Shaira Vintage Stylist Neurodivergent Thriver
@messtomagic.bsky.social
👗Vintage Stylist
🧠Neurodivergent Thriver
🎀 Stage 4 Breast Cancer Survivor
📝 Writer
💕Sharing styling tips and how I stay resilient and find joy with adhd, PTSD, cancer,& anxiety with simple, effective lifestyle changes.
✨Hope has a place here.
🧠Neurodivergent Thriver
🎀 Stage 4 Breast Cancer Survivor
📝 Writer
💕Sharing styling tips and how I stay resilient and find joy with adhd, PTSD, cancer,& anxiety with simple, effective lifestyle changes.
✨Hope has a place here.
October 17, 2025 at 11:41 PM
October 16, 2025 at 3:51 AM
October 8, 2025 at 3:23 AM
Journaling and getting out of my pajamas is the most positive way to start my day. It’s hard to feel motivated right now. This week I’m sharing a new journaling series on social media addiction. It’s simple but powerful and will be free. #journal #ootd #mushroomdress
October 7, 2025 at 3:45 AM
Journaling and getting out of my pajamas is the most positive way to start my day. It’s hard to feel motivated right now. This week I’m sharing a new journaling series on social media addiction. It’s simple but powerful and will be free. #journal #ootd #mushroomdress
No clean up, nuff said 😉✨🙌🏽. #tollhousecookies #cookies #lazy #cozy #chocolatechipcookies #bakesky #messtomagic
October 4, 2025 at 4:09 AM
No clean up, nuff said 😉✨🙌🏽. #tollhousecookies #cookies #lazy #cozy #chocolatechipcookies #bakesky #messtomagic
A favorite of mine was picked up at the library bookstore 😍🙌🏽 #littlewomen #books #classics #reading #whatimreading #tead #favoritebooks #bookclub
October 3, 2025 at 2:19 AM
A favorite of mine was picked up at the library bookstore 😍🙌🏽 #littlewomen #books #classics #reading #whatimreading #tead #favoritebooks #bookclub
Vintage ootd: Wearing a 1990’s crochet vest that I had in high school. I think the crochet buttons are super cool. Thought I would add the choker just for an nostalgias sake! What were some 90s staples that you guys had/have in your wardrobe? Definitely a fun era to be trending again.
October 2, 2025 at 3:12 PM
Vintage ootd: Wearing a 1990’s crochet vest that I had in high school. I think the crochet buttons are super cool. Thought I would add the choker just for an nostalgias sake! What were some 90s staples that you guys had/have in your wardrobe? Definitely a fun era to be trending again.
I love vintage books! 📚 This collection of five Edgar Allan Poe short stories that’s one of my favorites to leave out on the coffee table this month. It has pretty eerie illustrations! 🦇
October 2, 2025 at 2:46 PM
I love vintage books! 📚 This collection of five Edgar Allan Poe short stories that’s one of my favorites to leave out on the coffee table this month. It has pretty eerie illustrations! 🦇
Curious, what bands are on your October playlist??
✨Oingo Boingo
✨Depeche Mode
✨NIN
✨The Cure
✨Oingo Boingo
✨Depeche Mode
✨NIN
✨The Cure
October 2, 2025 at 4:38 AM
Curious, what bands are on your October playlist??
