Dawn Super
@dawnsuper.bsky.social
💛 Former Hot Mess ⚠️
> Now Thriving 🌻
Living Life "Happy Matters" 💛
& 📙 How to Be On Your Own Side
🖤 person with narcolepsy ++
Safe Space Compassionate Coach
DawnSuper.com
> Now Thriving 🌻
Living Life "Happy Matters" 💛
& 📙 How to Be On Your Own Side
🖤 person with narcolepsy ++
Safe Space Compassionate Coach
DawnSuper.com
When “Home” Feels Unsafe: How to Reclaim the Word for Yourself | #123
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When “Home” Feels Unsafe: How to Reclaim the Word for Yourself | #123
YouTube video by Happy Matters with Dawn Super
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February 12, 2026 at 12:16 AM
When “Home” Feels Unsafe: How to Reclaim the Word for Yourself | #123
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Not Being Chosen Doesn’t Mean What You Think
If you’re feeling overlooked right now, this message is for you.
This moment is not your whole story.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
If you’re feeling overlooked right now, this message is for you.
This moment is not your whole story.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
February 10, 2026 at 10:10 PM
Not Being Chosen Doesn’t Mean What You Think
If you’re feeling overlooked right now, this message is for you.
This moment is not your whole story.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
If you’re feeling overlooked right now, this message is for you.
This moment is not your whole story.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
The Moment I Realized I Was Actually Valued. Sometimes your world doesn’t change all at once — it changes in a single moment of clarity.
This was mine.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
This was mine.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
February 10, 2026 at 1:15 AM
The Moment I Realized I Was Actually Valued. Sometimes your world doesn’t change all at once — it changes in a single moment of clarity.
This was mine.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
This was mine.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
The Chained Elephant Is Why You Still Feel Stuck
Sometimes what’s holding us back isn’t reality — it’s conditioning. This metaphor explains why early rejection can keep your world small long after it should’ve expanded.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Sometimes what’s holding us back isn’t reality — it’s conditioning. This metaphor explains why early rejection can keep your world small long after it should’ve expanded.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
February 9, 2026 at 12:14 AM
The Chained Elephant Is Why You Still Feel Stuck
Sometimes what’s holding us back isn’t reality — it’s conditioning. This metaphor explains why early rejection can keep your world small long after it should’ve expanded.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Sometimes what’s holding us back isn’t reality — it’s conditioning. This metaphor explains why early rejection can keep your world small long after it should’ve expanded.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
This is just your personality.
Your wiring.
Your fate.
When you’re not on your own side,
patterns feel permanent.
When you are on your own side,
patterns become choices.
That’s the heart of How to Be on Your Own Side.
Your wiring.
Your fate.
When you’re not on your own side,
patterns feel permanent.
When you are on your own side,
patterns become choices.
That’s the heart of How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 7, 2026 at 11:31 PM
This is just your personality.
Your wiring.
Your fate.
When you’re not on your own side,
patterns feel permanent.
When you are on your own side,
patterns become choices.
That’s the heart of How to Be on Your Own Side.
Your wiring.
Your fate.
When you’re not on your own side,
patterns feel permanent.
When you are on your own side,
patterns become choices.
That’s the heart of How to Be on Your Own Side.
What It Does to You When You’re Never Chosen
Growing up without being chosen can quietly shape how you see yourself for decades.
This clip is for anyone who’s ever felt like no one was on their side.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Growing up without being chosen can quietly shape how you see yourself for decades.
This clip is for anyone who’s ever felt like no one was on their side.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
February 7, 2026 at 11:03 PM
What It Does to You When You’re Never Chosen
Growing up without being chosen can quietly shape how you see yourself for decades.
This clip is for anyone who’s ever felt like no one was on their side.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Growing up without being chosen can quietly shape how you see yourself for decades.
This clip is for anyone who’s ever felt like no one was on their side.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Armor of Silk: How Authenticity Protects You
Authenticity isn’t being raw. It’s choosing who you are when it matters.
When your thoughts, words, and actions match, your character speaks for you—even when you’re not in the room.
Read or Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose51
Authenticity isn’t being raw. It’s choosing who you are when it matters.
When your thoughts, words, and actions match, your character speaks for you—even when you’re not in the room.
Read or Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose51
February 6, 2026 at 10:34 PM
Armor of Silk: How Authenticity Protects You
Authenticity isn’t being raw. It’s choosing who you are when it matters.
