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Chatting With The Lightkeeper
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Blogger, Coffee Aficionado, Dominant, D/S Advocate, Podcaster, & Skier Sharing My Passion About BDSM In A Positive, Uplifting Space. Michigan Is Home.

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Exploring #BDSM can feel thrilling and terrifying all at once but it does not have to be. This week’s Monday Minute breaks it down, helping you learn and grow confidently 👇
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Learn And Grow Confidently In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Exploring BDSM can feel thrilling and terrifying all at once. This week’s Monday Minute breaks it down, helping you learn and grow in BDSM.
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January 26, 2026 at 1:43 PM
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Role play is more than just Little Red Riding Hood meeting their Big, Bad, Naughty Wolf! See how role play can reveal hidden parts of yourself and spark growth in this week's Fetish Friday👇 #bdsm #d/s #roleplay #kink
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Understanding Role Play In BDSM And Kink - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This week's Fetish Friday explores role play in BDSM, D/S and kink. Discover how role play is more than just something fun, but a gateway to discovery.
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January 23, 2026 at 1:38 PM
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They walk among us, crowned in confidence and hollow at the core. Even in #poetry they live. This week’s verse is dedicated to them, but Wordsmith Wednesday also brings hope.
Discover the heartache and hope below 👇
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Ode To The Pretender - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Wordsmith Wednesday poem is a reflection on those who play at dominance in D/S. Treating submissives as playthings and yet the poem inspires hope.
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January 21, 2026 at 1:29 PM
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Exploring #BDSM is a voyage into self-discovery, but…

Have you ever wondered what happens when we try something kinky and new?

Think #rituals are just for #submissives?

Find the answers in my new #podcast episode. Just tap the link below:
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.
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January 20, 2026 at 1:33 PM
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Have you ever completed a #BDSM checklist or are you curious how to use one effectively?

This week’s Monday Minute answers those questions, plus grab a free checklist.

Check it off your checklist by clicking below 👇
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Understanding And How To Use BDSM Checklists - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
BDSM checklists make talking about desire easier. Learn how to use them as conversation starters without letting checkmarks replace genuine connection.
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January 19, 2026 at 1:25 PM
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Why is the #kneeling #submissive everywhere in #BDSM?

Ever wondered where that came from?

Maybe you’ve wondered, do I have to kneel?

What if you don’t want to?

No worries, #Fetish Friday breaks it down👇
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Everything You Need To Know About Kneeling In BDSM and D/S - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Kneeling in D/S draws from centuries of meaning. This Fetish Friday learn why some people find it powerful while others avoid it completely.
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January 16, 2026 at 1:42 PM
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Do you find falling snow an annoyance? Perhaps making your commute slow and painful?

This Wordsmith Wednesday looks at snow differently. Discover how snow can clean the earth and soul 👇 #poem #poetry
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White Silence - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Experience the quiet mercy of a winter storm in the poem White Silence for Wordsmith Wednesday. Discover how a world buried in white clean your soul.
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January 14, 2026 at 2:10 PM
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When was the last time you told a partner thank you?

This week’s Wordsmith Wednesday is a poetic note of thanks, written to my beautiful submissive with a hint of the erotic.

Discover this heartfelt #poem today 👇
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Thank You - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Wordsmith Wednesday is a personal poem. A poetic thank you note to the love of my life and submissive Saylour.
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January 7, 2026 at 2:33 PM
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Do you know what the biggest #fantasy in America is? Research shows that 89% of Americans daydream about it.

Check out my latest #podcast episode for the answers. Tap below to listen or find Chatting With The Lightkeeper on your podcasting apps:
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Listen Now To The Podcast & Be Inspired - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Explore the captivating world of BDSM, D/S, and kink through discussions and insights heard in the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast.
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January 6, 2026 at 1:45 PM
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Asking for what we want can be hard and sometimes #submissives act out rather than ask. Do not spank this Monday Minute, it is being good but discover why asking instead of misbehaving is key👇
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Asking Versus Acting Out BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Monday Minute looks at why submissives sometimes act out instead of asking for what they want and how it affects D/S relationships.
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January 5, 2026 at 8:49 PM
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#D/S is not about who is stronger versus weaker, contrary to the tropes about dominant = strong, submissive = weak.

The idea dominance is a 'strong' He/Him & submissive is a 'weak' she/her is blatant disrespect for any #dominant not male & any #submissive not female.
January 3, 2026 at 7:57 PM
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Need something to watch in the New Year? Check out these twenty-seven kinktastic movies 👇
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Twenty-Seven Lifestyle Movies - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Are you in the mood for a kinktastic movie? Maybe a binge night of lifestyle related films? Here is a list of twenty-seven movies that are worth a watch along with what they get right about BDSM, what...
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January 1, 2026 at 10:52 PM
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What happens when a Grinch and one filled with holiday joy meet?

