Ember ❤️‍🔥 in Wonderland
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Ember ❤️‍🔥 in Wonderland
@emberswonder.bsky.social
I make smutty art, take spicy pics, share silly thoughts, and explore chaotic ropes. (She/her)

Kink-friendly / Sex-positivity / 🏳️‍🌈 LGBTQAI+ Ally / 🔞18+ONLY/MDNI
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Last Saturday I gave my very first solo Shibari performance in front of 60 people at Cordespace. I’m so happy and proud of myself! 💪😌

I posted all the photos to my free Patreon here: www.patreon.com/posts/134717...
Another example of the major difference photo edits make on a simple iPhone pic.

Lightroom presets, some manual blur for depth, and the most important: cropping to a create an interesting composition.

What do you think?
October 16, 2025 at 1:39 AM
My amazing and lovely rope partner twisting me in all the good ways. ☺️
October 14, 2025 at 2:32 AM
I love to be tied in chaotic improvised manner. This is when I can really let go of all the *thoughts* and find that mental release.

Ropes by Dame Cœur ♥️
October 11, 2025 at 2:24 PM
Interpret these how you want. We were just laughing hysterically the whole time. 😅 More on my Patreon!

With Z in Zentai bunny suit, and Ravenai at the Bongos.
October 8, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Last night we played with fire and wax. 🔥🕯️ Funny how the line between kink and satanic ritual is very blurred. We love it that way! 😈😅
September 20, 2025 at 3:31 PM
The amazing sketches @brainrotspice.bsky.social did of me during the figure drawing workshop last night! 🤩🤩🤩

I have ridiculously talented friends, and this is a shameless brag. 😝
September 12, 2025 at 1:07 PM
Accelerated video of tonight’s self-tying session to test out some shapes that I’ll be doing during this week’s live figure drawing workshop.
September 9, 2025 at 5:18 AM
Having taken SO MANY photo classes at collage and uni, I can tell you that knowing how do edit properly in Lightroom and Photoshop is the real job of a photographer.

A friend took this on their phone, and only with edits, I was able to make it look like a studio shot.
September 8, 2025 at 3:02 AM
“Squeeze so the bamboo doesn’t fall” they said… 😒😤 Ropes with SqueakyBrat.
August 19, 2025 at 1:59 AM
Thoroughly enjoyed being in a makeshift straitjacket. 👀 And look… more face rope! 😏 Ropes by Dame Cœur.
August 19, 2025 at 1:53 AM
This week I’m obsessed with face rope. (From a session with SqueakyBrat.) All the photos posted on my exclusive tier on Patreon.
August 18, 2025 at 2:35 PM
It’s SO HOT these days, I got myself a kid’s pool for my city patio. ☀️🥵🔥
August 13, 2025 at 2:51 AM
Sketch from a really fun challenging yet comforting tie with Bunnydough this week. 💕

Posting one more from this scene on my free Patreon!
August 7, 2025 at 1:57 AM
✨Highlight of the weekend:

Getting covered shoulders to toes in mud and automatically feeling like some wild and free weirdo superhero. 🦾

Who needs zentai or latex when you got a free mud suit? 🤣😅
July 28, 2025 at 11:12 AM
Yesterday I modelled for an artistic nude shoot in the woods. Forgot there were going to be bugs, and somehow being naked around them makes my fear of them a lot worse. 🥲

I also have a billion mosquito bites in places one should never have them. 😐💀

Pray for me. 🙏🤣
July 26, 2025 at 5:26 PM
Needed to draw this one with a nice expression and not my extreme struggling and sweaty face in the reference photo. 🥲
July 24, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Last Saturday I gave my very first solo Shibari performance in front of 60 people at Cordespace. I’m so happy and proud of myself! 💪😌

I posted all the photos to my free Patreon here: www.patreon.com/posts/134717...
July 23, 2025 at 9:11 PM
Tracing over some of my favourite moments in ropes to relive them.

Sometimes the quality of the pics aren’t so great, but the poses are so pretty and fun that it would be a crime not to share.
July 14, 2025 at 1:53 AM
Everyone was upset that I had to censor this on IG, so here ya go!
July 12, 2025 at 7:11 PM
Caption this. 🙃 (Wrong answers only!)
June 30, 2025 at 8:15 AM
Had a lovely rope session with Fuks (as always) in Brussels yesterday.

It was 30 degrees. No AC, no fan. I was DRIPPING sweat. 🫠🥴
June 30, 2025 at 8:14 AM
Behind the scenes of a recent shoot. Concept by me, ropes by Ravenai, and photos by @ag-photographe.bsky.social

But can we just take a moment to appreciate Raven’s penguin onesie?! 😍
June 24, 2025 at 2:14 PM
Enjoyed fooling around on the hashira. A first for me in self-tie! 💪
June 22, 2025 at 10:08 PM
Had some very tough, emotional and sad moments last week. It’s not often I get tied when I’m feeling this way, and it requires a whole different way of negotiating with your partner. This felt so comforting and soothing. Thank you Tess! 🩵
June 21, 2025 at 2:40 PM
The latest shoot I did with @ag-photographe.bsky.social 😍

When I saw this location I knew I wanted to be tied here! Couldn’t have done it without the help of 3 rope partners who know how best to objectify me. ☺️😏
June 16, 2025 at 3:20 AM