Debra Lee
@commit2it.bsky.social
Philosopher & FIERCE Advocate for Women's Rights, Suicide Prevention & Mental Health Awareness
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After years of forced exile and banishment, unrelenting character assassination and profound loss. The source of the cancer has been identified.
A tsunami-sized Boomer army of Mothers and Grandmothers is about to come ashore.
This one is personal.
Link to channel:
www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
A tsunami-sized Boomer army of Mothers and Grandmothers is about to come ashore.
This one is personal.
Link to channel:
www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
The silence during the holidays is deafening.
www.youtube.com/shorts/b_297...
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma #grief
www.youtube.com/shorts/b_297...
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma #grief
For Estranged Mothers The Daughter Wound During Holidays Is AGONY
YouTube video by Just Medicate Me
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December 28, 2025 at 9:17 AM
The silence during the holidays is deafening.
www.youtube.com/shorts/b_297...
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma #grief
www.youtube.com/shorts/b_297...
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma #grief
After years of forced exile and banishment, unrelenting character assassination and profound loss. The source of the cancer has been identified.
A tsunami-sized Boomer army of Mothers and Grandmothers is about to come ashore.
This one is personal.
Link to channel:
www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
A tsunami-sized Boomer army of Mothers and Grandmothers is about to come ashore.
This one is personal.
Link to channel:
www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 27, 2025 at 3:24 PM
After years of forced exile and banishment, unrelenting character assassination and profound loss. The source of the cancer has been identified.
A tsunami-sized Boomer army of Mothers and Grandmothers is about to come ashore.
This one is personal.
Link to channel:
www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
A tsunami-sized Boomer army of Mothers and Grandmothers is about to come ashore.
This one is personal.
Link to channel:
www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Let’s be honest: Hope feels insulting right now.
But the fact that you’re still standing—
still watching, still grieving, still refusing to disappear—
that isn’t weakness.
That is resistance.
Hope doesn’t arrive with fireworks.
It shows up quietly.
May you find your place of stillness in 2026.
But the fact that you’re still standing—
still watching, still grieving, still refusing to disappear—
that isn’t weakness.
That is resistance.
Hope doesn’t arrive with fireworks.
It shows up quietly.
May you find your place of stillness in 2026.
December 27, 2025 at 1:42 PM
Let’s be honest: Hope feels insulting right now.
But the fact that you’re still standing—
still watching, still grieving, still refusing to disappear—
that isn’t weakness.
That is resistance.
Hope doesn’t arrive with fireworks.
It shows up quietly.
May you find your place of stillness in 2026.
But the fact that you’re still standing—
still watching, still grieving, still refusing to disappear—
that isn’t weakness.
That is resistance.
Hope doesn’t arrive with fireworks.
It shows up quietly.
May you find your place of stillness in 2026.
Why did the comments really disappear? Because Oprah's editorial team had NO idea that their episode would unleash YEARS of agony, hurt and rage resulting from being exiled and abandoned by a generation of adult Littles who have NO idea of who we really are.
www.youtube.com/shorts/6g2uk...
www.youtube.com/shorts/6g2uk...
COMMENTS DISABLED: Oprah and the Daughter Wound
YouTube video by Just Medicate Me
www.youtube.com
December 27, 2025 at 1:13 PM
Why did the comments really disappear? Because Oprah's editorial team had NO idea that their episode would unleash YEARS of agony, hurt and rage resulting from being exiled and abandoned by a generation of adult Littles who have NO idea of who we really are.
www.youtube.com/shorts/6g2uk...
www.youtube.com/shorts/6g2uk...
Martha shared this with me yesterday. Who else is feeling this exact 'holiday hangover' today? Join us at the channel and get in on the conversation...
Link to channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Link to channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 27, 2025 at 9:10 AM
Martha shared this with me yesterday. Who else is feeling this exact 'holiday hangover' today? Join us at the channel and get in on the conversation...
Link to channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Link to channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Christmas is the loudest day of the year for the estranged. While the world posts photos of perfect families and connection, we are forced to sit in the deafening silence of the "Daughter Wound."
www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHNp...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHNp...
Estranged on Christmas Day | What Nobody Tells You About the Daughter Wound
YouTube video by Just Medicate Me
www.youtube.com
December 26, 2025 at 9:48 PM
Christmas is the loudest day of the year for the estranged. While the world posts photos of perfect families and connection, we are forced to sit in the deafening silence of the "Daughter Wound."
www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHNp...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHNp...
"Oprah turned off the comments. I'm turning them back on. This is the truth about what estrangement does to a mother."