When your thoughts, words, and actions match, your character speaks for you—even when you’re not in the room.
Read or Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose51
Authenticity isn’t being raw. It’s choosing who you are when it matters.
When your thoughts, words, and actions match, your character speaks for you—even when you’re not in the room.
Read or Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose51
You push.
You override.
You power through.
When you’re not on your own side,
discipline means disconnection.
When you are on your own side,
discipline supports your humanity.
This reframing matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
You override.
You power through.
When you’re not on your own side,
discipline means disconnection.
When you are on your own side,
discipline supports your humanity.
This reframing matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 6, 2026 at 10:22 PM
You push.
You override.
You power through.
When you’re not on your own side,
discipline means disconnection.
When you are on your own side,
discipline supports your humanity.
This reframing matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
You override.
You power through.
When you’re not on your own side,
discipline means disconnection.
When you are on your own side,
discipline supports your humanity.
This reframing matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
After you finish everything.
After you’re better.
After you do more.
When you’re not on your own side,
care is conditional.
When you are on your own side,
care is preventative.
This belief gets reworked in How to Be on Your Own Side.
After you’re better.
After you do more.
When you’re not on your own side,
care is conditional.
When you are on your own side,
care is preventative.
This belief gets reworked in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 5, 2026 at 9:11 PM
After you finish everything.
After you’re better.
After you do more.
When you’re not on your own side,
care is conditional.
When you are on your own side,
care is preventative.
This belief gets reworked in How to Be on Your Own Side.
After you’re better.
After you do more.
When you’re not on your own side,
care is conditional.
When you are on your own side,
care is preventative.
This belief gets reworked in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Self-Love Is a Radical Act of Rebellion
Choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s foundational.
Especially in a world that profits from your doubt.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s foundational.
Especially in a world that profits from your doubt.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
February 5, 2026 at 6:10 PM
Self-Love Is a Radical Act of Rebellion
Choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s foundational.
Especially in a world that profits from your doubt.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s foundational.
Especially in a world that profits from your doubt.
Read or watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose52
Reposted by Dawn Super
Kid, meaning a young goat, is a word that was borrowed from the Vikings around the 9th century. Centuries later, it came to mean a child and a teasing joke. n.pr/45NgvHD
Here's looking at you, kid: How the term for a young goat made the leap to children
Kid, meaning a young goat, is a word that was borrowed from the Vikings around the 9th century. Centuries later, it came to mean a child and a teasing joke.
n.pr
February 5, 2026 at 4:25 AM
Kid, meaning a young goat, is a word that was borrowed from the Vikings around the 9th century. Centuries later, it came to mean a child and a teasing joke. n.pr/45NgvHD
This is just how life is.
Everyone’s exhausted.
Right?
When you’re not on your own side,
overwhelm becomes the baseline.
When you are on your own side,
you redesign instead of endure.
This realization shows up in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Everyone’s exhausted.
Right?
When you’re not on your own side,
overwhelm becomes the baseline.
When you are on your own side,
you redesign instead of endure.
This realization shows up in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 4, 2026 at 8:12 PM
This is just how life is.
Everyone’s exhausted.
Right?
When you’re not on your own side,
overwhelm becomes the baseline.
When you are on your own side,
you redesign instead of endure.
This realization shows up in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Everyone’s exhausted.
Right?
When you’re not on your own side,
overwhelm becomes the baseline.
When you are on your own side,
you redesign instead of endure.
This realization shows up in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Under all the lessons — boundaries, compassion, courage — there’s one truth:
You have the power to stop hurting yourself.
To stop making things worse.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose50
#selfleadership #personalgrowth
You have the power to stop hurting yourself.
To stop making things worse.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose50
#selfleadership #personalgrowth
February 4, 2026 at 3:07 AM
Under all the lessons — boundaries, compassion, courage — there’s one truth:
You have the power to stop hurting yourself.
To stop making things worse.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose50
#selfleadership #personalgrowth
You have the power to stop hurting yourself.
To stop making things worse.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose50
#selfleadership #personalgrowth
Tired.
Hungry.
Overstimulated.
When you’re not on your own side,
signals are inconvenient.
When you are on your own side,
they’re instructions.
This reconnection happens in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Hungry.
Overstimulated.
