Papa Bear
@musclefriendly.bsky.social
Gay. Polyamorous. Kinky. Digital artist. Widower. Grieving father. PTSD survivor. I help others through sorrow and joy as “The After Life Coach”.
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“Yesterday was your special day, sweet Pupper.
This isn’t how I imagined birthdays and holidays with you. It takes a courage I didn’t know I had.
I felt your hand on my shoulder. I know that you are always there.
Papa loves you, baby boy. He always has. He always will.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Ian
This isn’t how I imagined birthdays and holidays with you. It takes a courage I didn’t know I had.
I felt your hand on my shoulder. I know that you are always there.
Papa loves you, baby boy. He always has. He always will.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Ian
November 1, 2025 at 12:12 PM
“Yesterday was your special day, sweet Pupper.
This isn’t how I imagined birthdays and holidays with you. It takes a courage I didn’t know I had.
I felt your hand on my shoulder. I know that you are always there.
Papa loves you, baby boy. He always has. He always will.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Ian
This isn’t how I imagined birthdays and holidays with you. It takes a courage I didn’t know I had.
I felt your hand on my shoulder. I know that you are always there.
Papa loves you, baby boy. He always has. He always will.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Ian
“If you pull back the veil, what will it reveal?
The veil between worlds is thinnest tonight.
But what if it were the worlds of your current self, and your authentic self? If you stared at your inner truth, what would you see?”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and Aaron Trainer
The veil between worlds is thinnest tonight.
But what if it were the worlds of your current self, and your authentic self? If you stared at your inner truth, what would you see?”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and Aaron Trainer
October 31, 2025 at 12:04 PM
“If you pull back the veil, what will it reveal?
The veil between worlds is thinnest tonight.
But what if it were the worlds of your current self, and your authentic self? If you stared at your inner truth, what would you see?”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and Aaron Trainer
The veil between worlds is thinnest tonight.
But what if it were the worlds of your current self, and your authentic self? If you stared at your inner truth, what would you see?”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and Aaron Trainer
“Who do you want to be?
This time of year, what inner parts will you show? Even just for one night?
Will you reveal your animal self? The monster within? The hero you aspire to be?
Try all these on. Ask yourself, what if I were like this all of the time?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @trophycub.bsky.social
This time of year, what inner parts will you show? Even just for one night?
Will you reveal your animal self? The monster within? The hero you aspire to be?
Try all these on. Ask yourself, what if I were like this all of the time?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @trophycub.bsky.social
October 28, 2025 at 12:43 PM
“Who do you want to be?
This time of year, what inner parts will you show? Even just for one night?
Will you reveal your animal self? The monster within? The hero you aspire to be?
Try all these on. Ask yourself, what if I were like this all of the time?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @trophycub.bsky.social
This time of year, what inner parts will you show? Even just for one night?
Will you reveal your animal self? The monster within? The hero you aspire to be?
Try all these on. Ask yourself, what if I were like this all of the time?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @trophycub.bsky.social
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“The magic is within you.
When you are grounded within yourself. When you know what you bring to the table. Then everything changes.
Others gravitate to you. With you, they feel safe.
To them, you are proof. They can find their magic too.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jorgethestallion.bsky.social
When you are grounded within yourself. When you know what you bring to the table. Then everything changes.
Others gravitate to you. With you, they feel safe.
To them, you are proof. They can find their magic too.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jorgethestallion.bsky.social
October 24, 2025 at 11:57 AM
“The magic is within you.
When you are grounded within yourself. When you know what you bring to the table. Then everything changes.
Others gravitate to you. With you, they feel safe.
To them, you are proof. They can find their magic too.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jorgethestallion.bsky.social
When you are grounded within yourself. When you know what you bring to the table. Then everything changes.
Others gravitate to you. With you, they feel safe.
To them, you are proof. They can find their magic too.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jorgethestallion.bsky.social
“What happens if you let go of what people expect you to be? Of what you’re told you should be?
Reach down deep. Find your primal urges. To romp. To play. To hunt. To howl. To growl. To rut.
Let your animal self point to a more authentic you.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Reach down deep. Find your primal urges. To romp. To play. To hunt. To howl. To growl. To rut.
Let your animal self point to a more authentic you.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
October 21, 2025 at 12:14 PM
“What happens if you let go of what people expect you to be? Of what you’re told you should be?
Reach down deep. Find your primal urges. To romp. To play. To hunt. To howl. To growl. To rut.
Let your animal self point to a more authentic you.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Reach down deep. Find your primal urges. To romp. To play. To hunt. To howl. To growl. To rut.
Let your animal self point to a more authentic you.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
“There is a level on which each of us knows we are a resplendent being.
Look around for the evidence of this. See the impact you have on others.
The next time depression strikes, remind yourself of your resplendence. Ground yourself in who you are. Stand tall again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Dante
Look around for the evidence of this. See the impact you have on others.
