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Podcast with 2 Femdoms - candid conversations about sex, fetish, BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy play, phone sex, and even vanilla erotic pleasure.
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November 12, 2025 at 1:02 PM
Kink for Dummies with Dr. Jaime Grant
Ever found yourself whispering a desire into the phone, prefacing it with, “You’re probably going to think I’m weird for this…”? If so, you’re far from alone. On this episode of The Weekly Hot Spot, Mistresses Olivia and Erika sit down with a true leader in the world of sexuality and relationships, Dr. Jaime Grant, to dismantle that very notion and explore the empowering landscape of kink. Dr. Grant, a renowned research activist, relationship coach, and author of pivotal works like Great Sex: Mapping Your Desire and Polyamory for Dummies, joins us to discuss her latest essential guide, Kink for Dummies. The conversation immediately delves into one of the most common hurdles for newcomers: the fear of being "weird." Dr. Grant brilliantly reframes kink not as an anomaly but as a deeply rooted part of human history and desire, sharing fascinating insights about "ancient kinksters" that will change how you view your own longings. We focus on a question we hear constantly from listeners and callers alike: How do I talk to my partner about kink? This is where Dr. Grant’s expertise truly shines. She offers compassionate, practical advice for navigating these vulnerable conversations, whether you're in a long-term partnership or a new situationship. She emphasizes the importance of building "faith in yourself" first, suggesting that sometimes the safest initial step is to find community and gather information outside the primary relationship to fortify your own understanding. As Mistress Olivia reflects, this often aligns with why individuals turn to Dommes like us for distance domination – it provides a structured, judgment-free space to explore without the complications of daily life. Other topics include: The ‘desire discordant’ couple and finding a ‘third way’ that honors the needs of both partners. How to realistically create compromise in relationships. The transformative power of kink and how exploring kink can become a radical act of self-reclamation. Dr. Grant says: “We’re dealt a hard hand around sexuality, but we get to play it however we want—for our own gratification.” That’s the promise of kink: not escape, but reclamation. Using safe words in BDSM scenes, including the point that using a safe word isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s an act of profound communication and self-care that strengthens the entire dynamic. This episode is a masterclass in normalizing kinky desire and providing the tools to integrate it into your life with confidence and safety. Dr. Grant’s wisdom, combined with our own experiences from the front lines of phone sex and distance domination, creates a dialogue that is both intellectually stimulating and deeply practical. Ready to explore your desires with more clarity and courage? What’s the one kinky desire you’ve been most nervous to voice? We’d love to hear from you. Books by Dr. Jaime Grant on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Kink-Dummies-Jaime-M-Grant/dp/1394353243/ref=sr_1_3?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.kj-ITUeSTomigappteGPbOanS9b779O_d47rnJr7IYxKuVqEuwWxGwuSiQAqQXWgxFd1GImjq7X9FhlbaNKpow.xXFQA5Ld9CE_T9hcqx_uZ01U014A6cTVvem3xDB_t7s&dib_tag=se&qid=1762780600&refinements=p_27%3AJaime+M.+Grant&s=books&sr=1-3&text=Jaime+M.+Grant https://www.amazon.com/Polyamory-Dummies-Jaime-M-Grant-ebook/dp/B0DN3G49W3/ref=sr_1_4?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.kj-ITUeSTomigappteGPbOanS9b779O_d47rnJr7IYxKuVqEuwWxGwuSiQAqQXWgxFd1GImjq7X9FhlbaNKpow.xXFQA5Ld9CE_T9hcqx_uZ01U014A6cTVvem3xDB_t7s&dib_tag=se&qid=1762780661&refinements=p_27%3AJaime+M.+Grant&s=books&sr=1-4&text=Jaime+M.+Grant https://www.amazon.com/Great-Sex-Mapping-Your-Desire/dp/B0DMVKL4TD?ref_=ast_author_dp&th=1&psc=1 Contact us: Mistress Olivia:  olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com TwitterX: @MistressOlivia1.    Blue Sky:  @MsOlivia Blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika:  erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com TwitterX and Blue Sky: @ErikaEnchantrix Blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ MEET DR. JAIME GRANT Friday, November 21 at Red Emma's Bookstore in Baltimore Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana do exercises from the book and share bits of their kink highlight reels. Wednesday evening, January 21, 8pm at the Washington Hilton Hotel, as part of the Creating Change Conference.  Dr. Grant and her co-author Jack Harrison-Quintana read from Kink for Dummies and share tips. From late January through mid-March, Dr. Grant will be at the SketchPad Artist's residency in Hyannis Mass, offering Desire Mapping open studios every Saturday.  Book readings on the Cape in this period TBD. Friday April 24th @ 7:30pm, at Charis Books in Atlanta, Dr. Grant will talk about Kink for Dummies with Ignacio Rivera, technical editor on the book, and two kink story contributors, Asha Leong and tia marie. Reach out to Dr. Grant for readings or coaching at jaimemgrant@gmail.com and catch her podcast at http://www.justsexpodcast.com/
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November 10, 2025 at 6:00 PM
Reposted by The Weekly Hot Spot podcast
The paradox of BDSM: submission is freedom.
November 9, 2025 at 2:02 PM
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November 9, 2025 at 3:41 PM
Maths Maths Maths!