When you’re not on your own side,
signals are inconvenient.
When you are on your own side,
they’re instructions.
This reconnection happens in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 3, 2026 at 7:11 PM
Tired.
Hungry.
Overstimulated.
When you’re not on your own side,
signals are inconvenient.
When you are on your own side,
they’re instructions.
This reconnection happens in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Hungry.
Overstimulated.
When you’re not on your own side,
signals are inconvenient.
When you are on your own side,
they’re instructions.
This reconnection happens in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Healing isn’t pretty.
Sometimes you cry it out, blow out the candle, and get back up.
No judgment.
Just grit and grace.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#healingjourney #leadwithlove
Sometimes you cry it out, blow out the candle, and get back up.
No judgment.
Just grit and grace.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#healingjourney #leadwithlove
February 3, 2026 at 2:06 AM
Healing isn’t pretty.
Sometimes you cry it out, blow out the candle, and get back up.
No judgment.
Just grit and grace.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#healingjourney #leadwithlove
Sometimes you cry it out, blow out the candle, and get back up.
No judgment.
Just grit and grace.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#healingjourney #leadwithlove
You check first.
Then double-check.
Then hesitate.
When you’re not on your own side,
confidence is outsourced.
When you are on your own side,
you authorize yourself.
This shift is taught in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Then double-check.
Then hesitate.
When you’re not on your own side,
confidence is outsourced.
When you are on your own side,
you authorize yourself.
This shift is taught in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 2, 2026 at 6:10 PM
You check first.
Then double-check.
Then hesitate.
When you’re not on your own side,
confidence is outsourced.
When you are on your own side,
you authorize yourself.
This shift is taught in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Then double-check.
Then hesitate.
When you’re not on your own side,
confidence is outsourced.
When you are on your own side,
you authorize yourself.
This shift is taught in How to Be on Your Own Side.
My symptoms didn’t disappear.
But my mind became a better place to be while I lived with them.
Cheering yourself on changes everything.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#chronicillnesssupport #selfencouragement
But my mind became a better place to be while I lived with them.
Cheering yourself on changes everything.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#chronicillnesssupport #selfencouragement
February 2, 2026 at 1:55 AM
My symptoms didn’t disappear.
But my mind became a better place to be while I lived with them.
Cheering yourself on changes everything.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#chronicillnesssupport #selfencouragement
But my mind became a better place to be while I lived with them.
Cheering yourself on changes everything.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#chronicillnesssupport #selfencouragement
You rehearse.
You anticipate.
You brace.
When you’re not on your own side,
you manage emotions that aren’t yours.
When you are on your own side,
you trust others to handle themselves.
This boundary comes alive in How to Be on Your Own Side.
You anticipate.
You brace.
When you’re not on your own side,
you manage emotions that aren’t yours.
When you are on your own side,
you trust others to handle themselves.
This boundary comes alive in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 1, 2026 at 5:09 PM
You rehearse.
You anticipate.
You brace.
When you’re not on your own side,
you manage emotions that aren’t yours.
When you are on your own side,
you trust others to handle themselves.
This boundary comes alive in How to Be on Your Own Side.
You anticipate.
You brace.
When you’re not on your own side,
you manage emotions that aren’t yours.
When you are on your own side,
you trust others to handle themselves.
This boundary comes alive in How to Be on Your Own Side.
It feels uncomfortable.
So you abort mission.
When you’re not on your own side,
growth feels threatening.
When you are on your own side,
discomfort doesn’t mean “stop” — it means “stretch.”
This distinction matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
So you abort mission.
When you’re not on your own side,
growth feels threatening.
When you are on your own side,
discomfort doesn’t mean “stop” — it means “stretch.”
This distinction matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
February 1, 2026 at 4:08 AM
It feels uncomfortable.
So you abort mission.
When you’re not on your own side,
growth feels threatening.
When you are on your own side,
discomfort doesn’t mean “stop” — it means “stretch.”
This distinction matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
So you abort mission.
When you’re not on your own side,
growth feels threatening.
When you are on your own side,
discomfort doesn’t mean “stop” — it means “stretch.”
This distinction matters in How to Be on Your Own Side.
When my thoughts went straight to misery, I started responding with kindness:
“Yeah. That sucks.”
“Let’s not live there.”
And then I moved on.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#innerdialogue #emotionalregulation
“Yeah. That sucks.”
