It is a sad state of affairs that this needs to be posted.

Please share with anyone and everyone and especially those that it might concern

Here's a little song

Don't try to explain

This is... actually a fairly reasonable takeaway from this year.

Also, what are people's opinions on BDSM playing a role in processing trauma?

As someone with a PTSD dx stemming from childhood abuse, I feel like BDSM has helped me with processing my past and helped me grow emotionally.

Finding a therapist who didn't pathologize me being a masochist? Challenging

Question for my fellow submissive folks. What kind of services do your dominant partner(s) love?

I cook and was trained as a therapeutic massage therapist. Both popular with past partners.

My current play partner is new-ish at being a domme and has few demands. Suggestions appreciated!

Well. While he’s pardoning folks….get all of the folks on death row pardoned, all those drug convictions for weed pardoned, etc etc etc.

First and foremost, alt text must always be informative and descriptive of the content in the image. It can have character and humor, but it still needs to be informative and descriptive. Alt text is not meant for easter eggs or jokes for sighted users.

Joseph Beuys, Joseph Beuys: Actions, Vitrines, Environments. The Menil Collection, 2005
https://botfrens.com/collections/14375/contents/1079096

One of my favorite artists. Divine.

Jasper Johns "Target with four faces" (1958).

Device, Jasper Johns 1962

Mixed media abstract on 22x30 printmaking paper. #art #painting #mixedmedia #abstract

After a pleasant Thanksgiving with beloved friends and family, I am left, as I am every year, with the eternal question.

Why is the traditional Thanksgiving meal so terrible? Soft, pale, bland and boring. Turkey is terrible.