay multidimensionality
December 5, 2025 at 8:14 PM
I really felt EVERY inch of this Gemini moon transiting my 7th house while aspecting the north and south node. Delightful and dreadful at once. Yay multidimensionality
In 2 years ive lived in Wisconsin longer than ive lived in Minnesota. What a thought.
November 30, 2025 at 7:18 PM
In 2 years ive lived in Wisconsin longer than ive lived in Minnesota. What a thought.
First sizable snow in a while. My spawn is holding our dogs boots incase she wants to come play in the snow with him. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
November 30, 2025 at 5:44 PM
First sizable snow in a while. My spawn is holding our dogs boots incase she wants to come play in the snow with him. 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I adore snowy weather.
November 30, 2025 at 1:29 AM
I adore snowy weather.
Reposted by Blythe Davis
Finally getting some theological clarity on the ethics of reclining in one’s plane seat
November 29, 2025 at 12:13 PM
Finally getting some theological clarity on the ethics of reclining in one’s plane seat
Weeping at socially inconvenient times
(Less so today)
We have our first real snowfall where I live.And seeing the backyard without my dogs footprints or remnants that she played and explored the joy of snow had me weeping on my way to the gym.
Bless solo time in the car.
(Less so today)
We have our first real snowfall where I live.And seeing the backyard without my dogs footprints or remnants that she played and explored the joy of snow had me weeping on my way to the gym.
Bless solo time in the car.
November 29, 2025 at 7:16 PM
Weeping at socially inconvenient times
(Less so today)
We have our first real snowfall where I live.And seeing the backyard without my dogs footprints or remnants that she played and explored the joy of snow had me weeping on my way to the gym.
Bless solo time in the car.
(Less so today)
We have our first real snowfall where I live.And seeing the backyard without my dogs footprints or remnants that she played and explored the joy of snow had me weeping on my way to the gym.
Bless solo time in the car.
Things that made me weep openly in public
In menards because I need salt for my driveway and I see someone with a cart of dog things talking about how excited they are to spoil their dog. Darn right you are. Please ignore my face
In menards because I need salt for my driveway and I see someone with a cart of dog things talking about how excited they are to spoil their dog. Darn right you are. Please ignore my face
November 28, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Things that made me weep openly in public
In menards because I need salt for my driveway and I see someone with a cart of dog things talking about how excited they are to spoil their dog. Darn right you are. Please ignore my face
In menards because I need salt for my driveway and I see someone with a cart of dog things talking about how excited they are to spoil their dog. Darn right you are. Please ignore my face