The next time depression strikes, remind yourself of your resplendence. Ground yourself in who you are. Stand tall again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Dante
October 15, 2025 at 11:21 AM
“There is a level on which each of us knows we are a resplendent being.
Look around for the evidence of this. See the impact you have on others.
The next time depression strikes, remind yourself of your resplendence. Ground yourself in who you are. Stand tall again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Dante
Look around for the evidence of this. See the impact you have on others.
The next time depression strikes, remind yourself of your resplendence. Ground yourself in who you are. Stand tall again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Dante
“As the spooky season approaches, so too does the shift from the light half, to the dark half of the year.
This is a time to go inwards. To lay fallow and rest. To reflect. To consider what we wish to sow and to reap in the year ahead.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Adam
This is a time to go inwards. To lay fallow and rest. To reflect. To consider what we wish to sow and to reap in the year ahead.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Adam
October 12, 2025 at 12:28 PM
“As the spooky season approaches, so too does the shift from the light half, to the dark half of the year.
This is a time to go inwards. To lay fallow and rest. To reflect. To consider what we wish to sow and to reap in the year ahead.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Adam
This is a time to go inwards. To lay fallow and rest. To reflect. To consider what we wish to sow and to reap in the year ahead.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Adam
“Recently, @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and I shared a joke about a demon, a werewolf, and a sorcerer. I asked him which he thought he was.
“I’m all three,” he said.
I put together this piece. I strive to show my son that he can be anything he wants to be, if he puts his mind to it.”
— Papa Bear
“I’m all three,” he said.
I put together this piece. I strive to show my son that he can be anything he wants to be, if he puts his mind to it.”
— Papa Bear
October 6, 2025 at 1:04 PM
“Recently, @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and I shared a joke about a demon, a werewolf, and a sorcerer. I asked him which he thought he was.
“I’m all three,” he said.
I put together this piece. I strive to show my son that he can be anything he wants to be, if he puts his mind to it.”
— Papa Bear
“I’m all three,” he said.
I put together this piece. I strive to show my son that he can be anything he wants to be, if he puts his mind to it.”
— Papa Bear
“When you lose someone, your love has nowhere to go.
You can’t make their morning coffee. You can’t hold their hand. But you can take care of people around you. You can show them kindness. In so doing, you can love your loved one once again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
You can’t make their morning coffee. You can’t hold their hand. But you can take care of people around you. You can show them kindness. In so doing, you can love your loved one once again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
October 4, 2025 at 12:39 PM
“When you lose someone, your love has nowhere to go.
You can’t make their morning coffee. You can’t hold their hand. But you can take care of people around you. You can show them kindness. In so doing, you can love your loved one once again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
You can’t make their morning coffee. You can’t hold their hand. But you can take care of people around you. You can show them kindness. In so doing, you can love your loved one once again.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
“The older I get, the more I realize I do not influence others through my words or arguments.
Instead, my impact comes from my grounded presence.
When I am authentic, at peace, and constant for before others? Then I have the biggest gravitational pull.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Instead, my impact comes from my grounded presence.
When I am authentic, at peace, and constant for before others? Then I have the biggest gravitational pull.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
October 2, 2025 at 11:51 AM
“The older I get, the more I realize I do not influence others through my words or arguments.
Instead, my impact comes from my grounded presence.
When I am authentic, at peace, and constant for before others? Then I have the biggest gravitational pull.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Instead, my impact comes from my grounded presence.
When I am authentic, at peace, and constant for before others? Then I have the biggest gravitational pull.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
“We want meaningful connection.
But if we try? And are pushed away? We’re terrified of the pain.
We don’t try. We push others away.
How do we clear this impasse? By believing in our own inherent worth.
Worthiness is our birthright. It’s in the fibre of our being.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Branden
But if we try? And are pushed away? We’re terrified of the pain.
We don’t try. We push others away.
How do we clear this impasse? By believing in our own inherent worth.
Worthiness is our birthright. It’s in the fibre of our being.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Branden
September 30, 2025 at 2:48 PM
“We want meaningful connection.
But if we try? And are pushed away? We’re terrified of the pain.
We don’t try. We push others away.
How do we clear this impasse? By believing in our own inherent worth.
Worthiness is our birthright. It’s in the fibre of our being.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Branden
But if we try? And are pushed away? We’re terrified of the pain.
We don’t try. We push others away.
How do we clear this impasse? By believing in our own inherent worth.
Worthiness is our birthright. It’s in the fibre of our being.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Branden
“My partner was on a mission. At his side, I learned to be a little kinder with everyone.
When he died, it nearly destroyed me.
Yet with time, I realized that he is now by my side. That I can continue the mission.
That is what I am mindful of doing, every single day.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
When he died, it nearly destroyed me.
