@kidsoverconflict.bsky.social
When communication ends, assumptions begin.
Too many parents stop talking to each other and start talking through the child.
Silence breeds confusion and the kids feel it first.
How can we rebuild communication without reopening old wounds?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentCommunication
Too many parents stop talking to each other and start talking through the child.
Silence breeds confusion and the kids feel it first.
How can we rebuild communication without reopening old wounds?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentCommunication
October 14, 2025 at 12:11 AM
When communication ends, assumptions begin.
Too many parents stop talking to each other and start talking through the child.
Silence breeds confusion and the kids feel it first.
How can we rebuild communication without reopening old wounds?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentCommunication
Too many parents stop talking to each other and start talking through the child.
Silence breeds confusion and the kids feel it first.
How can we rebuild communication without reopening old wounds?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentCommunication
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@Ezralevin.Baku.social Postcard Protest: Stamp Out Stupidity. Can’t march. Join a from home with just a postcard, envelope, and stamp. Write message on a postcard. Mail to your senator. Return address: 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. It’s cheap, powerful, and impossible to ignore.
Stamp it. Sign it. Send it.
Stamp it. Sign it. Send it.
Ezralevin.Baku.social
May 7, 2025 at 11:25 AM
@Ezralevin.Baku.social Postcard Protest: Stamp Out Stupidity. Can’t march. Join a from home with just a postcard, envelope, and stamp. Write message on a postcard. Mail to your senator. Return address: 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. It’s cheap, powerful, and impossible to ignore.
Stamp it. Sign it. Send it.
Stamp it. Sign it. Send it.
When parents compete for a child’s love, everyone loses.
Turning kids into trophies or weapons creates scars that last a lifetime.
Love isn’t a contest, it’s a responsibility.
How do we stop fighting for our kids, and start fighting for their peace?
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingWithLove
Turning kids into trophies or weapons creates scars that last a lifetime.
Love isn’t a contest, it’s a responsibility.
How do we stop fighting for our kids, and start fighting for their peace?
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingWithLove
September 25, 2025 at 9:21 PM
When parents compete for a child’s love, everyone loses.
Turning kids into trophies or weapons creates scars that last a lifetime.
Love isn’t a contest, it’s a responsibility.
How do we stop fighting for our kids, and start fighting for their peace?
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingWithLove
Turning kids into trophies or weapons creates scars that last a lifetime.
Love isn’t a contest, it’s a responsibility.
How do we stop fighting for our kids, and start fighting for their peace?
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingWithLove
When parents fight, children lose.
Court orders, medical bills, support payments, custody battles none of it matters more than a child’s peace.
How do we shift from proving a point to protecting their hearts?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentFirst
Court orders, medical bills, support payments, custody battles none of it matters more than a child’s peace.
How do we shift from proving a point to protecting their hearts?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentFirst
September 20, 2025 at 2:00 AM
When parents fight, children lose.
Court orders, medical bills, support payments, custody battles none of it matters more than a child’s peace.
How do we shift from proving a point to protecting their hearts?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentFirst
Court orders, medical bills, support payments, custody battles none of it matters more than a child’s peace.
How do we shift from proving a point to protecting their hearts?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentFirst
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Ezra Levin, Postcard Protest: SOS -Stamp Out Stupidity
Not everyone can join a march, but everyone can still make their voice heard and protest with just a postcard, envelope, and stamp. Write your message on a postcard. Mail it the Capitol etc. Return address 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Washington, DC
Not everyone can join a march, but everyone can still make their voice heard and protest with just a postcard, envelope, and stamp. Write your message on a postcard. Mail it the Capitol etc. Return address 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Washington, DC
May 6, 2025 at 2:37 AM
Ezra Levin, Postcard Protest: SOS -Stamp Out Stupidity
Not everyone can join a march, but everyone can still make their voice heard and protest with just a postcard, envelope, and stamp. Write your message on a postcard. Mail it the Capitol etc. Return address 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Washington, DC
Not everyone can join a march, but everyone can still make their voice heard and protest with just a postcard, envelope, and stamp. Write your message on a postcard. Mail it the Capitol etc. Return address 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. Washington, DC
If you’re not paying child support, should you still have the same authority in your child’s life?
