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Haven Horizons
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National DSGBV Prevention Centre. We are working to end domestic abuse and coercive control through education, research, and collaborative partnerships.

https://linktr.ee/havenhorizons
Looking for some summer reading? Try one of the 75 DSGBV books we've donated to libraries across Ireland & NI, including TUS and Women's Aid Fed NI.

Read about coercive control - how to recognise the warning signs, how to navigate the legal system or how to reform it. (1/3)
July 7, 2025 at 1:21 PM
This #PrideMonth, it’s important to acknowledge that LGBT people can also experience coercively controlling behaviour / domestic abuse in their intimate relationships - a thread (1/6)

Research indicates high levels of domestic abuse and intimate partner violence in LGBT relationships:
June 30, 2025 at 12:38 PM
Did you know: Haven Horizons is on seven popular platforms?

Join us in learning about how to identify coercive control, eliminate domestic abuse supportive behaviour, and end domestic, sexual, and gender based violence (DSGBV).

Links to each platform in our bio.

#DSGBVEndgame
June 26, 2025 at 11:57 AM
Two years after first training one member of SETU staff, Haven Horizons are now actively collaborating with the university and have provided workshops for nearly 100 staff in understanding coercive control and domestic abuse, detecting red flags, and supporting disclosures. (1/2)
June 24, 2025 at 11:12 AM
This Thursday, our book club is discussing 'Brutally Honest' by former Spice Girl and coercive control survivor Mel B, one of our ‘Five Books That Could Save Your Life.’ (1/3)
June 16, 2025 at 12:48 PM
Thank you to all who joined us at 'Five Books That Could Save Your Life' at the Seamus Heaney Centre, Queens University Belfast, last night.

This project was designed to start an all-island conversation on DSGBV and coercive control. (1/3)
June 12, 2025 at 12:18 PM
Last chance: join us on Wednesday, 6-8pm, at the Seamus Heaney Centre QUB for 'Five Books That Could Save Your Life'.

Our panel will examine the destructive impact of coercive control through five key DSGBV books.

Book now: bit.ly/3GTP7xT

#dsgbvendgame #domesticabuse #coercivecontrol
Five Books That Could Save Your Life
Please join us as we discuss five life-changing books that could literally save your life, examining the impact of coercive control.
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June 9, 2025 at 12:04 PM
If you couldn't make it to our event at the Women's Aid Belfast & Lisburn Anniversary Conference last week, join us at the Seamus Heaney Centre, Queens University Belfast on 11 June 6-8pm organised by @reclaimtheagenda.bsky.social (1/3)
June 5, 2025 at 11:23 AM
We’re going to finish the live tweets here, as we move to the Q&A session. If you were unable to join us in the Titanic Museum today, the ‘Five Books That Will Save Your Life’ tour will continue: (1/2)
May 30, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Noelle: ‘An ex-partner leaving flowers on the doorstep can be dismissed by friends or professionals, even if there is a barring order in place. However, this type of action is often intended to intimidate the victim and to send a message that their abuser can still reach them.’
May 30, 2025 at 2:50 PM
Madeline: ‘Coercive Control is a pattern of behaviours in a relationship you don’t always recognise at the beginning. It does not always include physical violence.’
This is something echoed by the Hart brothers in their book, ‘Remembered Forever’, a memoir about (1/2)
May 30, 2025 at 2:44 PM
Danielle: ‘There’s a common trope often used in media reporting that domestic homicide is a crime of passion. This is fundamentally untrue and means many people do not recognise the danger posed to them by patterns of controlling behaviour. (1/2)
May 30, 2025 at 2:39 PM
Madeline: ‘There is no one model of a victim or a perpetrator. Perpetrators can present as pillars of their community. As Lisa Aronson Fontes explains in ‘Invisible Chains’ victims can be successful, professional, and highly educated; we must look deeper and recognise the warning signs.’
May 30, 2025 at 2:31 PM
Danielle: ‘Coercive Control is often something we don’t recognise without training. Mel Bs memoir ‘Brutally Honest’ shows the contrast between the public presentation of some victims as powerful, successful people and what goes on behind closed doors.’
May 30, 2025 at 2:21 PM
Noelle: ‘In refuges in the North, we use Jane Monckton-Smith’s book (In Control: Dangerous Relationships and How They End in Murder) as our bible – she really explains the progressive timeline of coercively controlling behaviour, and why and how it can end in murder’
May 30, 2025 at 2:14 PM
Madeline: ‘‘What is to be done about Violence Against Women’ addresses what has been done to combat DSGBV in the last 40 years and asks why what we are doing is not working.’ (1/2)
May 30, 2025 at 2:08 PM
The five books being discussed are ‘Invisible Chains’ by Lisa Aronson Fontes, ‘Remembered Forever’ by Luke & Ryan Hart, ‘Brutally Honest’ by Melanie Brown, ‘In Control: Dangerous Relationships and How They End In Murder’ by Jane Monckton-Smith, &
May 30, 2025 at 1:59 PM
Good afternoon! We’re live from the Women’s Aid 50th Anniversary Conference at the Titanic Centre, where our ‘Five Books that Could Save Your Life’ panel discussion is about to start. This all-island project seeks to change the conversation on DSGBV and coercive control.
May 30, 2025 at 1:52 PM
"Five Books That Could Save Your Life" aims to change the all-island conversation on Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control. Join us in the next phase of the project in Belfast. (1/5)
May 26, 2025 at 1:33 PM
Yesterday's coercive control training had almost 50 attendees. This indicates the level of interest in finding out more about the tactics and dynamics of coercively controlling behaviour. (1/3)
May 22, 2025 at 12:08 PM
Last chance to join our free Coercive Control training session, this Wednesday 21 May at 1-2pm.

This introductory session will include terminology, legislation, and how to recognise coercive control.

Book now: bit.ly/3S2W0PP
Understanding Coercive Control
This is an introduction to the topic of Coercive Control. The lecture is open to all who are interested in this topic.
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May 19, 2025 at 11:34 AM
It's time for the #DSGBVEndgame

Haven Horizons went to the Dáil last week to call on our representatives to recognise DSGBV as a public health emergency above party politics. We believe it is time for proactively preventing domestic abuse, rather than just reacting to it. (1/3)
May 14, 2025 at 11:39 AM
Thanks to the TDs, Senators & Cllrs who met with us in the Dáil yesterday. DSGBV is a public health crisis that cuts across party politics. We need a radical new approach, comparable to how we tackled tobacco. It's time to focus on prevention - it's time for the #DSGBVEndgame.
May 8, 2025 at 4:59 PM
If we don’t prevent DSGBV, we permit it: a thread on why Haven Horizons will be presenting to TDs and Senators tomorrow, May 7, at 3pm in Dáil Eireann's AV room (1/4)
May 6, 2025 at 3:25 PM
In addition to our work raising awareness with the general public, Haven Horizons also connects those working in DSGBA through our virtual community of practice. Among the other resources on this platform, we host a book club. (1/3)
April 28, 2025 at 11:38 AM