So… why aren’t they coming back?
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So… why aren’t they coming back?
👀 The real reason might surprise you: shorturl.at/AKl3Q
Here's how to make sure you ship...
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Here's how to make sure you ship...
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1. You create your Marketing materials as though YOU are your target market.
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1. You create your Marketing materials as though YOU are your target market.
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It's that you're unwilling to stay in discomfort as you work through all those bad ideas to start finding the good ones.
Seriously, try ACTUALLY MAKING every crappy thing that comes to mind and you'll be amazed how many good ideas show up!
It's that you're unwilling to stay in discomfort as you work through all those bad ideas to start finding the good ones.
Seriously, try ACTUALLY MAKING every crappy thing that comes to mind and you'll be amazed how many good ideas show up!
"Is this THE answer, or just AN answer?"
More often than not, it's merely AN ANSWER. Knowing that makes it 1,000% easier to tackle the crucial question:
"Does this answer actually work for me?"
"Is this THE answer, or just AN answer?"
More often than not, it's merely AN ANSWER. Knowing that makes it 1,000% easier to tackle the crucial question:
"Does this answer actually work for me?"
It's an almost universal truth that Creative Professionals tend to make what they're working on WAY more complicated than it needs to be.
Ask the question below (made famous by Tim Ferriss) and then...
Do that instead!
It's an almost universal truth that Creative Professionals tend to make what they're working on WAY more complicated than it needs to be.
Ask the question below (made famous by Tim Ferriss) and then...
Do that instead!
All the tips and tricks and guides and coaching and accountability won't get you there if you don't. Just. Start.
Where you're at. With what you have. Right now. Even if you're not ready. ESPECIALLY if you're not ready.
Don't wait. Just start.
All the tips and tricks and guides and coaching and accountability won't get you there if you don't. Just. Start.
Where you're at. With what you have. Right now. Even if you're not ready. ESPECIALLY if you're not ready.
Don't wait. Just start.
A mashup of who you are, plus a handful of things that deeply resonate with YOU. That’s your "secret sauce!"
That’s the thing that can’t be copied or imitated. THAT is the “perfect union of contrary things” that makes you a category of 1.
A mashup of who you are, plus a handful of things that deeply resonate with YOU. That’s your "secret sauce!"
That’s the thing that can’t be copied or imitated. THAT is the “perfect union of contrary things” that makes you a category of 1.
I've worked with some very well-known makers and creators over the years... One thing I've heard over and over from them is:
"If I'd known it was going to become THIS well known, I would have done a better job making it."
The truth is:
I've worked with some very well-known makers and creators over the years... One thing I've heard over and over from them is:
"If I'd known it was going to become THIS well known, I would have done a better job making it."
The truth is:
You cannot "hustle culture" past this truth: rest on your terms, or be forced to rest anyway.
There is no third option.
You cannot "hustle culture" past this truth: rest on your terms, or be forced to rest anyway.
There is no third option.
No matter how difficult, do the work to let it go anyway- as quickly as possible.
Clinging to that which is, in fact, already gone can only damage the legacy of what it was.
No matter how difficult, do the work to let it go anyway- as quickly as possible.
Clinging to that which is, in fact, already gone can only damage the legacy of what it was.
You don't always know exactly what obstacles you're going to find, but you DO know parts of it are going to be hard- and not all of it will be super fun.
But... If you don't actually go, your view will never change.
You don't always know exactly what obstacles you're going to find, but you DO know parts of it are going to be hard- and not all of it will be super fun.
But... If you don't actually go, your view will never change.
Optimizing and efficiency are good habits, but... It's EQUALLY important to build "fudge factor" into life.
You're not doing anyone any good if you've burned out 'cause you tried to squash your humanity with rigid discipline.
Optimizing and efficiency are good habits, but... It's EQUALLY important to build "fudge factor" into life.
You're not doing anyone any good if you've burned out 'cause you tried to squash your humanity with rigid discipline.
