Nick Bognar (he/him)
@nickbognarcoaching.bsky.social
#LMFT in private practice in CA / Helping #therapists build their dream practices / Lover of #cats, baker of pies, rewriter of #networking rules.
A Meta-refugee, here to make genuine connections.
www.nickbognarcoaching.com
A Meta-refugee, here to make genuine connections.
www.nickbognarcoaching.com
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Build a network of professional colleagues who don’t believe in “keeping it all for themselves” and watch your practice grow in the best possible way.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
Another therapist once told me: “I feel like I’m not fully recognized anywhere.”
That line gutted me — and also nailed the experience of so many high-achieving, burned-out therapists.
Do you resonate with that?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
That line gutted me — and also nailed the experience of so many high-achieving, burned-out therapists.
Do you resonate with that?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
November 12, 2025 at 4:05 PM
Another therapist once told me: “I feel like I’m not fully recognized anywhere.”
That line gutted me — and also nailed the experience of so many high-achieving, burned-out therapists.
Do you resonate with that?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
That line gutted me — and also nailed the experience of so many high-achieving, burned-out therapists.
Do you resonate with that?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
My old business card said: Depression Destroyer.
My next one might just say: Not the ketchup guy. Not the guitar amp guy.
(There are at least two other “Nick Bognars” out there so I have to clarify.)
Should therapists lean into humor with their branding, or keep it buttoned-up?
#therapistsconnect
My next one might just say: Not the ketchup guy. Not the guitar amp guy.
(There are at least two other “Nick Bognars” out there so I have to clarify.)
Should therapists lean into humor with their branding, or keep it buttoned-up?
#therapistsconnect
November 10, 2025 at 4:38 PM
My old business card said: Depression Destroyer.
My next one might just say: Not the ketchup guy. Not the guitar amp guy.
(There are at least two other “Nick Bognars” out there so I have to clarify.)
Should therapists lean into humor with their branding, or keep it buttoned-up?
#therapistsconnect
My next one might just say: Not the ketchup guy. Not the guitar amp guy.
(There are at least two other “Nick Bognars” out there so I have to clarify.)
Should therapists lean into humor with their branding, or keep it buttoned-up?
#therapistsconnect
PSA: Feeling fried ≠ ‘not cut out for it.’ It usually means ‘under-resourced and isolated.’ Find one colleague. Start with ‘I thought of you today.’
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
November 7, 2025 at 4:51 PM
PSA: Feeling fried ≠ ‘not cut out for it.’ It usually means ‘under-resourced and isolated.’ Find one colleague. Start with ‘I thought of you today.’
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
You’re carrying the weight of ten stories a day. No human body—no matter how trained—can hold that alone. Peers are how we metabolize the work.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
November 5, 2025 at 4:43 PM
You’re carrying the weight of ten stories a day. No human body—no matter how trained—can hold that alone. Peers are how we metabolize the work.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
The open hours you may have in your schedule right now aren’t dead space; they’re networking office hours.
Text a colleague, book a coffee, join a consult group.
Calendars fill from conversations, and if you have time to see clients, you have time to build the relationships that bring them.
Text a colleague, book a coffee, join a consult group.
Calendars fill from conversations, and if you have time to see clients, you have time to build the relationships that bring them.
November 4, 2025 at 7:41 PM
The open hours you may have in your schedule right now aren’t dead space; they’re networking office hours.
Text a colleague, book a coffee, join a consult group.
Calendars fill from conversations, and if you have time to see clients, you have time to build the relationships that bring them.
Text a colleague, book a coffee, join a consult group.
Calendars fill from conversations, and if you have time to see clients, you have time to build the relationships that bring them.
I'll be honest. I don’t buy into SEO for therapists.
You’re not competing with 4,000 random Googlers; you’re competing with BetterHelp’s $20M ad budget.
And I swear that the best referrals don’t come from strangers on Google.
Agree? Or is SEO your hill to die on?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect
You’re not competing with 4,000 random Googlers; you’re competing with BetterHelp’s $20M ad budget.
And I swear that the best referrals don’t come from strangers on Google.
Agree? Or is SEO your hill to die on?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect
November 3, 2025 at 5:07 PM
I'll be honest. I don’t buy into SEO for therapists.
You’re not competing with 4,000 random Googlers; you’re competing with BetterHelp’s $20M ad budget.
And I swear that the best referrals don’t come from strangers on Google.
Agree? Or is SEO your hill to die on?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect
You’re not competing with 4,000 random Googlers; you’re competing with BetterHelp’s $20M ad budget.
And I swear that the best referrals don’t come from strangers on Google.
Agree? Or is SEO your hill to die on?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect
Networking isn’t always about who knows your name. It’s about who remembers you when an opportunity shows up.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 31, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Networking isn’t always about who knows your name. It’s about who remembers you when an opportunity shows up.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
Not every connection becomes a referral. But some become your business partner. Or supervisor. Or friend. Or life raft.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
October 29, 2025 at 3:12 PM
Not every connection becomes a referral. But some become your business partner. Or supervisor. Or friend. Or life raft.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
If you're waiting for the “big break” that finally fills your practice, here’s a wild idea: what if it’s a quiet referral from someone who trusts you?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 27, 2025 at 3:08 PM
If you're waiting for the “big break” that finally fills your practice, here’s a wild idea: what if it’s a quiet referral from someone who trusts you?
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
If your therapist self feels sturdy but your business self is flailing—that’s not failure. It’s a sign that one part needs more support.
#therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
October 24, 2025 at 3:24 PM
If your therapist self feels sturdy but your business self is flailing—that’s not failure. It’s a sign that one part needs more support.
#therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
You’re allowed to want help before everything’s on fire.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
October 22, 2025 at 3:18 PM
You’re allowed to want help before everything’s on fire.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
Being the ‘strong one’ doesn’t mean you never need support. It means you’ve probably just gotten really good at hiding it.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
October 20, 2025 at 3:43 PM
Being the ‘strong one’ doesn’t mean you never need support. It means you’ve probably just gotten really good at hiding it.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists
Just because you can rearrange your whole schedule to accommodate someone...doesn’t mean you should.
#therapistsky #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 17, 2025 at 3:18 PM
Just because you can rearrange your whole schedule to accommodate someone...doesn’t mean you should.
#therapistsky #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #blueskytherapists #therapists
You’re not ‘too sensitive’ for needing emotional safety in your calendar.
October 15, 2025 at 3:16 PM
You’re not ‘too sensitive’ for needing emotional safety in your calendar.
Structure is not rigidity. Sometimes a predictable schedule is the thing that keeps you regulated enough to do the damn work.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 13, 2025 at 3:12 PM
Structure is not rigidity. Sometimes a predictable schedule is the thing that keeps you regulated enough to do the damn work.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
You can’t learn if you’re in fight-or-flight. And that includes in supervision.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
October 10, 2025 at 3:11 PM
You can’t learn if you’re in fight-or-flight. And that includes in supervision.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
I had a supervisor once who I thought I had to impress. So I hid my mistakes. You can probably guess how well that went.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 8, 2025 at 3:04 PM
I had a supervisor once who I thought I had to impress. So I hid my mistakes. You can probably guess how well that went.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
Good supervision helps you grow—it doesn’t make you doubt yourself every week.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
October 6, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Good supervision helps you grow—it doesn’t make you doubt yourself every week.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky #psychotherapy #mentalhealth #psychsky #therapysky #business #businessbuilding #referralnetwork
#ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth
Power dynamics in supervision are real. And if you’ve ever frozen in the moment, then spiraled for weeks about it—you’re not broken. You’re absorbing something that isn’t yours.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 3, 2025 at 3:04 PM
Power dynamics in supervision are real. And if you’ve ever frozen in the moment, then spiraled for weeks about it—you’re not broken. You’re absorbing something that isn’t yours.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
I used to think I had to be agreeable to get hours. That if I made things hard, I’d be labeled ‘difficult.’ Turns out, being agreeable didn’t make me safe either.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
October 1, 2025 at 3:11 PM
I used to think I had to be agreeable to get hours. That if I made things hard, I’d be labeled ‘difficult.’ Turns out, being agreeable didn’t make me safe either.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
It's just so important to find your people.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
September 30, 2025 at 3:04 PM
It's just so important to find your people.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists
Build a network of professional colleagues who don’t believe in “keeping it all for themselves” and watch your practice grow in the best possible way.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
September 29, 2025 at 3:27 PM
Build a network of professional colleagues who don’t believe in “keeping it all for themselves” and watch your practice grow in the best possible way.
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #therapistsofbluesky #referralnetwork #ReferralMarketing #WordOfMouth #GrowWithReferrals #ReferralStrategy
Full-fee therapy doesn’t mean greedy luxury on the part of the therapist.
It means I’m not spending the session calculating how many no-shows I can afford this week.
It means I remember your story.
It means I’m not tired of holding space.
It means I’m still in it with you.
#therapistsky
It means I’m not spending the session calculating how many no-shows I can afford this week.
It means I remember your story.
It means I’m not tired of holding space.
It means I’m still in it with you.
#therapistsky
September 26, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Full-fee therapy doesn’t mean greedy luxury on the part of the therapist.
It means I’m not spending the session calculating how many no-shows I can afford this week.
It means I remember your story.
It means I’m not tired of holding space.
It means I’m still in it with you.
#therapistsky
It means I’m not spending the session calculating how many no-shows I can afford this week.
It means I remember your story.
It means I’m not tired of holding space.
It means I’m still in it with you.
#therapistsky
High fee doesn’t mean high ego.
Sometimes it just means “I value the work. And I value me.”
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky
Sometimes it just means “I value the work. And I value me.”
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky
September 25, 2025 at 3:00 PM
High fee doesn’t mean high ego.
Sometimes it just means “I value the work. And I value me.”
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky
Sometimes it just means “I value the work. And I value me.”
#therapistsky #therapistsconnect #blueskytherapists #therapists #therapistsofbluesky
You probably wouldn’t know if your therapist was burned out.
They’d still smile. Still ask how you are. Still nod in all the right places.
But maybe they’d run a little late, or forget what you said last week.
Or seem kind of... tired. Like they’re somewhere else...
They’d still smile. Still ask how you are. Still nod in all the right places.
But maybe they’d run a little late, or forget what you said last week.
Or seem kind of... tired. Like they’re somewhere else...
September 24, 2025 at 3:02 PM
You probably wouldn’t know if your therapist was burned out.
They’d still smile. Still ask how you are. Still nod in all the right places.
But maybe they’d run a little late, or forget what you said last week.
Or seem kind of... tired. Like they’re somewhere else...
They’d still smile. Still ask how you are. Still nod in all the right places.
But maybe they’d run a little late, or forget what you said last week.
Or seem kind of... tired. Like they’re somewhere else...