Discipline, decisions, influence, does money change the weight of parenting, or should presence always matter more?
Yes or no? Why? You’re thought or experience.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights
Discipline, decisions, influence, does money change the weight of parenting, or should presence always matter more?
Yes or no? Why? You’re thought or experience.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights
September 15, 2025 at 10:58 PM
If you’re not paying child support, should you still have the same authority in your child’s life?
Discipline, decisions, influence, does money change the weight of parenting, or should presence always matter more?
Yes or no? Why? You’re thought or experience.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights
Discipline, decisions, influence, does money change the weight of parenting, or should presence always matter more?
Yes or no? Why? You’re thought or experience.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights
It’s back-to-school time!
If an absent parent pays child support, should they still help with clothes, supplies, sports fees, etc.?
Is support enough, or should parenting come with extras too?
Let’s talk. Is child support child for everything?
#KidsOverConflict #BackToSchool #SupportBeyondTheCheck
If an absent parent pays child support, should they still help with clothes, supplies, sports fees, etc.?
Is support enough, or should parenting come with extras too?
Let’s talk. Is child support child for everything?
#KidsOverConflict #BackToSchool #SupportBeyondTheCheck
August 5, 2025 at 1:38 AM
It’s back-to-school time!
If an absent parent pays child support, should they still help with clothes, supplies, sports fees, etc.?
Is support enough, or should parenting come with extras too?
Let’s talk. Is child support child for everything?
#KidsOverConflict #BackToSchool #SupportBeyondTheCheck
If an absent parent pays child support, should they still help with clothes, supplies, sports fees, etc.?
Is support enough, or should parenting come with extras too?
Let’s talk. Is child support child for everything?
#KidsOverConflict #BackToSchool #SupportBeyondTheCheck
Can a parent be present but still absent?
They show up at drop-offs, attend games, maybe send money, but the bond is missing.
Is physical presence enough without emotional connection?
Let’s talk. What has your child personally experienced?
#KidsOverConflict #EmotionalParenting #ShowUpForReal
They show up at drop-offs, attend games, maybe send money, but the bond is missing.
Is physical presence enough without emotional connection?
Let’s talk. What has your child personally experienced?
#KidsOverConflict #EmotionalParenting #ShowUpForReal
August 5, 2025 at 1:31 AM
Can a parent be present but still absent?
They show up at drop-offs, attend games, maybe send money, but the bond is missing.
Is physical presence enough without emotional connection?
Let’s talk. What has your child personally experienced?
#KidsOverConflict #EmotionalParenting #ShowUpForReal
They show up at drop-offs, attend games, maybe send money, but the bond is missing.
Is physical presence enough without emotional connection?
Let’s talk. What has your child personally experienced?
#KidsOverConflict #EmotionalParenting #ShowUpForReal
Happy Father’s Day to the all the dads who show up 💙
Not just with gifts or posts, but with presence, patience, and protection.
And to those still figuring it out: it’s not too late to be what your child needs.
Let’s talk real fatherhood.
#KidsOverConflict #FathersDay #ShowUpDad
Not just with gifts or posts, but with presence, patience, and protection.
And to those still figuring it out: it’s not too late to be what your child needs.
Let’s talk real fatherhood.
#KidsOverConflict #FathersDay #ShowUpDad
June 15, 2025 at 5:39 PM
Happy Father’s Day to the all the dads who show up 💙
Not just with gifts or posts, but with presence, patience, and protection.
And to those still figuring it out: it’s not too late to be what your child needs.
Let’s talk real fatherhood.
#KidsOverConflict #FathersDay #ShowUpDad
Not just with gifts or posts, but with presence, patience, and protection.
And to those still figuring it out: it’s not too late to be what your child needs.
Let’s talk real fatherhood.
#KidsOverConflict #FathersDay #ShowUpDad
Should parenting be 50/50 when the effort isn’t?
If one parent is doing the heavy lifting financially, emotionally, or physically should decisions still be shared equally?
Let’s talk fairness vs. title.
#KidsOverConflict #EqualParenting #CoParentingRealTalk
If one parent is doing the heavy lifting financially, emotionally, or physically should decisions still be shared equally?
