Gender is a social construct. You can’t decide to divide it into male and female. Gender and sex are two distinct categories. Gender is on a spectrum. Scientifically sex is also on the spectrum.
If you want to read more a good resource is in my comments.

The average American adult owns 2 sex toys!

In comparing abstinence-only programs with comprehensive sex education, comprehensive sex education was associated with a 50% lower risk of teen pregnancy

Young people who received comprehensive sex education were significantly less likely to have a teen pregnancy compared to those who received no sex education.

3 percent of people have no sexual fantasies at all. Surprised?

“Sexual boredom emerged as a stronger predictor of both sexual and relationship satisfaction than either partner-related or other-related sexual desire. Higher sexual desire for a partner = lower levels of sexual boredom, which, in turn, predicted greater sexual and relationship satisfaction”

Talk about sex with your friends (not in a creepy way) and your sex life will improve! It can normalize what you think might be abnormal and give you new ideas to try out with your partners.

Women's sexuality often peaks in their 30s:
Orgasmic frequency and Sexual fantasies: Women between 27 and 45 have more frequent and intense sexual fantasies than younger or older women.

Clitoral sensitivity:
The clitoris contains a high concentration of nerve endings, making it a primary source of sexual pleasure for most women.

Fun Fact: The majority of women can’t orgasm from intercourse alone. They need clitoral stimulation!

If you know, you know. If you don’t you very well should!

Currently reading The Tattooist of Auschwitz by Heather Morris.

I like to discuss everything that is taboo…sex, politics, money and religion! Who shall I follow?