Dr. Bryan Pearlman
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Dr. Bryan Pearlman
@maslowbeforebloom.bsky.social
Keynote Speaker, Ed Psych Adjunct, Therapist, Former Principal. Author Of “Maslow Before Bloom” (http://a.co/d/1e1SzHl) & “Whatever It Takes” (http://a.co/d/heHkvcb).
Some people wear masks only on Halloween. Others wear them every day—to blend in, to hide the pain they carry, to cover the cracks left by trauma, or to silence the thoughts that whisper of not wanting to go on. Be kind. You never know what someone’s mask is hiding.
October 31, 2025 at 12:35 PM
Every student learns in a different way—some through movement, some through sound, some through quiet reflection. When we embrace those differences instead of trying to make everyone fit one mold, we don’t just teach better—we help every learner feel seen, valued, and capable of success.
October 30, 2025 at 12:56 PM
Curiosity is the spark that turns learning into discovery. When we encourage kids to wonder, question, and explore, we’re not just teaching them facts—we’re teaching them how to think, create, and change the world.
October 17, 2025 at 12:12 PM
Connection is the foundation of correction. A student’s behavior is not a reflection of who they are—it’s a message about what they need. When we slow down, listen, and lead with compassion, we give them the safety to heal, learn, and grow.
October 16, 2025 at 12:34 PM
Focus on self-care, self-love, and self-compassion first—because you can’t pour from an empty heart, heal from a place of exhaustion, or give what you don’t give yourself. When you nurture your own well-being, you become stronger, kinder, and more present for everyone around you.
October 11, 2025 at 12:20 PM
The first and easiest way to make a connection with a student who is struggling is simple—see them. Truly see them. Greet them by name. Notice their effort, not just their behavior. A moment of genuine acknowledgment can open the door to trust long before any lesson ever will.
October 8, 2025 at 12:55 PM
Sometimes all it takes to change the entire story of a child’s life is one person—one steady, kind, compassionate adult who sees them, believes in them, and never gives up. One person can be the difference between feeling invisible and knowing they matter.
October 5, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s survival. For those in education who pour their hearts into others every day, rest isn’t a reward—it’s a requirement. You can’t light the way for your students if your own flame has burned out. Prioritize yourself with the same compassion you give so freely to others.
October 3, 2025 at 2:45 PM
In our schools, the true measure of success isn’t just grades or test scores—it’s kindness in the hallway, compassion on the playground, effort when things get hard, and integrity when no one is watching. These are the lessons that shape character, build community, and change lives
September 30, 2025 at 12:44 PM
Little wins with little people are actually big. When we pause to celebrate them, we give a child the confidence to keep trying, the courage to keep going, the belief that they matter—and the reminder that they can do hard things.
September 16, 2025 at 12:26 PM
“Celebrating even the smallest wins with students tells them, ‘You matter. Your effort matters.’ These moments build momentum, strengthen confidence, and help every child see their own potential.”
September 15, 2025 at 12:48 PM
September 5, 2025 at 2:30 AM
When someone is stuck in panic mode, what they need most isn’t more noise or pressure—it’s calm. Just being quiet, steady, and kind can help them feel safe again. Your calm can help them breathe, slow down, and come back to themselves. Never underestimate the power of your peaceful presence.
September 4, 2025 at 12:08 PM
I have added some dates for in person professional development for schools, districts and Universities for the 25-26 school year. Please reach out to discuss.

Trainings include:
-Trauma
-Challenging Behaviors
-Mental Health
-Problem Solving
-Self-Care

#maslowbeforebloom
September 1, 2025 at 10:20 PM
A child carries pieces of every educator who believed in them—because we are not just teaching lessons, we are shaping lives.
August 21, 2025 at 1:37 PM
When a student is on the verge of turning from Bruce Banner into the Hulk, they don’t need a lecture—they need calm, quiet, and a little time to come back down.

#maslowbeforebloom
August 17, 2025 at 12:27 PM
I’m blown away — the new Maslow book is now ranked #7,496 on Amazon, which means it’s in the top 0.1% of all books currently selling. Thank you for reading, sharing, and supporting this journey!

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Maslow Before Bloom: Then Gardner, Jung & Goleman: Educating The Whole Child With Needs, Strengths, Meaning & Emotional Intelligence
Maslow Before Bloom: Then Gardner, Jung & Goleman: Educating The Whole Child With Needs, Strengths, Meaning & Emotional Intelligence [Pearlman, Dr. Bryan] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. Maslow Before Bloom: Then Gardner, Jung & Goleman: Educating The Whole Child With Needs, Strengths, Meaning & Emotional Intelligence
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August 10, 2025 at 1:11 PM
My wish for this school year is simple but powerful: that every student and staff member feels safe, supported, connected, and inspired to grow and learn together.

#maslowbeforebloom
August 7, 2025 at 12:51 PM
Connection opens the door to cognition.
August 7, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Focus On The Cause Instead Of The Effect:

When looking at a student who is exhibiting challenging behaviors, we often focus solely on the effect it manifests. We need to dig deeper to uncover the cause. If we address the root cause, we can nurture growth & pave the path to positive transformation.
August 6, 2025 at 5:23 PM
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July 29, 2025 at 12:02 PM
I would love to come to your school!

I have a few openings left for back to school and Fall keynotes and professional development.

These include: trauma, challenging behaviors, mental health, problem solving & self-care.

DM me or send me an email if interested:
Bryan@mostvaluablepd.com
July 27, 2025 at 8:07 PM
Start with Maslow to meet their needs, move to Bloom to grow their minds, add Gardner to find their strengths, invite Jung to discover their meaning, and use Goleman to guide their hearts—this is how we educate the whole child.
July 27, 2025 at 1:01 AM