Kim McErlean
kimmoments.bsky.social
Kim McErlean
@kimmoments.bsky.social
doctor (non-med kind 📚) studying families, gender, and inequality 👫👭👬. orange cat mom 🐱. neurodivergent af 💫. reality tv superfan 📺. expect many posts about my move to florence ✈️, general chaos vibes 🪩, and insufferable posting about marathon training 👟
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Chapter 2 of my dissertation is now available in Socius! doi.org/10.1177/2378...

In it, I aim to shed light on the debate as to whether gender specialization or gender egalitarianism is more beneficial for marital stability, considering education as an under-explored moderator of these associations
Gender Egalitarianism and Marital Dissolution: Understanding the Bifurcation of the “Gender Revolution” in the United States - Kimberly McErlean, 2025
In the context of women’s increased economic status coupled with declining divorce rates, the “gender revolution framework” suggests that greater gender equalit...
doi.org
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November 5, 2025 at 3:23 AM
26.2 miles in the greatest city on earth. my brain has not yet comprehended that yesterday happened (though my legs certainly have) #TCSNYCMARATHON
November 3, 2025 at 9:56 PM
i am a woman in STEM (set up a zoom call so i can curl my hair because there isn’t a mirror in this room)
October 25, 2025 at 10:55 AM
lol 99% sure that, while i made my flight, which ofc is most important, my bag did not so my bag is currently over the middle of the atlantic ocean while i am in nyc. good thing i am not at all going to get extremely irrationally stressed about this, nope not me
October 23, 2025 at 11:02 PM
nothing bonds an entire airplane full of primarily americans than a delay that means we all have <45 minutes to make connections back to the states. this guy was like yo we’re from detroit we got this and i was like i feel the same way about new york except my coalition is smaller
October 23, 2025 at 2:02 PM
love an international airport bc wdym i have 20 minutes to sprint across the airport to make my connection and half of that is through a perfume store
October 23, 2025 at 2:00 PM
came to the airport extremely early bc i was like well it’s better to panic at the airport instead of at home but now im just panicked in an extremely public space which is actually possibly worse (except i am here and my bag is checked in so it’s all gonna be okay)
October 23, 2025 at 8:25 AM
crying saying goodbye to this little man for the next 12 days 😭
October 23, 2025 at 7:39 AM
the errand was to drop my key to the pet sitting office and she was like oh lovebug, the big ginger cat, and uses her hands to demonstrate big and i was like ohhh my baby, but yep he’s a big
boy (unbothered about it below)
October 19, 2025 at 12:43 PM
had to run an errand through peak city center and i ofc was being a baby about it but then there was a casual man outside the duomo just singing in one of the most beautiful voices i’ve ever heard? and i guess this is why i need to get out more
October 19, 2025 at 12:15 PM
last pre-sunrise saturday run in florence AND last double digit miles before the marathon 🙏🏻
was in my head about todays run and then i ran 14 miles in under 2 hours lol
October 18, 2025 at 6:42 AM
a paul hollywood handshake would heal me right now
October 14, 2025 at 5:36 PM
received my bib number for the marathon! it’s really happening!! (i truly sometimes worry im going to show up and they’ll be like … um what are you doing here??)
October 14, 2025 at 3:24 PM
im here freaking out im going to mess the foreign part up but i actually just invented income that i didn’t receive 😭
October 12, 2025 at 9:26 AM
i am normally very good at figuring things like taxes out for myself. it is 10/12; the actual final deadline is 10/15. just now realizing i put in my 2023 W2 for UT because i didn’t get a W2 in 2024 bc i was on fellowship 🤦🏻‍♀️

plz send help
October 12, 2025 at 8:17 AM
went to decathlon to get things i knew i needed for the marathon and realized i am close enough that i need to figure out my clothing and plan for before and after in case i need to buy other things and that just really really freaked me out. it’s all finally happening.
October 11, 2025 at 12:51 PM
asked the woman in our cafeteria if the fried fish was fried mozzarella, in case you’re wondering how american i am 😭
October 3, 2025 at 10:30 AM
i love my weather app bc it’s like 10% chance of rain *starts pouring* or 80% chance and nary a cloud in sight. anyway guess which happened this am?

(i’m being dramatic it wasn’t pouring but there was unexpected rain several times. the last few wednesdays have been a little cursed for me)
October 1, 2025 at 5:19 AM
I've been stuck in freeze mode for weeks, but the past two days were particularly bad...sometimes you gotta send yourself an email in the middle of the night with the subject "get yo shit together" with allll of your panic thoughts and then go on and get your shit together. so that's today's goal💅
September 30, 2025 at 5:29 AM
stepped away from my computer and came back to this. would be so great if lovebug was actually capable of handling some of this for me
September 28, 2025 at 5:48 PM
looked outside this AM and made the decision that we were gonna do this in the rain. first 6 miles it was actually pleasant. was positively pouring for the last 3+. but we made it (and now it’s like sunny lol)
September 24, 2025 at 5:16 AM
every sunday, i make a to-do list for myself that implies a level of productivity i have never once experienced in my life. why do i keep thinking i can magically accomplish all of the leftovers from the prior week in one day?! i think there’s a term for this (insanity)
September 21, 2025 at 1:09 PM
Chapter 2 of my dissertation is now available in Socius! doi.org/10.1177/2378...

In it, I aim to shed light on the debate as to whether gender specialization or gender egalitarianism is more beneficial for marital stability, considering education as an under-explored moderator of these associations
Gender Egalitarianism and Marital Dissolution: Understanding the Bifurcation of the “Gender Revolution” in the United States - Kimberly McErlean, 2025
In the context of women’s increased economic status coupled with declining divorce rates, the “gender revolution framework” suggests that greater gender equalit...
doi.org
September 20, 2025 at 8:14 AM
there’s fuck putin graffiti inside cascine that i see a lot and today i saw ACAB somewhere else and it’s really special that there is some shared language here 💫
September 20, 2025 at 6:20 AM
just unintentionally ran those 19+ miles at 8:45/mile. i reallllly gotta learn how to pace myself 😅
September 20, 2025 at 6:18 AM