increasingly i think it is a very unfair expectation - vis-a-vis even ten or twenty years ago - that we have to do this kind of digital labour of endless self-curation/presentation. it’s taxing, thankless, artificial.
show up in the social world around you as you can, as you want. that’s enough.
I probably should express myself more on apps, I feel like I don’t articulate myself very well on social media. 😭
I am always conscious that I post a ton of thirst traps but like that doesn’t represent my full personality.
January 17, 2026 at 5:20 PM
increasingly i think it is a very unfair expectation - vis-a-vis even ten or twenty years ago - that we have to do this kind of digital labour of endless self-curation/presentation. it’s taxing, thankless, artificial.
show up in the social world around you as you can, as you want. that’s enough.