If: There are five to seven calories in a teaspoon of semen.

How much would a cum slut have to consume to gain one pound? 😉🤭😘
November 9, 2025 at 5:02 PM
Who has sex more often? 
Men
Or 
Women?
Show receipts! 😏😘😘🤭🤭
November 8, 2025 at 5:01 PM
OMG #Aftersex, no way!

I heard more than 30% of people under 35 check their social media
after sex!?

What? Tell me that's not true! What do you do after sex?
November 7, 2025 at 12:58 PM
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When you know you need the Experienced Mistress.
November 6, 2025 at 2:01 PM
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Sissy or submissive- DO IT!!!
November 6, 2025 at 3:39 PM
I wonder how the #SexMap is doing these days?

Check out this spotlight episode!
Title: Human Sex Map inspires This Kink Conversation!

Where do you land on this kinky map?

https://bit.ly/4hHkwSH
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November 6, 2025 at 1:17 PM
I was over at
she knows dot com
and found an interesting list! 
Did you know, 

Your average healthy man produces approximately 300 million sperm in just a teaspoon of his semen.
and it can live for up to a week inside your body!
November 5, 2025 at 12:52 PM
📣 New Podcast! "When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy" on @Spreaker #bdsm #dominance #ethicalslut #femdom #janethardy #kink #kinkpodcast #radicalecstasy #sexpodcast #someoneyouloveiskinky #submission
When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy
Today’s episode isn’t just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it’s a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you’re likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don’t have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good idea to be blunt? We begin with this question: “What if a woman struggles to own her power because of cultural beliefs?” As Footstool so poignantly puts it, many men fantasize about their vanilla partner becoming their Mistress — but how does she step into dominance when a lifetime of conditioning whispers, “Be nice. Be passive. Don’t lead.”? Janet offers a compassionate, no-nonsense response: Dominance isn’t about dominance — it’s about responsibility, clarity, and self-awareness. You don’t need to be born a Domme. You become one — through practice, reflection, and permission to shed old scripts. Then came Wellspanked’s dilemma: “When negotiating spanking, should we talk technique and intensity beforehand — clinically — or let it unfold in the heat of the moment?” The tension here is real: too much planning kills the spark; too little, and safety frays. Janet reminds us that true eroticism thrives in the space between trust and structure. Yes — talk logistics outside the scene. But leave room for improvisation within it. A safe word isn’t a buzzkill — it’s the foundation of freedom. One of our listeners, Ben, shared a fear so common it aches: “If my partner rejects my kinks, is the relationship irrevocably broken?” Janet’s answer? No — but it might need to evolve. Rejection isn’t always