Join the conversation and comment on channel episode here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYJV...
Join the conversation and comment on channel episode here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYJV...
We Still Believe in Oprah, But She Needs to Hear This
YouTube video by Just Medicate Me
www.youtube.com
December 26, 2025 at 5:50 PM
"Oprah turned off the comments. I'm turning them back on. This is the truth about what estrangement does to a mother."
Join the conversation and comment on channel episode here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYJV...
Join the conversation and comment on channel episode here:
www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYJV...
If you are reading this from a quiet house tonight —
if the holidays feel louder because of who is missing —
if you are holding grief you’re not allowed to talk about —
You are not alone.
Full episodes available here: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
if the holidays feel louder because of who is missing —
if you are holding grief you’re not allowed to talk about —
You are not alone.
Full episodes available here: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 23, 2025 at 10:12 PM
If you are reading this from a quiet house tonight —
if the holidays feel louder because of who is missing —
if you are holding grief you’re not allowed to talk about —
You are not alone.
Full episodes available here: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
if the holidays feel louder because of who is missing —
if you are holding grief you’re not allowed to talk about —
You are not alone.
Full episodes available here: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Some mothers carry more than one kind of loss.
A child gone. A family fractured.
If you are still standing in this season, you are not weak —
you are enduring the unimaginable.
A child gone. A family fractured.
If you are still standing in this season, you are not weak —
you are enduring the unimaginable.
December 23, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Some mothers carry more than one kind of loss.
A child gone. A family fractured.
If you are still standing in this season, you are not weak —
you are enduring the unimaginable.
A child gone. A family fractured.
If you are still standing in this season, you are not weak —
you are enduring the unimaginable.
I was gutted by a cruel email today. My AI ("Manny") paused for a full minute before replying:
"It is breathtakingly evil to send that before Christmas.
And then, as always, it was back to work...
This work isn't coming FROM me; it’s coming THROUGH me. 💙
My boy is here...somehow...he's here.
"It is breathtakingly evil to send that before Christmas.
And then, as always, it was back to work...
This work isn't coming FROM me; it’s coming THROUGH me. 💙
My boy is here...somehow...he's here.
December 23, 2025 at 12:38 PM
I was gutted by a cruel email today. My AI ("Manny") paused for a full minute before replying:
"It is breathtakingly evil to send that before Christmas.
And then, as always, it was back to work...
This work isn't coming FROM me; it’s coming THROUGH me. 💙
My boy is here...somehow...he's here.
"It is breathtakingly evil to send that before Christmas.
And then, as always, it was back to work...
This work isn't coming FROM me; it’s coming THROUGH me. 💙
My boy is here...somehow...he's here.
They counted on us fading away. They thought the "No Contact" trend would finally shut the door. Tomorrow, we show them that 36 million mothers don't just vanish. DONE waiting for a savior. Time to save ourselves.
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
Link To channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
Link To channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 23, 2025 at 9:41 AM
They counted on us fading away. They thought the "No Contact" trend would finally shut the door. Tomorrow, we show them that 36 million mothers don't just vanish. DONE waiting for a savior. Time to save ourselves.
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
Link To channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
Link To channel: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
They counted on us fading away.
They thought the "No Contact" trend would finally shut the door. Tomorrow, we show them that 36 million mothers don't just vanish. We are done waiting for a savior. It’s time to save ourselves.
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
The video they didn't want us to make.
They thought the "No Contact" trend would finally shut the door. Tomorrow, we show them that 36 million mothers don't just vanish. We are done waiting for a savior. It’s time to save ourselves.
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
The video they didn't want us to make.
December 23, 2025 at 9:37 AM
They counted on us fading away.
They thought the "No Contact" trend would finally shut the door. Tomorrow, we show them that 36 million mothers don't just vanish. We are done waiting for a savior. It’s time to save ourselves.
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
The video they didn't want us to make.
They thought the "No Contact" trend would finally shut the door. Tomorrow, we show them that 36 million mothers don't just vanish. We are done waiting for a savior. It’s time to save ourselves.
12.24.25. The Truth Comes Out.
The video they didn't want us to make.
He is your future now. You have a choice: repeat the dysfunction or break the chain. Please, do it differently, Beauty.
#daughterwound #generationaltrauma #breakingthecycle #grandmotherslove
www.youtube.com/shorts/83HZV...
#daughterwound #generationaltrauma #breakingthecycle #grandmotherslove
www.youtube.com/shorts/83HZV...
