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100 followers milestone on here: reply to ask me Strong Opinion Held Loosely on <topic>

I will get into Discourse like there's no tomorrow in the blue sky
April 12, 2023 at 5:05 PM
Another object level take: someone on Twitter asked this a while back and I thought about an answer but never wrote it: How do parents justify decision to have children as a way to make the world better?

My short answer: I never did before I had them and early on. I was actually v selfish about it
April 12, 2023 at 4:17 PM
Gonna be the change I want to be in the world: let's have some object level takes

Here's mine from today: Having kids do presentations in school is Bad bc most suck at it, waste huge amounts of time and hate it, bore the hell out of everyone, go on uncorrected for the rest of their schooling yrs
The right corrective to culture war screaming matches isn't kumbaya vibes, it's actually having out sharp arguments in good faith

The right corrective to monofocus on the current thing isn't disregarding it, it's interpolating it into your voice and values

It's even good to hate things sometimes
April 12, 2023 at 3:33 PM
Always just a bit startled at people who are normal about sleep, like when I hear: "I couldn't fall asleep at 10, it was midnight by the time I fell [distressed]"

My sister is like that, we lived together well into young adulthood, I've never slept like a normal person. Nurture assumption busted
April 12, 2023 at 3:06 PM
checking the vibes on here, I heard they're immaculate, but are we aligned on what that means?

also, if you are a Twitter mutual and don't follow me here, my reaction will range from forming an Opinion to scolding you in DM and, if I'm codependent on you, I might call you
April 12, 2023 at 2:56 PM
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April 9, 2023 at 11:17 PM