final. Sometimes, it’s the first step toward honest dialogue. What matters isn’t immediate acceptance — it’s willingness to listen, to be curious,and to try. What do you do if you get bad news? Janet has an honest answer - the relationship may need to change form — or end — with dignity. Then came the knife-edge question: “Can a partner ever see you as equal after extreme degradation?” This cuts to the heart of humiliation play — one of the most misunderstood, feared, and exciting dynamics in kink. Janet doesn’t flinch. She explains that the power of degradation lies not in the words, but in the aftercare. It’s not about erasing dignity — it’s about temporarily suspending it, with consent, for shared catharsis. And yes — equality returns, if both partners honor the reintegration. The scene ends. The love remains. Erika then turned to Janet’s latest work — Notes on an Aging Pervert — a book that’s “funny, sad, mind-bending.” She asked: Which essay was a lightbulb moment — for you or someone you love? Janet shared a story about aging, desire, and the myth of the “perfect scene.” The real magic, Janet said, isn’t in the play — it’s in what happens after: How do you come back to each other? How do you integrate the intensity? That’s where connection deepens — not in the whip, but in the whisper that follows. We closed with a truth that resonates through every episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast: Kink isn’t an escape from love — it’s a path into it. Deeper. Messier. More honest. If you’ve ever feared being “too much,” or worried you’re “not enough,” this conversation is for you. Tune in. Listen closely. And ask yourself: What would it feel like to be truly seen — kinks and all? https://janetwhardyauthor.com/ https://www.amazon.com/When-Someone-You-Love-Kinky/dp/1890159239 https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664/ref=sr_1_3?crid=23M1L2O7GKQEX&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.B-J4yi5pESx_gA_vpmKW2Ga-fN40hiVcnsrOGC4WAHFicW5YXeXHCp382bT-my_wVZGt-K5vvTudVDY1y20vvYjRt6AjL3M0cBDc87t1RpXrU6if02vhNqKwm19eXUQm6VtXeEPV_iiEKpSsVjWJd_yH0J8IlWpZVItY7cf9Dh5QTBNeAYOBgI0_Lsp0uDChNRrMGHEzNyxri8bjy3yTyZArsjUUESN4AbbsGqn-nJ8.QhT2dNtxstdttkQLJx4SwB31OvbB5uVjPv_-USRnCfQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=janet+Hardy+books&qid=1761434145&sprefix=janet+hardy+books%2Caps%2C124&sr=8-3 https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Ecstasy-Dossie-Easton-ebook/dp/B005HZ6F5M/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0 Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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November 3, 2025 at 6:00 PM
The Weekly Hot Spot, 🔦Spotlight Episode! 🔦

Mistress, am I still a sissy if I don’t want to suck cock?

https://www.spreaker.com/episode/mistress-am-i-still-a-sissy-if-i-don-t-want-to-suck-cock--57609333

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October 30, 2025 at 2:55 PM
The Weekly Hot Spot is out!

Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with the amazing Janet Hardy