“Let’s not live there.”
And then I moved on.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#innerdialogue #emotionalregulation
February 1, 2026 at 12:44 AM
When my thoughts went straight to misery, I started responding with kindness:
“Yeah. That sucks.”
“Let’s not live there.”
And then I moved on.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#innerdialogue #emotionalregulation
“Yeah. That sucks.”
“Let’s not live there.”
And then I moved on.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#innerdialogue #emotionalregulation
You felt it instantly.
Then you talked yourself out of it.
When you’re not on your own side,
logic bullies intuition.
When you are on your own side,
you trust yourself to course-correct if needed.
Self-trust is a major theme in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Then you talked yourself out of it.
When you’re not on your own side,
logic bullies intuition.
When you are on your own side,
you trust yourself to course-correct if needed.
Self-trust is a major theme in How to Be on Your Own Side.
January 31, 2026 at 3:07 AM
You felt it instantly.
Then you talked yourself out of it.
When you’re not on your own side,
logic bullies intuition.
When you are on your own side,
you trust yourself to course-correct if needed.
Self-trust is a major theme in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Then you talked yourself out of it.
When you’re not on your own side,
logic bullies intuition.
When you are on your own side,
you trust yourself to course-correct if needed.
Self-trust is a major theme in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Filling your head on purpose with learning, curiosity, and beauty isn’t avoidance.
It’s how you give your mind a break from suffering.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#mentalhealthtools #intentionalliving
It’s how you give your mind a break from suffering.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#mentalhealthtools #intentionalliving
January 30, 2026 at 11:33 PM
Filling your head on purpose with learning, curiosity, and beauty isn’t avoidance.
It’s how you give your mind a break from suffering.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#mentalhealthtools #intentionalliving
It’s how you give your mind a break from suffering.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#mentalhealthtools #intentionalliving
Being Team You doesn’t mean being selfish.
It means you pause long enough to check if you’re included.
Overgiving sneaks up quietly - especially for people pleasers.
Today’s Dose shows a simple way to stay on your own side.
Check it out at 👉 DailyDoseOfDawn dot com
#OMOS
It means you pause long enough to check if you’re included.
Overgiving sneaks up quietly - especially for people pleasers.
Today’s Dose shows a simple way to stay on your own side.
Check it out at 👉 DailyDoseOfDawn dot com
#OMOS
January 30, 2026 at 5:03 PM
Being Team You doesn’t mean being selfish.
It means you pause long enough to check if you’re included.
Overgiving sneaks up quietly - especially for people pleasers.
Today’s Dose shows a simple way to stay on your own side.
Check it out at 👉 DailyDoseOfDawn dot com
#OMOS
It means you pause long enough to check if you’re included.
Overgiving sneaks up quietly - especially for people pleasers.
Today’s Dose shows a simple way to stay on your own side.
Check it out at 👉 DailyDoseOfDawn dot com
#OMOS
You finish the thing.
Then immediately move on.
When you’re not on your own side,
success doesn’t count unless it’s bigger.
When you are on your own side,
progress gets acknowledged — out loud.
This habit changes in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Then immediately move on.
When you’re not on your own side,
success doesn’t count unless it’s bigger.
When you are on your own side,
progress gets acknowledged — out loud.
This habit changes in How to Be on Your Own Side.
January 30, 2026 at 2:06 AM
You finish the thing.
Then immediately move on.
When you’re not on your own side,
success doesn’t count unless it’s bigger.
When you are on your own side,
progress gets acknowledged — out loud.
This habit changes in How to Be on Your Own Side.
Then immediately move on.
When you’re not on your own side,
success doesn’t count unless it’s bigger.
When you are on your own side,
progress gets acknowledged — out loud.
This habit changes in How to Be on Your Own Side.
My life didn’t suddenly feel better.
I was still tired. Still in pain.
But I learned it could still be beautiful.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#gentletruth #copingwithlife
I was still tired. Still in pain.
But I learned it could still be beautiful.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#gentletruth #copingwithlife
January 29, 2026 at 10:22 PM
My life didn’t suddenly feel better.
I was still tired. Still in pain.
But I learned it could still be beautiful.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#gentletruth #copingwithlife
I was still tired. Still in pain.
But I learned it could still be beautiful.
Watch it all here: https://dawnsuper.com/post/dailydose49
#gentletruth #copingwithlife