Yet with time, I realized that he is now by my side. That I can continue the mission.
That is what I am mindful of doing, every single day.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
September 29, 2025 at 11:47 AM
“My partner was on a mission. At his side, I learned to be a little kinder with everyone.
When he died, it nearly destroyed me.
Yet with time, I realized that he is now by my side. That I can continue the mission.
That is what I am mindful of doing, every single day.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
When he died, it nearly destroyed me.
Yet with time, I realized that he is now by my side. That I can continue the mission.
That is what I am mindful of doing, every single day.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
“Wishing a very happy Folsom Sunday to all the leather families that are celebrating.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @emittmore.bsky.social
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @emittmore.bsky.social
September 28, 2025 at 2:03 PM
“Wishing a very happy Folsom Sunday to all the leather families that are celebrating.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @emittmore.bsky.social
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @emittmore.bsky.social
“When good things happen, let them.
Don’t say, ‘This can’t be happening.” You’ll just get in your own way.
Instead, savour the pleasure. Savour the joy. Express gratitude for the experience, and get ready for more.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jaytxinatx.bsky.social
Don’t say, ‘This can’t be happening.” You’ll just get in your own way.
Instead, savour the pleasure. Savour the joy. Express gratitude for the experience, and get ready for more.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jaytxinatx.bsky.social
September 27, 2025 at 12:10 PM
“When good things happen, let them.
Don’t say, ‘This can’t be happening.” You’ll just get in your own way.
Instead, savour the pleasure. Savour the joy. Express gratitude for the experience, and get ready for more.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jaytxinatx.bsky.social
Don’t say, ‘This can’t be happening.” You’ll just get in your own way.
Instead, savour the pleasure. Savour the joy. Express gratitude for the experience, and get ready for more.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @jaytxinatx.bsky.social
“When your love is of another world. You can’t just reach out with your senses.
But that doesn’t mean you don’t love. Or that you aren’t loved in return.
It does mean trusting in the bond that links your hearts.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
But that doesn’t mean you don’t love. Or that you aren’t loved in return.
It does mean trusting in the bond that links your hearts.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
September 25, 2025 at 12:20 PM
“When your love is of another world. You can’t just reach out with your senses.
But that doesn’t mean you don’t love. Or that you aren’t loved in return.
It does mean trusting in the bond that links your hearts.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
But that doesn’t mean you don’t love. Or that you aren’t loved in return.
It does mean trusting in the bond that links your hearts.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
“Beguiling Guy, Champion of the Bro-mazons, leaves his island home of Himbo-scira to venture into the Co-ed World.
Endowed by the gods with incredible powers of dudeliness, he cuddles for justice, and he looks fabulous doing it.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
Suit: @alfonsdovana.bsky.social
Endowed by the gods with incredible powers of dudeliness, he cuddles for justice, and he looks fabulous doing it.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
Suit: @alfonsdovana.bsky.social
September 24, 2025 at 12:21 PM
“Beguiling Guy, Champion of the Bro-mazons, leaves his island home of Himbo-scira to venture into the Co-ed World.
Endowed by the gods with incredible powers of dudeliness, he cuddles for justice, and he looks fabulous doing it.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
Suit: @alfonsdovana.bsky.social
Endowed by the gods with incredible powers of dudeliness, he cuddles for justice, and he looks fabulous doing it.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
Suit: @alfonsdovana.bsky.social
“When I was younger, it was threatening to laugh at myself. My self-worth was shaky.
In time, I learned that I was born worthy. That could never change.
I suddenly took myself less seriously. I found the freedom to be silly.”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @barerangerx.bsky.social
In time, I learned that I was born worthy. That could never change.
I suddenly took myself less seriously. I found the freedom to be silly.”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @barerangerx.bsky.social
September 23, 2025 at 11:47 AM
“When I was younger, it was threatening to laugh at myself. My self-worth was shaky.
In time, I learned that I was born worthy. That could never change.
I suddenly took myself less seriously. I found the freedom to be silly.”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @barerangerx.bsky.social
In time, I learned that I was born worthy. That could never change.
I suddenly took myself less seriously. I found the freedom to be silly.”
— Papa Bear
Heroes: @barerangerx.bsky.social
“Polyamory has taught me an important lesson. Society doesn’t get to dictate how my relationships are.
That is for me to decide jointly with the men involved. There only two rules: 1. We must consent; and 2. We have to love one another.
Everything else is by our design.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
That is for me to decide jointly with the men involved. There only two rules: 1. We must consent; and 2. We have to love one another.
Everything else is by our design.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
September 22, 2025 at 12:54 PM
“Polyamory has taught me an important lesson. Society doesn’t get to dictate how my relationships are.
That is for me to decide jointly with the men involved. There only two rules: 1. We must consent; and 2. We have to love one another.