✨Oingo Boingo
✨Depeche Mode
✨NIN
✨The Cure
✨Oingo Boingo
✨Depeche Mode
✨NIN
✨The Cure
Fall outfit 1. No following tends. Wear whatever feels good, even if it’s considered home decor. Follow for positive vibes and off beat/vintage styling tips! 😉 #ootd #falloutfit #outfitinspo #stylingtips
October 1, 2025 at 7:10 AM
Fall outfit 1. No following tends. Wear whatever feels good, even if it’s considered home decor. Follow for positive vibes and off beat/vintage styling tips! 😉 #ootd #falloutfit #outfitinspo #stylingtips
Easy actions for less clutter and anxiety. Join me as I go through the home and help improve it one day at a time for just 5 to 10 minutes a day! #anxiety #declutter #organization
September 30, 2025 at 11:02 PM
Easy actions for less clutter and anxiety. Join me as I go through the home and help improve it one day at a time for just 5 to 10 minutes a day! #anxiety #declutter #organization
Just introducing myself, hoping to connect with like-minded people who are tired of negativity and hate (that surrounds us) and want to build a community that is kind, fair, empathetic and good!  💕 #kindness #vintagestyle #plantmom #breastcancersurvivor
September 30, 2025 at 10:26 PM
Just introducing myself, hoping to connect with like-minded people who are tired of negativity and hate (that surrounds us) and want to build a community that is kind, fair, empathetic and good!  💕 #kindness #vintagestyle #plantmom #breastcancersurvivor
When journaling use pens that you’re excited for! Keeping in a binder, helps those of us who need to take things out and add things. Not all journals allow for this. Remember, making lists can also count as emotional support! #journaling #journalingcommunity #healing #breastcancersurvivor
September 30, 2025 at 9:00 PM
When journaling use pens that you’re excited for! Keeping in a binder, helps those of us who need to take things out and add things. Not all journals allow for this. Remember, making lists can also count as emotional support! #journaling #journalingcommunity #healing #breastcancersurvivor
Sari quick tips: if you don’t have a blouse, you can wear a crop top.Practice reading by watching simple tutorials online. Hold cleats in place using the big diaper safety pins! If you intend on wearing heels, wear them before you dress! Then the length will be correct! #sari #ootd
September 30, 2025 at 8:57 PM
Anxiety and visual clutter can finally leave my home🙌🏽. Tackle a small area each day! #adhd #organizedhome #bathroomorganization #neurodivergent
September 30, 2025 at 4:12 AM
Anxiety and visual clutter can finally leave my home🙌🏽. Tackle a small area each day! #adhd #organizedhome #bathroomorganization #neurodivergent
Roses mean beautiful scent, easy care, and quick kind gestures for friends! Follow for easy gardening tips for beginners! 🌹 #gardening #gardeningforbeginners #roses
September 30, 2025 at 12:42 AM
Roses mean beautiful scent, easy care, and quick kind gestures for friends! Follow for easy gardening tips for beginners! 🌹 #gardening #gardeningforbeginners #roses
Soooo off today. I can’t slow my mind down- total chaos! Everything feels like it’s too much effort. Some of you know the feeling. Feeling grateful for the food in front of me and a moment to slow down. ❤️ #adhd #anxiety #breastcancersurvivor
September 29, 2025 at 7:01 PM
Soooo off today. I can’t slow my mind down- total chaos! Everything feels like it’s too much effort. Some of you know the feeling. Feeling grateful for the food in front of me and a moment to slow down. ❤️ #adhd #anxiety #breastcancersurvivor
Channeling Stevie Nicks today! I listened to through my chemo sessions. Love her voice, it’s so soothing. Her soft, smudged eyeliner and pale pink lip was out of my comfort zone, but I ended up loving it! Her wavy hair and straightened bangs? Easy, I’m already a frizzy mess!
February 25, 2025 at 8:05 PM
Channeling Stevie Nicks today! I listened to through my chemo sessions. Love her voice, it’s so soothing. Her soft, smudged eyeliner and pale pink lip was out of my comfort zone, but I ended up loving it! Her wavy hair and straightened bangs? Easy, I’m already a frizzy mess!
What is the best Duran Duran song? Notorious, I don’t want your love, or last chance on the stairway?
February 25, 2025 at 3:50 AM
What is the best Duran Duran song? Notorious, I don’t want your love, or last chance on the stairway?
Nostalgia : My Coping Tool for Cancer Survival
Today’s look is inspired by Simon Le Bon (Duran)
Why it’s healing:
❤️ It reminds us how far we’ve come.
❤️ We revisit simpler moments (before stage 4 cancer hit).
❤️ It shows change is inevitable—and freeing.
You’re not stuck sis, be inspired!
Today’s look is inspired by Simon Le Bon (Duran)
Why it’s healing:
❤️ It reminds us how far we’ve come.
❤️ We revisit simpler moments (before stage 4 cancer hit).
❤️ It shows change is inevitable—and freeing.
You’re not stuck sis, be inspired!
February 22, 2025 at 5:05 AM
Nostalgia : My Coping Tool for Cancer Survival
Today’s look is inspired by Simon Le Bon (Duran)
Why it’s healing:
❤️ It reminds us how far we’ve come.
❤️ We revisit simpler moments (before stage 4 cancer hit).
❤️ It shows change is inevitable—and freeing.
You’re not stuck sis, be inspired!
Today’s look is inspired by Simon Le Bon (Duran)
Why it’s healing:
❤️ It reminds us how far we’ve come.
❤️ We revisit simpler moments (before stage 4 cancer hit).
❤️ It shows change is inevitable—and freeing.
You’re not stuck sis, be inspired!