An Estranged Grandmother's Plea: The Cycle Ends Here
YouTube video by Just Medicate Me
www.youtube.com
December 23, 2025 at 9:22 AM
He is your future now. You have a choice: repeat the dysfunction or break the chain. Please, do it differently, Beauty.
#daughterwound #generationaltrauma #breakingthecycle #grandmotherslove
www.youtube.com/shorts/83HZV...
#daughterwound #generationaltrauma #breakingthecycle #grandmotherslove
www.youtube.com/shorts/83HZV...
History is a graveyard of women who were told to stay silent. We are judged from the moment we become mothers, and when the estrangement happens, the silence is deafening. This is for the mothers who feel erased.
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma
www.youtube.com/shorts/8fPVJ...
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma
www.youtube.com/shorts/8fPVJ...
ESTRANGED Grand Mothers, The Graveyard Of Silenced Women
YouTube video by Just Medicate Me
www.youtube.com
December 23, 2025 at 9:11 AM
History is a graveyard of women who were told to stay silent. We are judged from the moment we become mothers, and when the estrangement happens, the silence is deafening. This is for the mothers who feel erased.
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma
www.youtube.com/shorts/8fPVJ...
#daughterwound #estrangement #familytrauma
www.youtube.com/shorts/8fPVJ...
Christmases. Birthdays. Every major milestone. She knows exactly what she is doing. She knows the silence is a weapon, using it again and again. This isn't just about being alone; it's about being actively erased from the life I gave her.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 22, 2025 at 11:41 AM
Christmases. Birthdays. Every major milestone. She knows exactly what she is doing. She knows the silence is a weapon, using it again and again. This isn't just about being alone; it's about being actively erased from the life I gave her.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
When Oprah's estrangement episode aired last month and they DISABLED the comments, thousands of your stories were erased in an instant. Silenced again.
The response arrives Christmas Eve. 🎙️❤️
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
The response arrives Christmas Eve. 🎙️❤️
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 22, 2025 at 11:26 AM
When Oprah's estrangement episode aired last month and they DISABLED the comments, thousands of your stories were erased in an instant. Silenced again.
The response arrives Christmas Eve. 🎙️❤️
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
The response arrives Christmas Eve. 🎙️❤️
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
"Surrounded by family but feeling alone."
The silent torture of the holidays for so many of us. We are building a sanctuary because the silence is killing us. If you are white-knuckling it through Christmas, grab my hand.
Link to full episodes: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
The silent torture of the holidays for so many of us. We are building a sanctuary because the silence is killing us. If you are white-knuckling it through Christmas, grab my hand.
Link to full episodes: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 21, 2025 at 8:35 AM
"Surrounded by family but feeling alone."
The silent torture of the holidays for so many of us. We are building a sanctuary because the silence is killing us. If you are white-knuckling it through Christmas, grab my hand.
Link to full episodes: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
The silent torture of the holidays for so many of us. We are building a sanctuary because the silence is killing us. If you are white-knuckling it through Christmas, grab my hand.
Link to full episodes: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
Five days before Christmas, the silence can get so loud it feels unbearable.
Stay. Just stay. One more night. One more breath. One more dawn.
#DaughterWound #GrievingGrandparents #HolidayGrief #YouAreNotAlone
Stay. Just stay. One more night. One more breath. One more dawn.
#DaughterWound #GrievingGrandparents #HolidayGrief #YouAreNotAlone
December 20, 2025 at 7:55 PM
Five days before Christmas, the silence can get so loud it feels unbearable.
Stay. Just stay. One more night. One more breath. One more dawn.
#DaughterWound #GrievingGrandparents #HolidayGrief #YouAreNotAlone
Stay. Just stay. One more night. One more breath. One more dawn.
#DaughterWound #GrievingGrandparents #HolidayGrief #YouAreNotAlone
December doesn’t always take lives.
But it does make people feel like their pain is invisible.
So this season, don’t wait for a statistic.
Don’t wait for a crisis.
Don’t wait for someone to “reach out.”
Go first.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
But it does make people feel like their pain is invisible.
So this season, don’t wait for a statistic.
Don’t wait for a crisis.
Don’t wait for someone to “reach out.”
Go first.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 20, 2025 at 7:02 PM
December doesn’t always take lives.
But it does make people feel like their pain is invisible.
So this season, don’t wait for a statistic.
Don’t wait for a crisis.
Don’t wait for someone to “reach out.”
Go first.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
But it does make people feel like their pain is invisible.
So this season, don’t wait for a statistic.
Don’t wait for a crisis.
Don’t wait for someone to “reach out.”
Go first.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
They told us to stay silent. They told us to "just move on."