https://www.spreaker.com/episode/ethical-sluts-radical-ecstasy-desire-consent-and-coming-into-power-with-janet-hardy--68280748
October 27, 2025 at 5:03 PM
📣 New Podcast! "Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with Janet Hardy" on @Spreaker #bdsmpodcast #d_s #dominance #ethicalslut #femdom #janethardy #kinkpodcast #non_manogamy #polyamory #submission #theweeklyhotspot #topping
Ethical Sluts & Radical Ecstasy: Desire, Consent, and Coming Into Power with Janet Hardy
What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today’s guest. She’s the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience.  Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation. Topics include: The intersections of power, pain, love and liberation. Myths and fears about ethical non-monogamy in kink spaces. Details about the new Workbook for The Ethical Slut. When Janet shares about how real change begins with honest self-inquiry, not permission from others, all three women talk about claiming their own personal erotic power. What does it mean to really choose who you are in your relationships? And, what is beyond tolerating a relationship. Hint: it’s not always easy or safe to open up to this view of love and pleasure.  Janet talks about building emotional resilience when having these vulnerable conversations. You’ll hear Mistress Olivia’s personal reflection on how Radical Ecstasy transformed her understanding of Dominance and submission — not as control, but as co-created surrender. “Pain is not the goal. Surrender is.” That one line shifted everything. Together, they explore how power exchange is one of the most intimate acts we’re capable of — a dance where trust becomes tangible, and vulnerability becomes strength. We also tackle real listener questions: - A trans woman shares her experience of feeling Dominant with male partners and submissive with female ones — is this a known dynamic? Janet offers thoughtful insight into gendered power dynamics and erotic archetypes. - For the nervous beginner — especially the "vanilla wife" being asked to step into Dominance — what are the real fears women face? Spoiler: It’s not about lack of interest. It’s about responsibility, judgment, and the weight of expectation. - And then… the eternal debate: Who’s really in control — the Domme or the sub? Janet’s answer may surprise you. (Hint: It’s not a power struggle — it’s a paradox.) Finally, for those walking the spiritual edge of kink, we explore how to distinguish emotional overwhelm from authentic spiritual surrender — because not every tear in a scene is transcendence. Some are signals. Learning the difference? That’s where true mastery begins. This episode isn’t just for kinksters. It’s for anyone who’s ever loved deeply, feared openly, or longed to be seen. It’s about coming into power — not over others, but within yourself. https://janetwhardyauthor.com/ https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664/ref=sr_1_3?crid=23M1L2O7GKQEX&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.B-J4yi5pESx_gA_vpmKW2Ga-fN40hiVcnsrOGC4WAHFicW5YXeXHCp382bT-my_wVZGt-K5vvTudVDY1y20vvYjRt6AjL3M0cBDc87t1RpXrU6if02vhNqKwm19eXUQm6VtXeEPV_iiEKpSsVjWJd_yH0J8IlWpZVItY7cf9Dh5QTBNeAYOBgI0_Lsp0uDChNRrMGHEzNyxri8bjy3yTyZArsjUUESN4AbbsGqn-nJ8.QhT2dNtxstdttkQLJx4SwB31OvbB5uVjPv_-USRnCfQ&dib_tag=se&keywords=janet+Hardy+books&qid=1761434145&sprefix=janet+hardy+books%2Caps%2C124&sr=8-3 https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Ecstasy-Dossie-Easton-ebook/dp/B005HZ6F5M/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0 Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ olivia@enchantrixempire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ erika@enchantrixempire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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October 27, 2025 at 5:00 PM
Sex Toys We Love, That You Need!

Whoa, the new sex toys are amazing!
Ms Olivia and Ms Erika bring Mistress Hunter back for a conversation about fabulous sex toys,

https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-toys-we-love-that-you-need--52443066
October 23, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Sex Toys We Love, That You Need!

Whoa, the new sex toys are amazing!
Ms Olivia and Ms Erika bring Mistress Hunter back for a conversation about fabulous sex toys,