Let’s talk fairness vs. title.
#KidsOverConflict #EqualParenting #CoParentingRealTalk
May 18, 2025 at 9:40 PM
Should parenting be 50/50 when the effort isn’t?
If one parent is doing the heavy lifting financially, emotionally, or physically should decisions still be shared equally?
Let’s talk fairness vs. title.
#KidsOverConflict #EqualParenting #CoParentingRealTalk
If one parent is doing the heavy lifting financially, emotionally, or physically should decisions still be shared equally?
Let’s talk fairness vs. title.
#KidsOverConflict #EqualParenting #CoParentingRealTalk
Can you love your child but dislike being a parent?
Some parents show up but silently privately struggle parenting.
Is it burnout, lack of support, or something deeper?
How do we create space for honesty without shame?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingStruggles #HonestConversations
Some parents show up but silently privately struggle parenting.
Is it burnout, lack of support, or something deeper?
How do we create space for honesty without shame?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingStruggles #HonestConversations
May 17, 2025 at 3:14 PM
Can you love your child but dislike being a parent?
Some parents show up but silently privately struggle parenting.
Is it burnout, lack of support, or something deeper?
How do we create space for honesty without shame?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingStruggles #HonestConversations
Some parents show up but silently privately struggle parenting.
Is it burnout, lack of support, or something deeper?
How do we create space for honesty without shame?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingStruggles #HonestConversations
Does every parent deserve 50/50 custody?
Some say equal time is fair others say it’s not always best for the child.
Should history, effort, or stability play a role?
Is equal time always equal parenting?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #CustodyConversations #CoParentingRealities
Some say equal time is fair others say it’s not always best for the child.
Should history, effort, or stability play a role?
Is equal time always equal parenting?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #CustodyConversations #CoParentingRealities
May 13, 2025 at 11:07 AM
Does every parent deserve 50/50 custody?
Some say equal time is fair others say it’s not always best for the child.
Should history, effort, or stability play a role?
Is equal time always equal parenting?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #CustodyConversations #CoParentingRealities
Some say equal time is fair others say it’s not always best for the child.
Should history, effort, or stability play a role?
Is equal time always equal parenting?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #CustodyConversations #CoParentingRealities
If you had your child full-time, what would you expect from the other parent?
Time? Money? Emotional support?
Now flip it! Are you giving that same effort when roles are reversed? Or are you disconnected?
Let’s talk fairness, not just feelings.
#KidsOverConflict #AccountabilityInParenting
Time? Money? Emotional support?
Now flip it! Are you giving that same effort when roles are reversed? Or are you disconnected?
Let’s talk fairness, not just feelings.
#KidsOverConflict #AccountabilityInParenting
May 12, 2025 at 6:47 PM
If you had your child full-time, what would you expect from the other parent?
Time? Money? Emotional support?
Now flip it! Are you giving that same effort when roles are reversed? Or are you disconnected?
Let’s talk fairness, not just feelings.
#KidsOverConflict #AccountabilityInParenting
Time? Money? Emotional support?
Now flip it! Are you giving that same effort when roles are reversed? Or are you disconnected?
Let’s talk fairness, not just feelings.
#KidsOverConflict #AccountabilityInParenting
Grown Folks! You don’t pay child support should you still have equal say?
Can you discipline or make major decisions if you’re not contributing financially?
Is parenting about presence or payments?
Yes or no? Why or why not?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights #SupportAndResponsibility
Can you discipline or make major decisions if you’re not contributing financially?
Is parenting about presence or payments?
Yes or no? Why or why not?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights #SupportAndResponsibility
May 9, 2025 at 1:57 PM
Grown Folks! You don’t pay child support should you still have equal say?
Can you discipline or make major decisions if you’re not contributing financially?
Is parenting about presence or payments?
Yes or no? Why or why not?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights #SupportAndResponsibility
Can you discipline or make major decisions if you’re not contributing financially?
Is parenting about presence or payments?
Yes or no? Why or why not?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingRights #SupportAndResponsibility
Do you know someone who co-parent or just co-exist?
Sharing a child doesn’t always mean sharing the responsibility.
