John Dabell
@johndabell.bsky.social
Incurable optimist living with incurable cancer. Hopepunk, Grit Spreader & Force Multiplier. The difference between a warrior and a worrier is a couple of vowels.
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John Dabell
@johndabell.bsky.social
· Dec 6
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I've not cried for a long time. Yesterday I did. It wasn't feeling sorry for myself. The tears flowed because of my wife and daughter. I want better for them. They deserve so much more. I fight for them.
November 14, 2025 at 6:57 PM
I've not cried for a long time. Yesterday I did. It wasn't feeling sorry for myself. The tears flowed because of my wife and daughter. I want better for them. They deserve so much more. I fight for them.
Hospital update: my lung’s not fully inflated yet, so the chest drain remains for as long as it takes - progress is progress, even when it’s slow and takes its own steady pace. Big effort this morning. Healing isn’t linear - just grateful for every breath that works a little harder.
Donate to Help John Fight Incurable Head and Neck Cancer, organized by John Dabell
Welcome to my page and thank you for stopping by!
I have incurable hea… John Dabell needs your support for Help John Fight Incurable Head and Neck Cancer
gofund.me
November 13, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Hospital update: my lung’s not fully inflated yet, so the chest drain remains for as long as it takes - progress is progress, even when it’s slow and takes its own steady pace. Big effort this morning. Healing isn’t linear - just grateful for every breath that works a little harder.
Today's achievement: I managed to wash and dress myself. It's not easy with a chest drain and feeding tube but I did it, in a fashion. Little wins.
November 12, 2025 at 12:43 PM
Today's achievement: I managed to wash and dress myself. It's not easy with a chest drain and feeding tube but I did it, in a fashion. Little wins.
When I received my first Stage IV cancer diagnosis, my understanding of the miracle of life hit home. My second diagnosis of Stage IV incurable widened that awareness into something far deeper and more sacred. And now, with recent events, I find myself living on a level of understanding I never...
November 11, 2025 at 5:43 PM
When I received my first Stage IV cancer diagnosis, my understanding of the miracle of life hit home. My second diagnosis of Stage IV incurable widened that awareness into something far deeper and more sacred. And now, with recent events, I find myself living on a level of understanding I never...
I'm going to show folks. 2 weeks ago today, I was in ICU with a collapsed lung and multi-organ failure. Life-saving expertise, care and support from so many talented people means that today, I'm walking around my local ponds with a chest drain and feeding tube.
November 9, 2025 at 3:07 PM
I'm going to show folks. 2 weeks ago today, I was in ICU with a collapsed lung and multi-organ failure. Life-saving expertise, care and support from so many talented people means that today, I'm walking around my local ponds with a chest drain and feeding tube.
My posts at the moment might not reflect my daily positive narrative of the last 5 years but I am far from done. I'm receiving incredible support on here. Unfortunately, a tiny minority haven't, calling for me to 'be put of my misery' which I find abhorrent.
November 8, 2025 at 6:43 PM
My posts at the moment might not reflect my daily positive narrative of the last 5 years but I am far from done. I'm receiving incredible support on here. Unfortunately, a tiny minority haven't, calling for me to 'be put of my misery' which I find abhorrent.
I'm back home now, which, of course, is brilliant. I was struggling on the ward. The realities of being nose fed and having a lung drain are huge, though, so there is an enormous burden on my wife as she is now effectively my full-time carer. There is so much I can not do yet.
November 6, 2025 at 8:31 PM
I'm back home now, which, of course, is brilliant. I was struggling on the ward. The realities of being nose fed and having a lung drain are huge, though, so there is an enormous burden on my wife as she is now effectively my full-time carer. There is so much I can not do yet.
Today is the first day where I've started to get my head around what multi-organ failure means and how close I was to dying. I’m absolutely shattered, and it's just hit me that my recovery is going to take months and months and months. This has been far bigger than I realised.
November 5, 2025 at 9:52 PM
Today is the first day where I've started to get my head around what multi-organ failure means and how close I was to dying. I’m absolutely shattered, and it's just hit me that my recovery is going to take months and months and months. This has been far bigger than I realised.
1 week ago I was on a ventilator & hooked up to various gubbins & now catheter is out, & I have one less chest drain. Lung not fully inflated yet & big decisions have to be made about my feeding as it is currently going through my nose & possibly permanently so. Hate being on the ward.
November 3, 2025 at 12:21 PM
1 week ago I was on a ventilator & hooked up to various gubbins & now catheter is out, & I have one less chest drain. Lung not fully inflated yet & big decisions have to be made about my feeding as it is currently going through my nose & possibly permanently so. Hate being on the ward.
I've worked hard on my mental fitness over the years and always knew that it was crucial. In hospital, this gets a severe workout as there is so much to cope with. I'm certainly being stretched at the moment and trying to maintain my discipline.
November 2, 2025 at 3:58 PM
I've worked hard on my mental fitness over the years and always knew that it was crucial. In hospital, this gets a severe workout as there is so much to cope with. I'm certainly being stretched at the moment and trying to maintain my discipline.