https://www.spreaker.com/episode/sex-toys-we-love-that-you-need--52443066
October 23, 2025 at 4:03 PM
📣 New Podcast! "Wired to Obey? How a Submissive Sissy Finds Power in Pleasing a Femdom Mistress" on @Spreaker #bdsm #femdom #feminization #feminizationpodcast #goddess #kink #mistress #sexpodcast #sissy #sissypodcast #sissysubmissive #sissytraining #submissive
Wired to Obey? How a Submissive Sissy Finds Power in Pleasing a Femdom Mistress
Today’s episode is an intimate dive into one of the most misunderstood — yet deeply rewarding — dynamics in the world of Femdom and distance domination: the submissive sissy. Spoiler: It’s not just about lace, lipstick, or humiliation. It’s about surrender, self-discovery, and the quiet power found in your devotion to your Mistress. Have you ever asked yourself: “Why do I feel drawn to this role?” “Is wanting to serve a woman… weak?” “How do I truly become the sissy my Mistress deserves?” …then this episode is your permission slip to lean in. What We Explore: - Why not all sissies are submissive — and not all submissives are sissies - The emotional and psychological journey of embracing feminization - How a true Femdom Mistress guides, shapes, and transforms her sissy - The paradox of control: giving up power to gain freedom - The sacred art of being of service — beyond just sex or chores - Why communication is the most important part of a D/s relationship - Navigating boundaries, vulnerability, and trust in a D/s dynamic - The myth of “more is better” — and why following her lead beats initiative every time - And the big one: How submission changes you… and how the submissive also changes Mistress. Remember, it's not about escaping who you are — it’s about uncovering who you were meant to be under the gaze of a woman who sees you, owns you, and refines you. A skilled Femdom Mistress doesn’t just dominate — she mentors. She holds space for your fears, your shame, and your curiosity. Above all, she rewrites your future whether you are: - New to sissy training - Stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage or secret shame - Or already serving but craving deeper connection and purpose …this episode will remind you: You’re not broken. You’re becoming. Get in touch: Mistress Olivia:  email:  Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Discord: LDWOlivia Twitter X: @MistressOlivia1 blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Mistress Erika: email:  Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com Discord: LDWErika Twitter X: @ErikaEnchantrix blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
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October 20, 2025 at 5:00 PM
The Weekly Hot Spot 🔦Spotlight Episode!🔦🔦

What's a nice girl like you doing phone sex? 

https://www.spreaker.com/episode/what-s-a-nice-girl-like-you-doing-phone-sex--51589385
October 16, 2025 at 4:47 PM
Blooper Snippets From The Weekly Hot Spot!

Find out which of us was looking at our crotch! LOL 

https://eroticaudios.com/content/Erika/ErikaCrotchOliviaLaughingSnippet.mp3
October 16, 2025 at 3:18 PM
Sorry, Everyone, No Hot Takes On Thursdays!
Join us every Monday at 1 pm for another edition
of The Weekly Hot Spot!  Find us on your Favorite PODCAST app! 

Engage with us at EnchantrixEmpire.Net
&/or  Discord LDWErika and LDWOLIVIA!   

❤️ To All!
October 16, 2025 at 12:45 PM
The Weekly Hot Spot Is Out!

Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress!

Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume sug
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October 13, 2025 at 5:03 PM
Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistress
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode which is inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes. First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN.  This is the perfect holiday for feminization in public. We give some specific ideas how you can be femme and get away with your sissy play at a Halloween party. Costume ideas for sissies: a Hooters Girl slutty costumes comics cosplay and more. Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints! Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday. Mistress Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/ Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/ Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika Available for phone or texting sessions 800-356-6169 
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October 13, 2025 at 5:00 PM
📣 New Podcast! "Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistres" on @Spreaker #costumeideas #femdom #kinkpodcast #kinkyhalloween #mistresshalloween
Kinky Halloween: Dressed by Mistres
Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika crack open the candy bowl of taboo for this episode inspired by a listener question. Jen Jenn asks about sissy costume suggestions for Halloween and your Femdom hosts decide to talk about all sorts of fun, festive and naughty costumes. (Including sissy costume ideas). First though, we go off on safari about CANDY CORN.  Costume ideas for sissies: a Hooters Girl, slutty costumes, comics cosplay, and more.Speaking of cosplay, a perfect blend of feminization and humiliation bondage could be a Harley Quinn costume with literal restraints! Costume ideas that hint at Femdom, kink or female led relationshiips: knee pads while wearing a tux. collar and leash DIY costumes that might or might not hint at kink, BDSM or power exchange relationships. Hear what each Mistress is thinking about for her Halloween costume. We also talk about blending BDSM, kink and creativity for this fun holiday. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress Olivia@EnchantrixEmpire.com Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com DISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
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October 13, 2025 at 1:39 PM