I can count on ONE HAND the number of pitches that have caught my attention over the years.
Here's what they had, that you're probably missing:
I can count on ONE HAND the number of pitches that have caught my attention over the years.
Here's what they had, that you're probably missing:
Permission to share it YOUR way. Through YOUR lens. With YOUR experience.
Your people will identify as much with YOU as they will with the message you're sharing...
Permission to share it YOUR way. Through YOUR lens. With YOUR experience.
Your people will identify as much with YOU as they will with the message you're sharing...
Look, unless you can kill someone by doing it wrong (surgeon, bridge builder, explosives expert, etc.) you don't NEED anyone's permission!
Own it. Get to work, and BE it!
Look, unless you can kill someone by doing it wrong (surgeon, bridge builder, explosives expert, etc.) you don't NEED anyone's permission!
Own it. Get to work, and BE it!
If you want to make a change, it's not enough to just work on it occasionally, or when you "feel" like it...
It's so simple- but that doesn't mean it's easy. Consistency really IS king.
If you want to make a change, it's not enough to just work on it occasionally, or when you "feel" like it...
It's so simple- but that doesn't mean it's easy. Consistency really IS king.
Which is what a lot of folks THINK they want when they hire a coach. Instead, great coaches ask the right questions, coax out answers, and help transform those answers to ACTION.
THAT is what helps clients get the results they are after.
Which is what a lot of folks THINK they want when they hire a coach. Instead, great coaches ask the right questions, coax out answers, and help transform those answers to ACTION.
THAT is what helps clients get the results they are after.
If it took you <a long time> to learn, but you can teach me the "secret" in 5 minutes...
You're not delivering the value you think you are. 🤷
If it took you <a long time> to learn, but you can teach me the "secret" in 5 minutes...
You're not delivering the value you think you are. 🤷
If you had half as much time to work, what in your process would you drop immediately in order to get the REAL work done?
Trim that stuff out right NOW, and use the time you save to take a walk... Or garden... Or rest... Or play with your kids... Or...
If you had half as much time to work, what in your process would you drop immediately in order to get the REAL work done?
Trim that stuff out right NOW, and use the time you save to take a walk... Or garden... Or rest... Or play with your kids... Or...
Truth is: if a business demands rapid short-term profit over making work that matters, the ONLY solution is Coercion.
You can make a pretty good living in Coercion, but you CAN'T make work that matters.
Truth is: if a business demands rapid short-term profit over making work that matters, the ONLY solution is Coercion.
You can make a pretty good living in Coercion, but you CAN'T make work that matters.
So I didn't do much.
Your ego will happily convince you to sit out of your own life rather than risk being seen as a failure.
Don't let your ego lead.
So I didn't do much.
Your ego will happily convince you to sit out of your own life rather than risk being seen as a failure.
Don't let your ego lead.
Do you...
Make music? You're a musician.
Write? You're a writer.
Make films? You're a filmmaker.
While you're waiting on gatekeepers, someone else is becoming successful by just DOING the work.
Do you...
Make music? You're a musician.
Write? You're a writer.
Make films? You're a filmmaker.
While you're waiting on gatekeepers, someone else is becoming successful by just DOING the work.
You need to be able to DO the thing you want to be hired for at a HIGH LEVEL!
You will find more success if you devote at least a year to actually "doing the thing" at the highest level you possibly can FIRST.
You need to be able to DO the thing you want to be hired for at a HIGH LEVEL!
You will find more success if you devote at least a year to actually "doing the thing" at the highest level you possibly can FIRST.
If you want to change a habit, start something new, or build a skill, a great method for making it stick is:
Put skin in the game. Spend $$$ on a coach or a course. Tell your friends. Do SOMETHING public for when you want to quit.
If you want to change a habit, start something new, or build a skill, a great method for making it stick is:
Put skin in the game. Spend $$$ on a coach or a course. Tell your friends. Do SOMETHING public for when you want to quit.