Lillian...at last
@lillianatlast.bsky.social
She/Her🏳️⚧️👩🦼♿️Queer, Disabled, IT Nerd
🥄Lyme / FND/CRPS/POTS🥄
TAKEN👭Lvl 37
🎮Gamer🎮 Switch/PS
🥄Lyme / FND/CRPS/POTS🥄
TAKEN👭Lvl 37
🎮Gamer🎮 Switch/PS
Oh yay, another holiday for Americans to turn into a drink fest. We love reducing people's culture to getting shitfaced on drinks named after painful periods in their history.
March 17, 2025 at 10:30 AM
Oh yay, another holiday for Americans to turn into a drink fest. We love reducing people's culture to getting shitfaced on drinks named after painful periods in their history.
The absurdity of a "white history month".
As if the mediocrity and nepotism isn't on full display every day.
As if the mediocrity and nepotism isn't on full display every day.
February 1, 2025 at 1:12 PM
The absurdity of a "white history month".
As if the mediocrity and nepotism isn't on full display every day.
As if the mediocrity and nepotism isn't on full display every day.
January 21, 2029 trans people will still be here.
January 24, 2025 at 11:19 AM
January 21, 2029 trans people will still be here.
"I will not pretend
I will not put on a smile
I will not say I'm all right for you
When all I wanted was to be good
To do everything in truth"
-Martha Wainwright
I will not put on a smile
I will not say I'm all right for you
When all I wanted was to be good
To do everything in truth"
-Martha Wainwright
January 21, 2025 at 7:08 PM
"I will not pretend
I will not put on a smile
I will not say I'm all right for you
When all I wanted was to be good
To do everything in truth"
-Martha Wainwright
I will not put on a smile
I will not say I'm all right for you
When all I wanted was to be good
To do everything in truth"
-Martha Wainwright
I don't think I was prepared for just how vulnerable I feel as a disabled person who needs help with a lot of things.
January 16, 2025 at 2:52 PM
I don't think I was prepared for just how vulnerable I feel as a disabled person who needs help with a lot of things.
Unless they specifically ask you for help, pretend that the handles on their wheelchair don't exist.
Don't move someone's wheelchair.
Don't move someone's wheelchair.
January 15, 2025 at 12:35 PM
Unless they specifically ask you for help, pretend that the handles on their wheelchair don't exist.
Don't move someone's wheelchair.
Don't move someone's wheelchair.
In exchange for society's tolerance of our existence, disabled people are supposed to be grateful for the table scraps we're offered, if we are offered them at all.
January 14, 2025 at 10:24 AM
In exchange for society's tolerance of our existence, disabled people are supposed to be grateful for the table scraps we're offered, if we are offered them at all.
A diagnosis is not guaranteed. Some people wait years, decades before getting a diagnosis for their symptoms.
Some people never find out in their lifetime.
Some people never find out in their lifetime.
January 13, 2025 at 12:30 PM
A diagnosis is not guaranteed. Some people wait years, decades before getting a diagnosis for their symptoms.
Some people never find out in their lifetime.
Some people never find out in their lifetime.
Great news! You don't have this serious condition that has decades of research, community awareness, 5k runs, funding, and charities.
You have a serious condition that comes with none of that AND massive stigma, both from the community and your doctors.
Hooray!
#FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder
You have a serious condition that comes with none of that AND massive stigma, both from the community and your doctors.
Hooray!
#FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder
January 12, 2025 at 11:37 AM
Great news! You don't have this serious condition that has decades of research, community awareness, 5k runs, funding, and charities.
You have a serious condition that comes with none of that AND massive stigma, both from the community and your doctors.
Hooray!
#FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder
You have a serious condition that comes with none of that AND massive stigma, both from the community and your doctors.
Hooray!
#FunctionalNeurologicalDisorder
This is the nightmare that many disabled people have. The current fire safety plan for disabled people is to wait for help. Watching everyone around you run to safety.
www.latimes.com/california/s...
www.latimes.com/california/s...
Altadena family says disabled father and son were left to burn: 'Nobody was coming'
Anthony Mitchell Sr., an amputee who used a wheelchair, and his son Justin, who had cerebral palsy, died due to slow evacuation efforts during the Altadena fire, relatives said Friday.
www.latimes.com
January 11, 2025 at 12:57 PM
This is the nightmare that many disabled people have. The current fire safety plan for disabled people is to wait for help. Watching everyone around you run to safety.
www.latimes.com/california/s...
www.latimes.com/california/s...
I think lots of pre-disabled people stare at disabled people because they want to try and figure out whether that particular thing can happen to them.
I'm here to say that yes, it absolutely can.
It wasn't a car accident, it wasn't a fall.
I just got "lucky".
I'm here to say that yes, it absolutely can.