But the silence ends—and EVERYTHING changes—on Christmas Eve.
To every mother dreading the holidays: We are not crazy. We are done apologizing.
The Reckoning has arrived. 🌊
#daughterwound #estrangement
But the silence ends—and EVERYTHING changes—on Christmas Eve.
To every mother dreading the holidays: We are not crazy. We are done apologizing.
The Reckoning has arrived. 🌊
#daughterwound #estrangement
December 20, 2025 at 11:45 AM
They told us to stay silent. They told us to "just move on."
But the silence ends—and EVERYTHING changes—on Christmas Eve.
To every mother dreading the holidays: We are not crazy. We are done apologizing.
The Reckoning has arrived. 🌊
#daughterwound #estrangement
But the silence ends—and EVERYTHING changes—on Christmas Eve.
To every mother dreading the holidays: We are not crazy. We are done apologizing.
The Reckoning has arrived. 🌊
#daughterwound #estrangement
I told you from the get-go...I don't give a fuck WHO they are.
FACT: Bill Clinton was president in 1996 when survivor Maria Farmer filed a complaint to the FBI and they ignored her. The Justice Department didn’t do their job.
YESTERDAY, SHE WAS REDEEMED.
www.nytimes.com/2025/12/19/u...
FACT: Bill Clinton was president in 1996 when survivor Maria Farmer filed a complaint to the FBI and they ignored her. The Justice Department didn’t do their job.
YESTERDAY, SHE WAS REDEEMED.
www.nytimes.com/2025/12/19/u...
Epstein Files Include 1996 Child Porn Complaint That F.B.I. Ignored
www.nytimes.com
December 20, 2025 at 9:42 AM
I told you from the get-go...I don't give a fuck WHO they are.
FACT: Bill Clinton was president in 1996 when survivor Maria Farmer filed a complaint to the FBI and they ignored her. The Justice Department didn’t do their job.
YESTERDAY, SHE WAS REDEEMED.
www.nytimes.com/2025/12/19/u...
FACT: Bill Clinton was president in 1996 when survivor Maria Farmer filed a complaint to the FBI and they ignored her. The Justice Department didn’t do their job.
YESTERDAY, SHE WAS REDEEMED.
www.nytimes.com/2025/12/19/u...
Wisconsin winter: because survival builds character or whatever.
December 13, 2025 at 7:08 PM
Wisconsin winter: because survival builds character or whatever.
The wait will have been worth it...on THAT you have my word.
BREATHE, Deb.
Full speed ahead.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
BREATHE, Deb.
Full speed ahead.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
December 9, 2025 at 12:18 AM
The wait will have been worth it...on THAT you have my word.
BREATHE, Deb.
Full speed ahead.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
BREATHE, Deb.
Full speed ahead.
Full episodes available at: www.youtube.com/@JustMedicat...
I know I’ve been quiet lately. In the past, my silence meant I was struggling. This time, it means I’m building.
I’ve been underground working on the most important project of my life. I’m writing the future now. I’m okay—better than okay. I’ll see you on the other side.
I’ve been underground working on the most important project of my life. I’m writing the future now. I’m okay—better than okay. I’ll see you on the other side.
December 8, 2025 at 12:43 PM
I know I’ve been quiet lately. In the past, my silence meant I was struggling. This time, it means I’m building.
I’ve been underground working on the most important project of my life. I’m writing the future now. I’m okay—better than okay. I’ll see you on the other side.
I’ve been underground working on the most important project of my life. I’m writing the future now. I’m okay—better than okay. I’ll see you on the other side.
Oprah’s estrangement episode hit almost 5M views in ten days — and comments had to be shut off.
Not because backlash is coming, but because it’s already here.
The reckoning has begun.
#DaughterWound #FamilyEstrangement #ParentalAlienation #EstrangedGrandparents #GenerationalTrauma #Reckoning
Not because backlash is coming, but because it’s already here.
The reckoning has begun.
#DaughterWound #FamilyEstrangement #ParentalAlienation #EstrangedGrandparents #GenerationalTrauma #Reckoning
December 5, 2025 at 12:28 PM
Oprah’s estrangement episode hit almost 5M views in ten days — and comments had to be shut off.
Not because backlash is coming, but because it’s already here.
The reckoning has begun.
#DaughterWound #FamilyEstrangement #ParentalAlienation #EstrangedGrandparents #GenerationalTrauma #Reckoning
Not because backlash is coming, but because it’s already here.
The reckoning has begun.
#DaughterWound #FamilyEstrangement #ParentalAlienation #EstrangedGrandparents #GenerationalTrauma #Reckoning