Dear son
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A dad to 6 sons. I give actionable advice to young men on how to live their full potential.
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Dear son
@dearson.bsky.social
· Nov 16
As a man,
If you see a hot girl and she doesn't like you. Cool.
Another one will.
If you have a job interview and they don't hire you. Cool.
A better one is coming.
Quit living in scarcity.
The world is a huge place many with opportunities.
If you see a hot girl and she doesn't like you. Cool.
Another one will.
If you have a job interview and they don't hire you. Cool.
A better one is coming.
Quit living in scarcity.
The world is a huge place many with opportunities.
Dear son,
Whatever you do in this life, never complain to a woman about how hard your life is. She'll give you sympathy followed by a loss of interest in you.
Whatever you do in this life, never complain to a woman about how hard your life is. She'll give you sympathy followed by a loss of interest in you.
November 25, 2024 at 12:36 PM
Dear son,
Whatever you do in this life, never complain to a woman about how hard your life is. She'll give you sympathy followed by a loss of interest in you.
Whatever you do in this life, never complain to a woman about how hard your life is. She'll give you sympathy followed by a loss of interest in you.
Dear son,
When God wants you to grow, he makes you be depressed, broken, lonely, and tired. Please don’t break
When God wants you to grow, he makes you be depressed, broken, lonely, and tired. Please don’t break
November 25, 2024 at 12:36 PM
Dear son,
When God wants you to grow, he makes you be depressed, broken, lonely, and tired. Please don’t break
When God wants you to grow, he makes you be depressed, broken, lonely, and tired. Please don’t break
As a man, be ready to pay the price of loneliness, pain, failure, rejection, loss, disrespect, and setbacks to win in life. No shortcut.
November 25, 2024 at 12:35 PM
As a man, be ready to pay the price of loneliness, pain, failure, rejection, loss, disrespect, and setbacks to win in life. No shortcut.
Bro to bro: learn a high paying digital skill you can leverage. I promise it will change your life.
November 25, 2024 at 12:34 PM
Bro to bro: learn a high paying digital skill you can leverage. I promise it will change your life.
Man to man:
A horny man can lose everything in a day.
1 minute of lust can ruin your whole life.
Success requires sexual discipline.
Control your sexual urges, and you'll go far in life.
A horny man can lose everything in a day.
1 minute of lust can ruin your whole life.
Success requires sexual discipline.
Control your sexual urges, and you'll go far in life.
November 20, 2024 at 7:58 AM
Man to man:
A horny man can lose everything in a day.
1 minute of lust can ruin your whole life.
Success requires sexual discipline.
Control your sexual urges, and you'll go far in life.
A horny man can lose everything in a day.
1 minute of lust can ruin your whole life.
Success requires sexual discipline.
Control your sexual urges, and you'll go far in life.
19th November 2024!
Today's International Men's Day.
Shout out to all men fixing their life even through pain, loneliness, or disrespect, lock in. You're winning.
Today's International Men's Day.
Shout out to all men fixing their life even through pain, loneliness, or disrespect, lock in. You're winning.
November 19, 2024 at 8:47 AM
19th November 2024!
Today's International Men's Day.
Shout out to all men fixing their life even through pain, loneliness, or disrespect, lock in. You're winning.
Today's International Men's Day.
Shout out to all men fixing their life even through pain, loneliness, or disrespect, lock in. You're winning.
Man to man: Never let your brother stand alone during hard times.
November 19, 2024 at 8:13 AM
Man to man: Never let your brother stand alone during hard times.
I hate poverty. I hate how poverty destroys peoples dignity . I hate how cruel the world is to a poor man.
November 19, 2024 at 8:12 AM
I hate poverty. I hate how poverty destroys peoples dignity . I hate how cruel the world is to a poor man.
You're a man. Show up every day to fix your life. Do it alone. Do it broke. Do it tired. Do it scared.
Doesn't matter.
JUST FUCKING DO IT.
Doesn't matter.
JUST FUCKING DO IT.
November 19, 2024 at 8:12 AM
You're a man. Show up every day to fix your life. Do it alone. Do it broke. Do it tired. Do it scared.
Doesn't matter.
JUST FUCKING DO IT.
Doesn't matter.
JUST FUCKING DO IT.
Dear son,
You can’t get much done in life if you only work on the days you feel good. Do it tired, do it broke, do it unmotivated, just do it. No excuses.
You can’t get much done in life if you only work on the days you feel good. Do it tired, do it broke, do it unmotivated, just do it. No excuses.
November 19, 2024 at 8:11 AM
Dear son,
You can’t get much done in life if you only work on the days you feel good. Do it tired, do it broke, do it unmotivated, just do it. No excuses.
You can’t get much done in life if you only work on the days you feel good. Do it tired, do it broke, do it unmotivated, just do it. No excuses.
Nobody works harder than a man who understands he's the only hope for himself and his family
November 19, 2024 at 8:10 AM
Nobody works harder than a man who understands he's the only hope for himself and his family
Dear son,
Stop imagining your future with every woman you find attractive.
As a man, lust is your first enemy to conquer.
Stop imagining your future with every woman you find attractive.
As a man, lust is your first enemy to conquer.
November 18, 2024 at 6:58 PM
Dear son,
Stop imagining your future with every woman you find attractive.
As a man, lust is your first enemy to conquer.
Stop imagining your future with every woman you find attractive.
As a man, lust is your first enemy to conquer.
Man to man: Do whatever it takes to own a piece of land before you hit 35.