It wasn't a car accident, it wasn't a fall.
I just got "lucky".
January 10, 2025 at 12:10 PM
I think lots of pre-disabled people stare at disabled people because they want to try and figure out whether that particular thing can happen to them.
I'm here to say that yes, it absolutely can.
It wasn't a car accident, it wasn't a fall.
I just got "lucky".
I'm here to say that yes, it absolutely can.
It wasn't a car accident, it wasn't a fall.
I just got "lucky".
Disabled people's value isn't determined by how inspirational they are.
January 8, 2025 at 2:11 PM
Disabled people's value isn't determined by how inspirational they are.
The American Health Care System:
How much do you like being alive, in dollars?
How much do you like being alive, in dollars?
January 3, 2025 at 11:46 AM
The American Health Care System:
How much do you like being alive, in dollars?
How much do you like being alive, in dollars?
When you tell a disabled person "I could never live like that" or "I'd rather be de*d than disabled", you're saying you don't think their life is as valuable and worth living.
And that's really messed up.
And that's really messed up.
December 21, 2024 at 12:00 PM
When you tell a disabled person "I could never live like that" or "I'd rather be de*d than disabled", you're saying you don't think their life is as valuable and worth living.
And that's really messed up.
And that's really messed up.
Imagine the worst thing you can.
The IOF has done and is doing it.
The IOF has done and is doing it.
December 16, 2024 at 12:55 PM
Imagine the worst thing you can.
The IOF has done and is doing it.
The IOF has done and is doing it.
7 years ago this week my mom went into hospice and I began the grief process. Just waiting, knowing she wasn't going to wake up and I'd get a phone call that I wouldn't want to answer.
Holding space for people going through this right now.
Holding space for people going through this right now.
December 12, 2024 at 11:28 AM
7 years ago this week my mom went into hospice and I began the grief process. Just waiting, knowing she wasn't going to wake up and I'd get a phone call that I wouldn't want to answer.
Holding space for people going through this right now.
Holding space for people going through this right now.
Had a dream my mom had died, and I woke up with a feeling of relief because she's already gone.
It was really nice to see her, actually, even if she died at the end of the dream.
It was really nice to see her, actually, even if she died at the end of the dream.
December 11, 2024 at 12:18 PM
Had a dream my mom had died, and I woke up with a feeling of relief because she's already gone.
It was really nice to see her, actually, even if she died at the end of the dream.
It was really nice to see her, actually, even if she died at the end of the dream.
So you're a white transexual woman who just had FFS, what are you going to do now?
White transexual woman: tell other trans people they aren't trans enough!
White transexual woman: tell other trans people they aren't trans enough!
December 9, 2024 at 4:32 AM
So you're a white transexual woman who just had FFS, what are you going to do now?
White transexual woman: tell other trans people they aren't trans enough!
White transexual woman: tell other trans people they aren't trans enough!
I'm still not quite over the times the a computer game I used to play would whisper "death" and "Lillian" to me at like 11:30 at night.
December 6, 2024 at 11:48 AM
I'm still not quite over the times the a computer game I used to play would whisper "death" and "Lillian" to me at like 11:30 at night.
I'm not confined to a wheelchair any more than you're confined to your car or bike.
December 5, 2024 at 1:55 PM
I'm not confined to a wheelchair any more than you're confined to your car or bike.
And how can you put that straw up your nose
When you know how coke is manufactured?
It's made by children for the immature
It is made by babies who've been captured
When you know how coke is manufactured?
It's made by children for the immature
It is made by babies who've been captured
December 2, 2024 at 11:47 AM
And how can you put that straw up your nose
When you know how coke is manufactured?
It's made by children for the immature
It is made by babies who've been captured
When you know how coke is manufactured?
It's made by children for the immature
It is made by babies who've been captured
A nation that bombs children,
Bombs paramedics
Bombs surgeons, nurses, and hospital staff
Bombs NICUs and power plants
Bombs aid workers
Has no right to exist.
Bombs paramedics
Bombs surgeons, nurses, and hospital staff
Bombs NICUs and power plants
Bombs aid workers
Has no right to exist.
December 1, 2024 at 11:01 AM
A nation that bombs children,
Bombs paramedics
Bombs surgeons, nurses, and hospital staff
Bombs NICUs and power plants
Bombs aid workers
Has no right to exist.
Bombs paramedics
Bombs surgeons, nurses, and hospital staff
Bombs NICUs and power plants
Bombs aid workers
Has no right to exist.
My partner helped me eat lunch today and that's okay.
It's okay to ask for help sometimes.
It's okay to ask for help sometimes.
November 30, 2024 at 6:35 PM
My partner helped me eat lunch today and that's okay.
It's okay to ask for help sometimes.
It's okay to ask for help sometimes.