Everything else is by our design.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
That is for me to decide jointly with the men involved. There only two rules: 1. We must consent; and 2. We have to love one another.
Everything else is by our design.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Peter
“Before, I gravitated to older men. They had the emotional intelligence I valued, and the life experience I could learn from.
Now, I am surrounded by younger men. I can find the same emotional intelligence. I also get to learn about the reality of another generation.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
Now, I am surrounded by younger men. I can find the same emotional intelligence. I also get to learn about the reality of another generation.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
September 21, 2025 at 12:18 PM
“Before, I gravitated to older men. They had the emotional intelligence I valued, and the life experience I could learn from.
Now, I am surrounded by younger men. I can find the same emotional intelligence. I also get to learn about the reality of another generation.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
Now, I am surrounded by younger men. I can find the same emotional intelligence. I also get to learn about the reality of another generation.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
“In the world today, there is much cause for concern. Strangely, paradoxically, the world also surrounds us with breathtaking beauty.
Imagine I invited you to focus on that beauty, to fill your cup with joy. How would you spend the day?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
Imagine I invited you to focus on that beauty, to fill your cup with joy. How would you spend the day?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
September 19, 2025 at 11:44 AM
“In the world today, there is much cause for concern. Strangely, paradoxically, the world also surrounds us with breathtaking beauty.
Imagine I invited you to focus on that beauty, to fill your cup with joy. How would you spend the day?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
Imagine I invited you to focus on that beauty, to fill your cup with joy. How would you spend the day?”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @itsjustseabass.bsky.social
“There is opportunity for growth, and learning in every human connection. Even the difficult ones.
I think we need pain for the big problems. After, we have more clarity.
Meet your new teacher. Class is starting.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
I think we need pain for the big problems. After, we have more clarity.
Meet your new teacher. Class is starting.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
September 18, 2025 at 3:04 PM
“There is opportunity for growth, and learning in every human connection. Even the difficult ones.
I think we need pain for the big problems. After, we have more clarity.
Meet your new teacher. Class is starting.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
I think we need pain for the big problems. After, we have more clarity.
Meet your new teacher. Class is starting.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Photo: @gingerbearhulk.bsky.social
Looking good, @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and @alexmartereal.bsky.social! Can't wait to see your work, @machojim.bsky.social.
🎥 SHOOTING DAY!
It has been a pleasure to film 🎬 this great colab between these 2 well known faces in the industry
'POUNDED and KNOCKED UP'
🇮🇹 @alexmartereal.bsky.social &
🇺🇸 @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Not to be missed!🔥😉
You can see it on their platforms!
🎥 @machojim.bsky.social
It has been a pleasure to film 🎬 this great colab between these 2 well known faces in the industry
'POUNDED and KNOCKED UP'
🇮🇹 @alexmartereal.bsky.social &
🇺🇸 @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
Not to be missed!🔥😉
You can see it on their platforms!
🎥 @machojim.bsky.social
September 18, 2025 at 2:54 PM
Looking good, @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social and @alexmartereal.bsky.social! Can't wait to see your work, @machojim.bsky.social.
“I fawn over you.
If I am honest, because my nervous system learned that everyone has to be thrilled with me in order for me to be safe.
Now I know this not true. I am worthy, even when I don’t give 110%. I am deserving just by virtue of the fact that I am me.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
If I am honest, because my nervous system learned that everyone has to be thrilled with me in order for me to be safe.
Now I know this not true. I am worthy, even when I don’t give 110%. I am deserving just by virtue of the fact that I am me.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
September 17, 2025 at 4:17 PM
“I fawn over you.
If I am honest, because my nervous system learned that everyone has to be thrilled with me in order for me to be safe.
Now I know this not true. I am worthy, even when I don’t give 110%. I am deserving just by virtue of the fact that I am me.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
If I am honest, because my nervous system learned that everyone has to be thrilled with me in order for me to be safe.
Now I know this not true. I am worthy, even when I don’t give 110%. I am deserving just by virtue of the fact that I am me.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: Will
“The first day of Carnival, the men of Grenada darken their bodies, and they wear horns and chains.
They become ‘Jab Jab’, the very Black devils’ that colonizers fear. It’s a way of inverting the social order, and of reclaiming their power.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
They become ‘Jab Jab’, the very Black devils’ that colonizers fear. It’s a way of inverting the social order, and of reclaiming their power.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
September 16, 2025 at 12:28 PM
“The first day of Carnival, the men of Grenada darken their bodies, and they wear horns and chains.
They become ‘Jab Jab’, the very Black devils’ that colonizers fear. It’s a way of inverting the social order, and of reclaiming their power.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social
They become ‘Jab Jab’, the very Black devils’ that colonizers fear. It’s a way of inverting the social order, and of reclaiming their power.”
— Papa Bear
Hero: @scruffy-lobo.bsky.social