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Divorcing Religion
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RELIGIOUS TRAUMA RECOVERY COACH Author of Divorcing Religion: A Memoir & Survival Handbook; host of the Divorcing Religion Podcast; founder of CORT (Conference on Religious Trauma); bird-watcher; aspiring comedian.
This was such an interesting conversation. My aim with the Sex & Power Podcast is to platform speakers and messages that the current US administration would disapprove of. youtu.be/8sJR9QkwLd0?...
The Sex & Power Podcast: Truth-telling that liberates with Mike Steve Collins
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January 30, 2026 at 1:20 AM
This brightened my morning: There is a continuing decline in UK church attendance. Hopefully they’re finding better ways to spend their time - and more inclusive communities to be part of.
January 29, 2026 at 4:47 PM
Well done, Nepal, for kicking out Christians who proselytize in your nation. All countries should do likewise.
January 26, 2026 at 2:14 AM
Well, greed plus Racism.
January 26, 2026 at 12:27 AM
January 25, 2026 at 1:42 AM
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January 24, 2026 at 4:31 PM
I figured it out 😉
January 24, 2026 at 6:42 PM
Huzzah! 🎉
January 22, 2026 at 4:05 PM
Many people worry when anger appears after they’ve left a controlling or religious system. They assume something is wrong. In reality, anger often waits until it is safe. When obedience was required for belonging, anger was dangerous. Anger emerging later means your nervous system is catching up.
January 20, 2026 at 7:57 PM
No person in the USA is safe from ICE. They must be stopped.
www.motorbiscuit.com/ice-smash-ca...
ICE Agents Smash North Carolina Woman's Car Window, Detain Her for Honking Her Horn
ICE operation sparks arrest controversy in Charlotte driveway
www.motorbiscuit.com
January 19, 2026 at 3:35 AM
A child is dead after a so-called “exorcism." The defense: Belief in the supernatural. 🙄🤬

When belief systems teach people to distrust reality, instincts, & evidence in favor of Invisible Authority, harm is seen as obedience.

Indoctrination does not cancel accountability. She deserved better.
January 17, 2026 at 9:03 PM
January 15, 2026 at 11:48 PM
😂
January 14, 2026 at 6:09 PM
January 14, 2026 at 5:26 PM
It’s like being sucker-punched; having the wind knocked out of you. Awake in the middle of the night, replaying conversations and searching for when the cracks first started to appear. Betrayal feels personal. I know because I’ve been there.
#betrayaltrauma #religioustrauma #grief #support
January 14, 2026 at 5:25 PM
Excellent piece about how the USA learned to love state violence
znetwork.org/znetarticle/...
The Pathology of Power: How America Learned to Love State Violence
There's a scene playing out across American social media that should disturb anyone with a functioning conscience. A woman lies dead, killed by federal
znetwork.org
January 13, 2026 at 6:52 PM
Oh, no! I’VE BEEN WARNED! Also: since I am not getting paid, that must mean I am a demon. 🙄 Anyhoo, this is from a real person who probably votes. We owe it to humanity to keep speaking out against religious malarkey. Please VOTE for critical thinkers, only. Stop putting cult members into power.
January 13, 2026 at 12:19 AM
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January 11, 2026 at 9:12 PM
Teaching children that their group is uniquely chosen by a god is dangerous. It shrinks compassion. Religious identity + whiteness & nationalism = A sense of moral superiority that is protected from challenge.

Beliefs that depend on enemies to define righteousness fuel racism & exclusion. #ice
January 11, 2026 at 9:11 PM
Don’t read/listen if you are already struggling with your mental health. It is regarding the testimony of a male survivor of CSA who was trafficked in Epstein and Trump circles. I trust the author. lisevoldeng.substack.com/p/dont-worry...
"Don't worry. Boys are hard to find." Part 1 o2
Trump/Epstein and Associated Criminal Enterprises: Victim Interviews: SR
lisevoldeng.substack.com
January 11, 2026 at 4:59 PM
He believes he is an emperor, constrained only by his own “morals” 🙄 www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026...
‘I don’t need international law’: Trump says power constrained only by ‘my own morality’
President says morality ‘the only thing that can stop me’ in New York Times interview on limits to his authority
www.theguardian.com
January 8, 2026 at 11:59 PM
Feeling mad as your country is sold off to the highest bidder? Is religion being forced onto your nation? Are the rights and safety of women, BIPOC, and LGBTQ communities in danger? If so, “REGIME CHANGE”may be right for you! Don’t delay - start today! Side effects include liberation & jubilation.
a penguin is holding a bottle of medicine and a spoon of honey
ALT: a penguin is holding a bottle of medicine and a spoon of honey
media.tenor.com
January 8, 2026 at 9:06 PM
KEEP GOING, IRAN! You deserve freedom from tyrannical religious oppression! Don’t stop until the current regime is razed to the ground!

www.cbsnews.com/news/iran-cu...
Internet service in Iran cut off or restricted as deadly protests reach a possible tipping point
Iran facing "nationwide internet blackout," monitoring group says, amid hope that 12 days of deadly protests may swell into a tipping point against a repressive regime.
www.cbsnews.com
January 8, 2026 at 8:55 PM
He has no plans to step down, and he is backed by the greedy and powerful. I think military officials and troops in the USA will soon have a serious choice to make. atlantablackstar.com/2026/01/05/t...
‘This Is Madness’: Trump Just Received a $250M Reason to Break the Law, Openly Brags About It — Then the Donor Drops Three Words That Change Everything
"‘This Is Madness’: Trump Reveals $250M Bribe, Billionaire Donor's Shocking Ultimatum Changes Everything. Click to uncover the jaw-droppi...
atlantablackstar.com
January 5, 2026 at 4:29 PM