This Wordsmith Wednesday’s #poem shares my journey from grumpy to secretly starting to see the wonder of the season.

Discover how love can transform the holidays:
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Holiday Transformation - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Wordsmith Wednesday explores the personal journey of transformation that began this holiday season. See how a Grinch's heart is softening.
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December 31, 2025 at 1:25 PM
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Have you ever felt pulled toward a #BDSM experience despite warning signs?

This Monday Minute examines the frenzied mindset in BDSM

Discover how to recognize it in yourself or others and practical ideas for handling #frenzy should it appear⬇️
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BDSM And Frenzy - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Monday Minute examines frenzy in BDSM, how to recognize it in yourself or others and what to do when it happens. A must read!
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December 29, 2025 at 2:31 PM
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How did 2025 treat #BDSM and #polyamory in the media? Explore what the media in 2025 brought, good and bad in this week’s Fetish Friday.
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BDSM/Ethical Non-Monogamy In The Media 2025 - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Fetish Friday, takes a fascinating journey looking back at how BDSM, kink, or polyamory where shown in the media during 2025.
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December 19, 2025 at 4:27 PM
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How do you define dominance in #D/S? Can you suggest one word that comes close?

My word is leadership, but what does that mean? Find out in this week’s Monday Minute:
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Leadership In D/S Relationships - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
What one word answer defines dominance in D/S? For me, it is leadership but what does that mean? Find out in this Monday Minute.
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December 15, 2025 at 1:13 PM
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Once upon a time, there were two kinktastic communities with much in common but they often did not play nicely with each other.

This Fetish Friday, see how #BDSM and #swinging are interconnecting:
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The Disappearing Divide: BDSM, Swinging, and the New Crossover Culture - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
The divide between BDSM and swinging are coming down. This Fetish Friday discover what happens when these two worlds stopped keeping secrets.
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December 12, 2025 at 1:50 PM
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While the crop, flogger, paddle, etc. leave physical marks that fade, a dominants leadership should leave a permanent positive imprint on their submissive’s soul. #bdsm #d/s #kinkeducation
December 11, 2025 at 8:23 PM
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This week's Wordsmith Wednesday's #poem explores the heavy weight of past choices and consequences that trail behind, leading you through a mindscape built from sustained loss and profound ache. #poetry
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The Pulse Beneath The Wreckage - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This Wordsmith Wednesday's poem steps into a world of poetic intensity that charts the emotional journey through relentless pressure and deep internal struggle, where the very atmosphere seems to tigh...
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December 10, 2025 at 4:02 PM
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What is a hot new trend in #BDSM? Using lifestyle #porn in place of #kink education. Now the content has not changed, the plots are still horrendous but many think what they see on their screen is how to do it. Tap the link in my bio or below to listen today.
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December 9, 2025 at 1:21 PM
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Has this trend popped up at you on #BDSM and #kink sites?

You click for a profile, expecting a smiling face and instead it jumps out like a phallic Jack-In-The-Box.

This Monday Minute takes a humorous, hard look ⬇️
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The Eggplant Profile Picture - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Why the plethora of penis pictures on BDSM sites? After careful consideration, here is my take on why eggplants as profile pics are popping up.
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December 8, 2025 at 1:43 PM
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What happens when home goes from a place to a person?

Wordsmith Wednesday looks at what happens when a person becomes the home your heart recognizes. Let this verse carry you back to the feeling of home: #poem #poetry #home
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Home - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This week's Wordsmith Wednesday poem is about the journey home. The holiday season is filled with trips home, but what happens when it goes from a place to a person?
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December 3, 2025 at 1:57 PM
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Have you ever missed something important while vetting? Do you know what vetting is or how to do it?

This week’s Monday Minute brings you clarity on the gravity of vetting and no matter if you are new or somewhere in-between: #vetting #bdsm #ds

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Vetting With Confidence In BDSM - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
This important guide to vetting in BDSM (part of the finding someone process) will let you confidently seek the right partner(s) for you.
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December 1, 2025 at 2:06 PM
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What fetish was given the title of 2025’s #fetish of the year? It is one that has fascinated people for centuries & now has a month dedicated to its celebration.

Discover this Fetish in this special Black Friday edition of Fetish Friday. #bdsm #d/s
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Chastity Kink: 2025's Fetish Of The Year - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Chastity that has fascinated for centuries and now it ranks as the thirteenth most 'Googled' kink and was named the 2025 fetish of the year.
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November 28, 2025 at 4:19 PM
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Do you struggle to give yourself grace?

Grace can bring growth, if we let it. This Wordsmith Wednesday’s #poem explores grace and how it has transformed my #relationship.

Can #grace help you grow? Find out in Grace, Three...
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Grace, Three - Chatting With The Lightkeeper
Wordsmith Wednesday's verse brings to life the impact grace has had in my relationship. Even under the weight of life, grace is good.
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November 26, 2025 at 4:41 PM