I am now off ICU and on a ward. Still a way to go yet. May have to have a permanent feed to prevent this happening again. Extremely challenging situation and tough days ahead.
October 31, 2025 at 5:50 PM
I am now off ICU and on a ward. Still a way to go yet. May have to have a permanent feed to prevent this happening again. Extremely challenging situation and tough days ahead.
Still in ICU but off ventilator. In a bad way. Had multiple organ failure and life-saving op. Told I'm doing well but it doesn't feel like that. Being fed through my nose. This is the most undignified experience of my life. Need help with all personal care. No photo. Too rough.
October 30, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Still in ICU but off ventilator. In a bad way. Had multiple organ failure and life-saving op. Told I'm doing well but it doesn't feel like that. Being fed through my nose. This is the most undignified experience of my life. Need help with all personal care. No photo. Too rough.
I'm now in hospital with a collapsed lung which Docs are unable to drain. Without an op, the infections will kill me. Op is tomorrow am. My family and I need your love, support, shares and help more than ever. Thank you. I will update further when I can.
gofund.me/41874cbe6
gofund.me/41874cbe6
October 25, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I'm now in hospital with a collapsed lung which Docs are unable to drain. Without an op, the infections will kill me. Op is tomorrow am. My family and I need your love, support, shares and help more than ever. Thank you. I will update further when I can.
gofund.me/41874cbe6
gofund.me/41874cbe6
Mission for this week: keep producing courage, resilience, hope, and optimism on an industrial scale.
October 12, 2025 at 10:14 AM
Mission for this week: keep producing courage, resilience, hope, and optimism on an industrial scale.
Visting our bright and beautiful daughter today in Liverpool, where she is studying. It is so great to see her! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
October 11, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Visting our bright and beautiful daughter today in Liverpool, where she is studying. It is so great to see her! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
As a third of my life has been fighting two Stage IV cancers and the horrible side-effects, I often wonder how much more productive I would have been without all this. Please continue to share and support my story, thank you. gofund.me/86c8cdcca
October 10, 2025 at 7:03 PM
As a third of my life has been fighting two Stage IV cancers and the horrible side-effects, I often wonder how much more productive I would have been without all this. Please continue to share and support my story, thank you. gofund.me/86c8cdcca
The best therapy comes without walls or Wi-Fi, and nothing heals, steadies, or lifts quite like fresh air. It’s the cheapest and finest luxury there is. Out here, every breath reminds you what matters.
October 10, 2025 at 4:40 PM
The best therapy comes without walls or Wi-Fi, and nothing heals, steadies, or lifts quite like fresh air. It’s the cheapest and finest luxury there is. Out here, every breath reminds you what matters.
Hills build legs. Struggles build souls.
October 9, 2025 at 8:07 AM
Hills build legs. Struggles build souls.
Sometimes, standing still is the best way forward. Even a statue outlasts the storm.
October 7, 2025 at 8:03 AM
Sometimes, standing still is the best way forward. Even a statue outlasts the storm.
Done! I'm now making a swift exit to walk Hetty! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
October 6, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Done! I'm now making a swift exit to walk Hetty! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
Today, I head off for my 69th immunotherapy 'spa' treatment. I’m not in the best shape for this one as pleurisy has thrown a spanner in the works, but I'm not missing it. There's more than one battle to fight.
October 6, 2025 at 7:51 AM
Today, I head off for my 69th immunotherapy 'spa' treatment. I’m not in the best shape for this one as pleurisy has thrown a spanner in the works, but I'm not missing it. There's more than one battle to fight.
Even when cancer blows the wheels clean off, a stabiliser - routine, hope, love, purpose - can still keep you upright.
October 5, 2025 at 7:17 PM
Even when cancer blows the wheels clean off, a stabiliser - routine, hope, love, purpose - can still keep you upright.
When you uplift others, you don’t lose your strength, you multiply it. Empowerment isn’t a transaction; it’s a chain reaction.
October 4, 2025 at 8:20 PM
When you uplift others, you don’t lose your strength, you multiply it. Empowerment isn’t a transaction; it’s a chain reaction.
Despite the pleurisy, I still managed to do a bit of pro bono work in my community this morning. No one will know it was me - it might not even be noticed at all - but that’s not the point. It simply feels good to quietly do your bit.
October 4, 2025 at 9:45 AM
Despite the pleurisy, I still managed to do a bit of pro bono work in my community this morning. No one will know it was me - it might not even be noticed at all - but that’s not the point. It simply feels good to quietly do your bit.
Pleurisy 1 Johnny 0
Thankfully, that's not full-time, and I'm looking to equalise and take the lead. The game’s not over. It’s just getting interesting.
Thankfully, that's not full-time, and I'm looking to equalise and take the lead. The game’s not over. It’s just getting interesting.
October 3, 2025 at 10:46 AM
Pleurisy 1 Johnny 0
Thankfully, that's not full-time, and I'm looking to equalise and take the lead. The game’s not over. It’s just getting interesting.
Thankfully, that's not full-time, and I'm looking to equalise and take the lead. The game’s not over. It’s just getting interesting.