Whether we have cancer, or someone we love develops it, its trauma changes how we see the world. It takes on darker shades, plays discordant music in minor keys, and threatens to make the world a sad and somber place.
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Whether we have cancer, or someone we love develops it, its trauma changes how we see the world. It takes on darker shades, plays discordant music in minor keys, and threatens to make the world a sad and somber place.
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In her book, The Bright Hour, Nina Riggs talks to us as a friend, keeping us up to date with what’s going on in her life and with her triple negative breast cancer. She would say, even if you’re dying, don’t forget to live.
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In her book, The Bright Hour, Nina Riggs talks to us as a friend, keeping us up to date with what’s going on in her life and with her triple negative breast cancer. She would say, even if you’re dying, don’t forget to live.
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What do cancer patients who have written about their experiences write about after their cancer is gone? Many write one book and they’re done. Unfortunately, some are only able to write one book before they die.
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What do cancer patients who have written about their experiences write about after their cancer is gone? Many write one book and they’re done. Unfortunately, some are only able to write one book before they die.
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Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with EGFR lung cancer. First line chemo worked for a time, and he resumed his work as a skilled brain surgeon until the cancer began growing again. No treatment existed a decade ago that could stop it.
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Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with EGFR lung cancer. First line chemo worked for a time, and he resumed his work as a skilled brain surgeon until the cancer began growing again. No treatment existed a decade ago that could stop it.
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A essay of mine was published this month in Blood and Thunder, a journal out of the Univ. of Oklahoma College of Medicine. Titled “Waiting,” it describes sitting in the waiting room of a cancer center for the first time. My essay's on journal page 75.
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A essay of mine was published this month in Blood and Thunder, a journal out of the Univ. of Oklahoma College of Medicine. Titled “Waiting,” it describes sitting in the waiting room of a cancer center for the first time. My essay's on journal page 75.
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Under the pressure of having cancer, we can fracture like pottery and no longer feel like we’re able to hold ourselves together.
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Under the pressure of having cancer, we can fracture like pottery and no longer feel like we’re able to hold ourselves together.
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Sylvia McNair talked about her aggressive breast cancer and what enabled her to get through the chemotherapy, radiation, mastectomy. Her smile was proof that the trauma and challenge of cancer could be overcome.
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Sylvia McNair talked about her aggressive breast cancer and what enabled her to get through the chemotherapy, radiation, mastectomy. Her smile was proof that the trauma and challenge of cancer could be overcome.
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It’s dusk in late December and the woods are quiet. I stand on my backyard deck lost in the mystery of nature. When I pause and look into the darkness with more curiosity than fear, I remember that life is not a race but a dialogue.
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It’s dusk in late December and the woods are quiet. I stand on my backyard deck lost in the mystery of nature. When I pause and look into the darkness with more curiosity than fear, I remember that life is not a race but a dialogue.
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Barry Lopez died of prostate cancer on December 25, 2020. He didn’t share many details about it. I think he regarded his cancer as a private matter and felt there were more important topics to write about. I wish he had said more. markliebenow.substack.com/p/do-as-well...
Barry Lopez died of prostate cancer on December 25, 2020. He didn’t share many details about it. I think he regarded his cancer as a private matter and felt there were more important topics to write about. I wish he had said more. markliebenow.substack.com/p/do-as-well...
The Worth of Mirth
It can be really hard to feel joy during the winter holidays when you have cancer or any serious medical problem. If we try, we can feel smatterings of happiness and moments of mirth.
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The Worth of Mirth
It can be really hard to feel joy during the winter holidays when you have cancer or any serious medical problem. If we try, we can feel smatterings of happiness and moments of mirth.
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It’s been a rough week. A number of things happened that reawakened fears I’d set behind me, ones that commonly wake cancer patients up in the middle of the night. The nagging What Ifs that doctors don’t, or won’t, explain.
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It’s been a rough week. A number of things happened that reawakened fears I’d set behind me, ones that commonly wake cancer patients up in the middle of the night. The nagging What Ifs that doctors don’t, or won’t, explain.
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Suleika Jaouad describes how draining it was to deal with cancer every day for four years as she went through multiple rounds of chemo, radiation therapy, and a bone marrow transplant. She chose to live every day as if it were her first.
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Suleika Jaouad describes how draining it was to deal with cancer every day for four years as she went through multiple rounds of chemo, radiation therapy, and a bone marrow transplant. She chose to live every day as if it were her first.
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How we talk about cancer is important because language helps us understand the reality of what is going on, or it hides the truth. Is it battle or a relationship?
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How we talk about cancer is important because language helps us understand the reality of what is going on, or it hides the truth. Is it battle or a relationship?
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Although we may not be able to stop the cancer of someone we love, we can make the journey a little less painful. We can listen to the stillness between our fears and hopes, and do what we can to take care of those who need assistance.
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Although we may not be able to stop the cancer of someone we love, we can make the journey a little less painful. We can listen to the stillness between our fears and hopes, and do what we can to take care of those who need assistance.
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Words are no help right after someone receives the news that they have cancer. What she needed was someone to sit beside her for a time as the cold shadows of her fears drew near. #Hodgkin’slymphoma #Cancer #Fear #Chemotherapy
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Words are no help right after someone receives the news that they have cancer. What she needed was someone to sit beside her for a time as the cold shadows of her fears drew near. #Hodgkin’slymphoma #Cancer #Fear #Chemotherapy
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At age 48, Mark Shanahan found his PSA was rising. With a family history of prostate cancer, he opted for surgery, then added in radiation and hormone therapy to be sure his cancer was gone. #prostatecancer #TheBostonGlobe
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At age 48, Mark Shanahan found his PSA was rising. With a family history of prostate cancer, he opted for surgery, then added in radiation and hormone therapy to be sure his cancer was gone. #prostatecancer #TheBostonGlobe
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When a friend received bad news about her cancer, I thought, “I’ll talk to the trees.” Bear with me. I used to light candles and pray for those who needed support. But talking to the trees seemed to be the right thing to do here.
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When a friend received bad news about her cancer, I thought, “I’ll talk to the trees.” Bear with me. I used to light candles and pray for those who needed support. But talking to the trees seemed to be the right thing to do here.
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In 1993, Margaret Edson wrote a play called Wit that talks about the experience of having cancer and going through chemotherapy. She finds refuge in the Holy Sonnets of John Donne.
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In 1993, Margaret Edson wrote a play called Wit that talks about the experience of having cancer and going through chemotherapy. She finds refuge in the Holy Sonnets of John Donne.
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Renée Sgroi weaves grief into nature in her elegant and evocative book of poetry In a Tension of Leaves and Binding (Guernica Editions, Toronto, 2024). Sgroi finds parallel stories of wanting, loneliness, loss.
This is my review.
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Renée Sgroi weaves grief into nature in her elegant and evocative book of poetry In a Tension of Leaves and Binding (Guernica Editions, Toronto, 2024). Sgroi finds parallel stories of wanting, loneliness, loss.
This is my review.
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If you went into nature to get away from all the sorrow at home, you found that you felt accepted there with all of your brokenness. In her chapbook Birdology, Carolyne Van Der Meer explores how birds helped her make this connection.
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If you went into nature to get away from all the sorrow at home, you found that you felt accepted there with all of your brokenness. In her chapbook Birdology, Carolyne Van Der Meer explores how birds helped her make this connection.
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