How do you move from silence or tension to real teamwork for the child’s sake?
Let’s talk about the gap between legal custody and emotional presence.
#KidsOverConflict #RealCoParenting
Sharing a child doesn’t always mean sharing the responsibility.
How do you move from silence or tension to real teamwork for the child’s sake?
Let’s talk about the gap between legal custody and emotional presence.
#KidsOverConflict #RealCoParenting
May 8, 2025 at 7:00 PM
Do you know someone who co-parent or just co-exist?
Sharing a child doesn’t always mean sharing the responsibility.
How do you move from silence or tension to real teamwork for the child’s sake?
Let’s talk about the gap between legal custody and emotional presence.
#KidsOverConflict #RealCoParenting
Sharing a child doesn’t always mean sharing the responsibility.
How do you move from silence or tension to real teamwork for the child’s sake?
Let’s talk about the gap between legal custody and emotional presence.
#KidsOverConflict #RealCoParenting
Should kids have a say?
When one parent wants to move, remarry, or make major changes. Should the child’s voice be heard in court or does the kid opinion matter? At what age should their opinion matter?
Let’s talk about listening to the ones most affected.
#KidsOverConflict #ChildCenteredCoParenting
When one parent wants to move, remarry, or make major changes. Should the child’s voice be heard in court or does the kid opinion matter? At what age should their opinion matter?
Let’s talk about listening to the ones most affected.
#KidsOverConflict #ChildCenteredCoParenting
May 7, 2025 at 10:09 AM
Should kids have a say?
When one parent wants to move, remarry, or make major changes. Should the child’s voice be heard in court or does the kid opinion matter? At what age should their opinion matter?
Let’s talk about listening to the ones most affected.
#KidsOverConflict #ChildCenteredCoParenting
When one parent wants to move, remarry, or make major changes. Should the child’s voice be heard in court or does the kid opinion matter? At what age should their opinion matter?
Let’s talk about listening to the ones most affected.
#KidsOverConflict #ChildCenteredCoParenting
Is it “deadbeat” or just defeated?
Some parents stop showing up not out of carelessness, but out of shame, court battles, or feeling replaced.
Is every absent parent absent by choice?
Let’s talk about the difference and the impact it has on the child.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParentingTruths
Some parents stop showing up not out of carelessness, but out of shame, court battles, or feeling replaced.
Is every absent parent absent by choice?
Let’s talk about the difference and the impact it has on the child.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParentingTruths
April 29, 2025 at 4:10 PM
Is it “deadbeat” or just defeated?
Some parents stop showing up not out of carelessness, but out of shame, court battles, or feeling replaced.
Is every absent parent absent by choice?
Let’s talk about the difference and the impact it has on the child.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParentingTruths
Some parents stop showing up not out of carelessness, but out of shame, court battles, or feeling replaced.
Is every absent parent absent by choice?
Let’s talk about the difference and the impact it has on the child.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParentingTruths
Should vasectomies be free like tubal ligations? Would you sign up? If the gov helps women prevent unplanned pregnancies should men have equal access?
Would this help reduce poverty, coparenting stress, Made a baby drama?
Child support drama?
Yes or No
#KidsOverConflict #ReproductiveResponsibility
Would this help reduce poverty, coparenting stress, Made a baby drama?
Child support drama?
Yes or No
#KidsOverConflict #ReproductiveResponsibility
April 11, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Should vasectomies be free like tubal ligations? Would you sign up? If the gov helps women prevent unplanned pregnancies should men have equal access?
Would this help reduce poverty, coparenting stress, Made a baby drama?
Child support drama?
Yes or No
#KidsOverConflict #ReproductiveResponsibility
Would this help reduce poverty, coparenting stress, Made a baby drama?
Child support drama?
Yes or No
#KidsOverConflict #ReproductiveResponsibility
When your child asks, Why doesn’t mom/dad come around?
What do you say?
How do you tell the truth without turning the child against the other parent?
Unnecessary bashing the absent parent or is it so deserving?
Let’s talk about protection and preserving peace.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingThroughPain
What do you say?
How do you tell the truth without turning the child against the other parent?
Unnecessary bashing the absent parent or is it so deserving?
