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Malayshia 💋
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I can’t wait to experience love without trust issues, past trauma, commitment issues, them texting women behind my back and not having to beg to be heard or seen and for reciprocation or to be loved correctly the first time around. A love where there are zero worries 💯
November 11, 2025 at 4:51 PM
sadly I don’t even know how to let a man love me right… I’m so used to receiving bs from 🥷🏽 that I just assume it’s going to happen at some point… it’s so hard to let smb in rn… I can’t even tell if smb will be good for me… having a good man and being a wife is all I use to want… ‼️
November 11, 2025 at 4:47 PM
if a man starts pulling away from you, just quietly move on. no long messages trying to make him understand your pain and see ur worth, no "he'll regret it." or "maybe he'll change with time." just know your self worth and leave. you deserve a love that's sure of you from the very beginning ‼️🫶🏽
November 9, 2025 at 6:08 PM
If we’re dating and you decide to cheat on me, no amount of “I’m sorry baby” “it didn’t mean anything” “I love you” “I know I was wrong” can erase the fact that you looked at my worth weighed it against your urge and picked them over me. Cheating isn’t a mistake it’s a decision, a selfish act ‼️
November 8, 2025 at 2:27 PM
I pray you marry a man that actually wants to be married, a man who isn’t out here embarrassing his family, I pray you marry an honest, hard-working, loving man. I know nobody is perfect, but I pray that you marry a man who goes to God instead of other women when things begin to get tough.
November 6, 2025 at 6:11 PM
a lot of men call themselves real men… but a real man won’t have you out there second guessing, won’t have a b!tch thinking she got your spot, won’t fw multiple girls knowing he got you. A REAL man gon make sure you’re treated like a Queen, be there for you no matter what and make sure you’re happy
November 6, 2025 at 6:05 PM
after my previous relationship I just don’t fw bs fr, you on that friendly stuff WE DONE, you put me second WE DONE, you fw me when you want to WE DONE, go all day w/o talking to me WE DONE, you get one chance to show me how you coming, after that WE DONE. Y’all too old to be playing games 🤦🏽‍♀️‼️
November 5, 2025 at 5:57 PM
If we fw each other! I shouldn’t have to tell you to text me back, shouldn’t have to wonder where you are, shouldn’t have to ask you what’s taking so long for a reply, nothing be questioned, this relationship takes two ppl and ima give it my everything, but ima need you to meet me half way 😴
November 5, 2025 at 5:54 PM
🥷🏽 will never understand how hard it is for a female to walk away, even after all the bs she’ll still look for the one reason to try and make shit work cause she can't see herself making it work with somebody else. You think she wanna start over with another man? give her body to another man? NO.
November 4, 2025 at 5:04 PM
I realized I had to let him go. He was unbothered watching me lose my mind over his decisions. I realized I was fighting for something that was hurting me. He’s broken and I wasn't meant to fix him. I learned that how people treat you is a reflection of how they feel about themselves
November 4, 2025 at 4:51 PM
Life is beginning to be so weird now, you don't know who you can trust, you don't know who really loves you, you don't know who really out here praying on your downfall... all you know is to lowkey stay to yourself and be READY for whatever's in front of you ‼️
November 3, 2025 at 5:40 PM
I don't mess w nobody anymore bc ppl will sit around you like they love you but in reality, whole time they don't even like you, lowkey hate on you, wish bad on you, make up lies about you, tell all your business, talk about you when you’re not around and laugh with people you don't fw 😴
November 3, 2025 at 5:37 PM
I can respect a 🥷🏽 that can just say yeah I got hoes, yes I was talking to her, lol just tell me what you on. Whatever I choose to do after that is on me, whether we're together or not as long as you told me what was up you'll forever have my respect, that’s all it takes is communication and honesty‼️
November 1, 2025 at 4:45 PM
Used to be crying my eyes out telling a 🥷🏽 what I deserved, trying to make him treat me a certain way, sending paragraphs and more.. but when you get done crying & explaining he still gonna do whatever he wants to do. You gotta move on & SHOW him why you deserve to be treated like a queen ‼️
November 1, 2025 at 4:43 PM
Y'all think y'all be getting away with hurting people, bc that person may not do the things you've done to them, but be aware karma comes in many forms. Whether you're attacked mentally, physically or even financially. You reap what you sow and what's done in the dark will always come to the light.
October 31, 2025 at 4:55 PM
Not gone lie, my toxic days are over. All the arguing, fighting, acting crazy etc. is over with we gone talk like adults and get an understanding or you gone get away from me simple. I'm not wasting no more energy and time. These past few years been stressful. All I want now is peace and real love!
October 31, 2025 at 4:53 PM
I'm not speaking to anybody who don't speak to me, I'm not showing up for anybody who don't show up for me, I'm not showing love to anybody who don't show love to me & Im DEFINITELY not fake kickin it with anybody I KNOW really don't fw me. I'm all out of favors ima just tell you to kiss my ssa!
October 30, 2025 at 4:23 PM
I don't care how long we've been friends, if I feel like you're weird when it comes to me I will cut you off! Time means nothing. I done had friends of 5+ years show me that they weren't really my friend.. I don't have to surround myself with nobody if I don't feel like they're genuinely for me ‼️
October 30, 2025 at 4:21 PM
These mfs don't realize how much of a blessing I am, until they're cut off for good. I'm one of the realist, coolest, most down to earth females you could ever meet and if I love you fr, it ain't a dang thing I wouldn't do for you. You will definitely get king treatment this way but, oh well.
October 29, 2025 at 12:15 PM
I'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping on what you can't control, everyone is going to do what they want regardless of your feelings. So do yourself a favor and don't lose ya mind trying to figure out where you went wrong, just control what you can change!
October 29, 2025 at 12:13 PM
Make sure doing me dirty is worth it. Make sure betraying me is worth it. Because IF I DO choose to still deal with you, you'll never get the same me twice. If you feel like I'm different, I AM. If you wonder why I don't bend over backwards for you anymore, now you know why.
October 28, 2025 at 3:12 PM
It takes a lot for me to walk away from somebody, I am so forgiving like no matter how bad you do me I will forgive you, and give you another chance, so if it ever gets to the point to where I say ef it just know I gave all my energy & it's a wrap, I don't hold grudges over stuff I just let ya go!
October 28, 2025 at 3:11 PM
I realized people never loved me for me.. It was just the way I showed up for them, the way I came thru when everyone else didn't, the way my mindset stimulated theirs, the way I looked pass their flaws and wanted the best for them, the way I was loyal no matter what...
October 25, 2025 at 2:38 AM
Going through things on my own is why i've become such an independent person. i'm trying to recover from things i keep to myself. trying to silence the thoughts i dont talk about and mend wounds that i dont show. i'm trying to heal. because i know that nobody got me like i got me
October 25, 2025 at 2:37 AM
We PROBABLY could have came back from the issue we had, But it was the way you moved afterwards that let me know why I couldn’t have you back around me. If your so called "loyalty" or
"realness" changed cause you were mad, you was never real and can stay from around me !
October 25, 2025 at 2:36 AM