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EllerslieOfTheWind
@ellerslieofthewind.bsky.social
New platform to try to be truthful to myself, although anonymous for now.
I made pepper jack corn muffins and a pumpkin bread 🤦🏽‍♀️
I am bringing 3 sides I made from scratch so self, stop obsessing about baking something else and making an appetizer too. JUST STOP.

#Thanksgiving 
#ThanksgivingPrep
#cooking
#letitgo
November 27, 2025 at 4:39 PM
I am bringing 3 sides I made from scratch so self, stop obsessing about baking something else and making an appetizer too. JUST STOP.

#Thanksgiving 
#ThanksgivingPrep
#cooking
#letitgo
November 27, 2025 at 4:38 PM
I am bringing 3 sides I made from scratch so self, stop obsessing about baking something else and making an appetizer too. JUST STOP.

#Thanksgiving
#ThanksgivingPrep
#cooking
#letitgo
November 27, 2025 at 1:15 PM
I finished son2 and wife to be’s gift, 6 months early! Wedding ring pattern. Here also is the one I did for son1 and wife last year.
I’m overwhelmed with myself! 🤩 #crochet #bridalshower #heirloom #tradition
November 25, 2025 at 1:43 AM
Feel like I should be doing homework for work.

For the job that I’ve had for 31 years. Successfully.

New boss needs to GET OUT OF MY HEAD. 🙄
November 24, 2025 at 12:56 AM
My mental health right now is like all the Chinese foods dumped in a bowl and tossed like a salad.
a salad with bacon , tomatoes , cucumbers , lettuce and avocado in a glass bowl
ALT: a salad with bacon , tomatoes , cucumbers , lettuce and avocado in a glass bowl
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November 20, 2025 at 3:43 AM
So annoying to have a new younger boss checking up on me, who has been working independently, successfully, at this company for over 31 years. Seriously dude? Insulting.
November 20, 2025 at 2:07 AM
The results are in…
If I want to continue my current lifestyle (yes),
I can retire at 60 in 2 years!
I don’t have to, but I CAN!
I almost cried.
Because I CAN, and because why:
Because my ExWithALS’s surviving spouse benefits make the difference ❣️❣️❣️
November 19, 2025 at 3:32 AM
I’ve had this on my phone Lock Screen for a week now and I think I’m finally feeling it.
#Selfesteem is challenging when you’ve lived a life with narcs.
November 16, 2025 at 11:08 PM
In 5 days I will get the first draft of my retirement analysis from my financial advisor.
Hoping to quit at 60, and claim at 65.
The Affordable Care Act might derail that.
I swear, I don’t need much to live on; what I do need is TIME.
November 14, 2025 at 3:40 AM
Ghosted my mean coworker by shutting my office door the past 2 days and im so very fine with that.
I think she gets more accomplished when she’s mad, lol 👍🏼
November 14, 2025 at 3:30 AM
@GetSpectrum hi Spectrum. Shout out to store specialist Jessica in Chicopee, MA who had patience with me and solved my issues when I had a meltdown of frustration in her store. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
November 13, 2025 at 5:40 PM
Reposted by EllerslieOfTheWind
“So it was, on that misty morning, that Brenda set off for the capital. She knew not what she would find there, only that the time had come to move on - away from small-minded rural attitudes and people who called her ‘Oreo’ and ‘the wide panda’ - to seek a more fulfilling life.”
November 11, 2025 at 9:36 AM
Still processing that my under coworker was screaming at me on Friday. I have today off, and maybe she is taking the holiday tomorrow. Heard she might take Wednesday off, as she is filing a court case against my company for discrimination for when she got demoted.
I can’t handle conflict! 😩
November 10, 2025 at 1:15 PM
I had a sub coworker who doesn’t report to me scream at me today “why do things always have to be your way?” when I improved a process that adds a small but logical step to her day.
I apparently work with a 4 year old diva.
two little girls are dancing together on a stage in tutus .
ALT: two little girls are dancing together on a stage in tutus .
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November 8, 2025 at 4:23 AM
Yes we were divorced.
Yes he died.
Yes he was a narc.
Yes we were finding our way back.
Yes we were on great terms.
Yes nothing was left unsaid.🤍
Yesterday was our 32 anniv so I took this for one last spin.
Will send it with his ashes when we lay those to rest.
#grief #ALS
November 7, 2025 at 3:36 PM
Ok so the first estimate to put central air in my house was $25,000 so maybe 2 new better grade window units isn’t such a bad thing.

I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised, since my bro’s bathtub replacement was $10G

#airconditioning
a man in a suit and tie is sitting in a chair and asking how much ?
ALT: a man in a suit and tie is sitting in a chair and asking how much ?
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November 5, 2025 at 1:30 PM
My 2 sons have now accomplished the lifelong dream I never achieved -
The are now both homeowners 🥲

#Tara
#realestate
#homeownership
#homeowner
November 5, 2025 at 12:16 PM
Going to freeze #eggnog because I’ve realized it’s such a #hygge for me.

Hot with #nutmeg 🌰
Cold with whipped cream 🧋
And in coffee = a complete breakfast ☕️ 🌟
November 5, 2025 at 12:16 PM
#Eggnog is the ultimate coffee creamer. Fight me.
November 5, 2025 at 12:15 PM
Do not use #Mainstays canning jars from @Walmart. I had one box as a sub for the @BallCanning jars I usually use, and most DID NOT SEAL, tried twice. Ain’t nobody got time for that.

#canning
#foodpreservation
#homesteading
November 2, 2025 at 12:58 PM
#harvest25 #canning is complete. Batches of:

Strawberry, blueberry, raspberry, strawberry-jalapeño, strawberry-rhubarb jams; apple butter, corn relish, pickle relish, pickles, green tomato chutney, and strawberry pie filling.

Christmas gifts!

#homesteading
November 2, 2025 at 12:57 PM
Took a contractor inside my house and I was deathly embarrassed what a mess it was but now I’m home and should clean and I look around and think, eh…..
#priorities
#sundaymotivation
November 2, 2025 at 12:40 PM
Fighting #paranoia as I realize my adult kids are really busy, understandably, and live 1-2h away, so it is conceivable they may only come here every 4-6 weeks which means maybe 10x/year or less

WHAT?
And when they have kids, even busier! 😭

#priorities
#lifestyle
#roadtrip
a person is laying on a hammock in a puddle in a yard .
ALT: a person is laying on a hammock in a puddle in a yard .
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November 1, 2025 at 1:57 PM
First presentation to my direct manager today that I want to trade my travel responsibilities for admin.
Bring it up the chain on Monday.
What could go wrong?
Can’t hurt to ask?

#theresthedoor
a man is carrying a cardboard box with his belongings
ALT: a man is carrying a cardboard box with his belongings
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October 30, 2025 at 9:43 AM