Let’s talk about protection and preserving peace.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingThroughPain
April 10, 2025 at 3:18 PM
When your child asks, Why doesn’t mom/dad come around?
What do you say?
How do you tell the truth without turning the child against the other parent?
Unnecessary bashing the absent parent or is it so deserving?
Let’s talk about protection and preserving peace.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingThroughPain
What do you say?
How do you tell the truth without turning the child against the other parent?
Unnecessary bashing the absent parent or is it so deserving?
Let’s talk about protection and preserving peace.
#KidsOverConflict #ParentingThroughPain
Men, how do you feel when your child’s mother expose your kids to multiple partners? Does it affect the child? Is there a limit or should there be no live in?
Should courts or co-parents address shacking up?
Let’s talk boundaries, respect, and what’s best for the kids.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParenting
Should courts or co-parents address shacking up?
Let’s talk boundaries, respect, and what’s best for the kids.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParenting
April 9, 2025 at 2:08 PM
Men, how do you feel when your child’s mother expose your kids to multiple partners? Does it affect the child? Is there a limit or should there be no live in?
Should courts or co-parents address shacking up?
Let’s talk boundaries, respect, and what’s best for the kids.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParenting
Should courts or co-parents address shacking up?
Let’s talk boundaries, respect, and what’s best for the kids.
#KidsOverConflict #CoParenting
Single parents, What choice do you have?
When daycare costs more than your paycheck, some are forced to work two jobs and leave their kids home alone just to survive.
Where’s the other parent in this?
Should courts do more to hold them accountable?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #SingleParenting
When daycare costs more than your paycheck, some are forced to work two jobs and leave their kids home alone just to survive.
Where’s the other parent in this?
Should courts do more to hold them accountable?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #SingleParenting
April 8, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Single parents, What choice do you have?
When daycare costs more than your paycheck, some are forced to work two jobs and leave their kids home alone just to survive.
Where’s the other parent in this?
Should courts do more to hold them accountable?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #SingleParenting
When daycare costs more than your paycheck, some are forced to work two jobs and leave their kids home alone just to survive.
Where’s the other parent in this?
Should courts do more to hold them accountable?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #SingleParenting
Men, real question:
Can you fully show up for a new woman’s kids if you’re not showing up for your own?
Whether it’s because of distance, conflict, or your choice…what stops you?
Is starting over ideal, simply messy or necessary to have the family you want?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #Fatherhood
Can you fully show up for a new woman’s kids if you’re not showing up for your own?
Whether it’s because of distance, conflict, or your choice…what stops you?
Is starting over ideal, simply messy or necessary to have the family you want?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #Fatherhood
April 7, 2025 at 1:25 PM
Men, real question:
Can you fully show up for a new woman’s kids if you’re not showing up for your own?
Whether it’s because of distance, conflict, or your choice…what stops you?
Is starting over ideal, simply messy or necessary to have the family you want?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #Fatherhood
Can you fully show up for a new woman’s kids if you’re not showing up for your own?
Whether it’s because of distance, conflict, or your choice…what stops you?
Is starting over ideal, simply messy or necessary to have the family you want?
Let’s talk.
#KidsOverConflict #Fatherhood
#KidsOverConflict:
You can hate your baby daddy or mama. But your child shouldn’t have to.
Talking down the other parent might feel justified but your child hears it all. How do you manage conflict without passing pain onto your kids? What helped you or hurt you as a child in the middle? Let’s talk
You can hate your baby daddy or mama. But your child shouldn’t have to.
Talking down the other parent might feel justified but your child hears it all. How do you manage conflict without passing pain onto your kids? What helped you or hurt you as a child in the middle? Let’s talk
April 5, 2025 at 12:15 PM
#KidsOverConflict:
You can hate your baby daddy or mama. But your child shouldn’t have to.
Talking down the other parent might feel justified but your child hears it all. How do you manage conflict without passing pain onto your kids? What helped you or hurt you as a child in the middle? Let’s talk
You can hate your baby daddy or mama. But your child shouldn’t have to.
Talking down the other parent might feel justified but your child hears it all. How do you manage conflict without passing pain onto your kids? What helped you or hurt you as a child in the middle? Let’s talk