November 18, 2024 at 6:57 PM
Man to man: Do whatever it takes to own a piece of land before you hit 35.
Dear son,
Life goes on, with or without friends, with or without love. Tired or not. You're a man. Keep going.
Life goes on, with or without friends, with or without love. Tired or not. You're a man. Keep going.
November 18, 2024 at 6:57 PM
Dear son,
Life goes on, with or without friends, with or without love. Tired or not. You're a man. Keep going.
Life goes on, with or without friends, with or without love. Tired or not. You're a man. Keep going.
As a man. There's no shame in doing odd jobs to fix your life. People will talk, but no one will save you.
November 18, 2024 at 6:56 PM
As a man. There's no shame in doing odd jobs to fix your life. People will talk, but no one will save you.
Dear son,
When you finally make it, leave the hood, change your environment, because your biggest haters are those who used to know you when you were a nobody.
When you finally make it, leave the hood, change your environment, because your biggest haters are those who used to know you when you were a nobody.
November 18, 2024 at 6:56 PM
Dear son,
When you finally make it, leave the hood, change your environment, because your biggest haters are those who used to know you when you were a nobody.
When you finally make it, leave the hood, change your environment, because your biggest haters are those who used to know you when you were a nobody.
Liam Payne died last month.
He had 28,000,000 die hard fans worldwide.
And yet, no one is talking about him anymore.
That's how quickly people forget you.
Imagine when you die?
Less money. Less fame. Less fans.
You'll be forgotten within a day.
Live life in your own terms.
He had 28,000,000 die hard fans worldwide.
And yet, no one is talking about him anymore.
That's how quickly people forget you.
Imagine when you die?
Less money. Less fame. Less fans.
You'll be forgotten within a day.
Live life in your own terms.
November 18, 2024 at 6:56 PM
Liam Payne died last month.
He had 28,000,000 die hard fans worldwide.
And yet, no one is talking about him anymore.
That's how quickly people forget you.
Imagine when you die?
Less money. Less fame. Less fans.
You'll be forgotten within a day.
Live life in your own terms.
He had 28,000,000 die hard fans worldwide.
And yet, no one is talking about him anymore.
That's how quickly people forget you.
Imagine when you die?
Less money. Less fame. Less fans.
You'll be forgotten within a day.
Live life in your own terms.
Dear son,
The more time you waste,
The longer your parents have to work.
The more time you waste,
The longer your parents have to work.
November 18, 2024 at 6:55 PM
Dear son,
The more time you waste,
The longer your parents have to work.
The more time you waste,
The longer your parents have to work.
Dear son,
BE BORING.
- Wake up early.
- Go for a walk.
- Get sunlight.
- Lift weights.
- Eat healthy.
- Limit alcohol.
- Cook at home.
- Love your family.
You see that low key boring life? It will save you from a lot of things.
BE BORING.
- Wake up early.
- Go for a walk.
- Get sunlight.
- Lift weights.
- Eat healthy.
- Limit alcohol.
- Cook at home.
- Love your family.
You see that low key boring life? It will save you from a lot of things.
November 18, 2024 at 6:55 PM
Dear son,
BE BORING.
- Wake up early.
- Go for a walk.
- Get sunlight.
- Lift weights.
- Eat healthy.
- Limit alcohol.
- Cook at home.
- Love your family.
You see that low key boring life? It will save you from a lot of things.
BE BORING.
- Wake up early.
- Go for a walk.
- Get sunlight.
- Lift weights.
- Eat healthy.
- Limit alcohol.
- Cook at home.
- Love your family.
You see that low key boring life? It will save you from a lot of things.
Bro to bro:
You're not horny,
You're lonely.
You're not lonely,
You're depressed.
You're not depressed,
You lack purpose.
Find a meaningful purpose in your life.
You're not horny,
You're lonely.
You're not lonely,
You're depressed.
You're not depressed,
You lack purpose.
Find a meaningful purpose in your life.
November 18, 2024 at 6:55 PM
Bro to bro:
You're not horny,
You're lonely.
You're not lonely,
You're depressed.
You're not depressed,
You lack purpose.
Find a meaningful purpose in your life.
You're not horny,
You're lonely.
You're not lonely,
You're depressed.
You're not depressed,
You lack purpose.
Find a meaningful purpose in your life.
Dear son,
Don't expect too much,
Because expectations destroy you mentally.
Don't expect too much,
Because expectations destroy you mentally.
November 18, 2024 at 6:54 PM
Dear son,
Don't expect too much,
Because expectations destroy you mentally.
Don't expect too much,
Because expectations destroy you mentally.
Son,
Do not get a tattoo.
It's not a flex anymore.
Do not get a tattoo.
It's not a flex anymore.
November 18, 2024 at 6:53 PM
Son,
Do not get a tattoo.
It's not a flex anymore.
Do not get a tattoo.
It's not a flex anymore.
You can be grinding for 5 years with no results, and on the 6th year, it becomes the biggest thing on the planet. The power of never giving up is real.
November 17, 2024 at 8:15 PM
You can be grinding for 5 years with no results, and on the 6th year, it becomes the biggest thing on the planet. The power of never giving up is real.
You’re a dangerous man if you can go through hard times alone, then reset, restart, reform, rebuild, and rise as if nothing happened
November 17, 2024 at 8:14 PM
You’re a dangerous man if you can go through hard times alone, then reset, restart, reform, rebuild, and rise as if nothing happened