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Queer&Loathing
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Queer and Loathing in DC

Cat dad, horror fan, vinyl collector, IT Flunky

Likes: Live music, scruffy guys, glasses, kindness

Dislikes: Long walks on the beach, olives, republicans, butt stuff

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51, He/Him/Homo

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Ugh. My scar better end up looking better than this at some point. I’ll spare you the photos but it looks like I have a second ass crack an inch above my actual ass crack.
February 18, 2026 at 7:15 PM
Finally got my staples taken out today, 3 weeks after my back surgery for my sciatica. I’m so excited to take a proper shower tonight. Still get really sore if I sit, stand, or lay down for too long - but I haven’t have any leg pain or numbness since I woke up from the anesthesia!
February 10, 2026 at 11:32 PM
340k people? I’m not saying it’s
Wrong, but what is the source for that? I’m seeing numbers like 30-70k (still an obscene number).
Jesus fucking Christ.
One of every thousand American residents has been taken into custody by ICE in the last year.
February 10, 2026 at 11:13 PM
So much of TikTok is now just people stitching each other and saying “Epstein files mentioned wine corks and bleu cheese 12 times so bleu cheese must be a code word for eating baby feet” - and then three days of people confidently saying Corky Romano eats baby feet.
February 10, 2026 at 11:08 PM
Problematic-masks on the cover aside, this album kinda slaps and is weirdly relevant. (First time listening to it in a long time and how did I never notice those masks before? I always thought they were the “theatre” masks.)
February 8, 2026 at 6:28 PM
Welp - everything looks great but I didn’t get my staples taken out. He said “I want to keep them in for another week - there’s some pulling and stretching at that location.”

Which is a clinical way of saying “look fatty, we’re gonna leave them in so you dont pop open like a tube of biscuits.” 🤣
February 3, 2026 at 5:57 PM
Sciatica surgery post-op appointment today - getting my staples taken out!
a picture of a goat with the words so excited on the bottom
ALT: a picture of a goat with the words so excited on the bottom
media.tenor.com
February 3, 2026 at 5:05 PM
Me, thoughtfully considering buying a $20 solid walnut coffee bean dosing cup with static electricity reducing spray for the grounds.
February 3, 2026 at 12:53 AM
Just got a subscription to the NightFlight streaming app. Tons of B movies, lots of horror and music documentaries. Seems right up my alley.
January 23, 2026 at 12:36 AM
Just got out of sciatica surgery. So far I’ve walked around a bit at the hospital and no nerve pain! Of course I’m on like 12 pain meds.

All this and a corset too? This waist is SNATCHED.
January 21, 2026 at 9:02 PM
I’m still alive.
January 21, 2026 at 5:58 PM
Waking up before the buttcrack of dawn tomorrow for my sciatica related back surgery. Time to drown my anxiety in a tasty cheeseburger.
January 21, 2026 at 12:21 AM
Me, finally eating the turkey chili from the cafe at work.
January 20, 2026 at 6:56 PM
Someone finally made this song listenable. 😂

www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5XR...
GWAR cover “Pink Pony Club” by Chappell Roan
YouTube video by The A.V. Club
www.youtube.com
January 15, 2026 at 9:54 PM
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It's an MTV simulator with almost 30,000 videos, organized by decade, with special sections for Headbanger's Ball and Yo! MTV Raps. This is so good.
January 6, 2026 at 5:11 PM
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Save the Date
January 6, 2026 at 6:44 PM
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Yotta flop deez nuts
Who cares
January 6, 2026 at 5:10 PM
Speaking of #strangerThings - if I’m ever trapped in another dimension and being placated within the mind of an all-powerful being - I would rather crawl up Vecna’s viney undead asshole than hear “Running Up That Hill” one more time.
January 6, 2026 at 6:47 PM
I finished Stranger Things the other night. I thought it was very OK. It spun off the rails a bit but I don’t get all the hate. I REALLY don’t get all the vitriol towards the coming out scene. People wanted some of his friends to reject him in the name of “realism?” Fuckoutahere.

#strangerThings
January 6, 2026 at 6:36 PM
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A hacker known as Martha Root broke in and deleted three white supremacists websites at the end of a talk during the annual hacker conference Chaos Communication Congress in Germany.
Hacktivist deletes white supremacist websites live on stage during hacker conference | TechCrunch
A hacker known as Martha Root broke in and deleted three white supremacists websites at the end of a talk during the annual hacker conference Chaos Communication Congress in Germany.
techcrunch.com
January 5, 2026 at 6:58 PM
Rediscovering Kyuss - kinda forgot they existed until I picked up their debut on vinyl last week. Haven’t listened in like 20 years.
January 5, 2026 at 2:04 PM
My face when I realize I have to start going into the office tomorrow, after working from home for two weeks.
January 5, 2026 at 1:32 AM
Apple’s developer review messages are like “something is wrong with your app, figure it out. It might be this one thing is missing, except that thing is easily found. “
January 5, 2026 at 1:28 AM
Went to the Air and Space museum; saw this helicopter with a rescue basket and this was the first thing that came to mind.
January 1, 2026 at 10:22 PM
Share a great female villain:
December 28, 2025 at 8:31 PM