@edzitron.com I almost got a trivia question right about who the remaining CEO of Google was cause I could hear Ed yelling it. But I couldn't remember which of the 2 names was the right one.

Some solid advice we need to listen to and share

Yes, there are differences. If a partner ever makes you feel afraid of them, that is not BDSM. That is abuse. Another reason why vetting is ALWAYS a must before any kind of smexy time.

Please be safe out there. There are plenty of people who appear to be who they really aren't.